I've failed in something absolutely critical...

[echostation]

and I feel crushed, like absolutely completely crushed, i've never felt like this before and I have no idea of how to face my 'rents on this.

I've experienced failure before but nothing like this... i just crashed to the ground and couldn't move for hours, i still don't know what to do and while i feel like absolute abominable ****, my bigger thing is how the hell am i gonna face my folks and tell them I've failed them... I can't exactly talk about what this is exactly but does it matter? not really, just something so importantly critical that I have no clue what to do now.

My folks have been through hell and back and then some more, they've had to deal with so much and so much of that has had to do with external forces... now to tell them that I've failed them this time... one of their own, I just can't imagine what the look will be on their faces... the hurt, **** i'm in tears writing this now and I NEVER cry (you can call bull**** on that all you want but i'm dead serious, ever...).. i know they'll be there to support but i just know exactly what's going on in their heads..

How do you folks manage to deal with something like this, like something so colossally paramount that needed to be done but couldn't and you might not get another chance... I'm really at a loss for words right now...

 

[Fran]

What did you fail at?

 

[OobeDoobBenubi]

What did you fail at?

My guess is Halo Multiplayer ?

jk

 

[Badger]

Wow, I would like to help (if I can), but it's hard not knowing the details. It's understandable not wanting to put them on board. So I will say this, if you have close relationship with your parents then there is nothing you can't get through. It might change things, but unconditional love (if there) fixes almost anything. Good Luck.

 

[Badger]

My guess is Halo Multiplayer ?

jk

That would be earth shattering.

 

[November Rain]

How do you folks manage to deal with something like this, like something so colossally paramount that needed to be done but couldn't and you might not get another chance... I'm really at a loss for words right now...

 

[dpm07]

and I feel crushed, like absolutely completely crushed, i've never felt like this before and I have no idea of how to face my 'rents on this.

I've experienced failure before but nothing like this... i just crashed to the ground and couldn't move for hours, i still don't know what to do and while i feel like absolute abominable ****, my bigger thing is how the hell am i gonna face my folks and tell them I've failed them... I can't exactly talk about what this is exactly but does it matter? not really, just something so importantly critical that I have no clue what to do now.

My folks have been through hell and back and then some more, they've had to deal with so much and so much of that has had to do with external forces... now to tell them that I've failed them this time... one of their own, I just can't imagine what the look will be on their faces... the hurt, **** i'm in tears writing this now and I NEVER cry (you can call bull**** on that all you want but i'm dead serious, ever...).. i know they'll be there to support but i just know exactly what's going on in their heads..

How do you folks manage to deal with something like this, like something so colossally paramount that needed to be done but couldn't and you might not get another chance... I'm really at a loss for words right now...

You accept the things you can not change, and you move on. Life doesn't stop because you failed at something. Everyone faces adversity and challenges in every facet of their existence. The true measure is how you assess the situation that you are faced with, and address it.

What has happened, has happened. Now, what can you do to make your life, and the lives of those around you better. Keep moving forward. If you stop moving, you become complacent. One door closes and another opens.

 

[CFE]

I've felt this before, maybe not this harsh though...

When I failed Algebra my Senior year and I had to take summer school while most everyone else graduated.

I never got to walk across a stage...

Then again, high school's nothing but a bunch of asses anyway, so

CFE

 

[CFE]

t:

BWAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!



sorry...killed the moment. Back to the topic.

CFE

 

[muertevilla]

ehh your folks will be ok. the problems of youth are less serious than the problems of their parents. unless you found a way to get your folks fired from their jobs or your face is on, or will be in the near future, the front page of the news paper charged with being a petter ass then i think they will be fine. if you failed at a scholarship or something then its community college for you and thus making their expenses a lot less. i'm not a parent, but i think when i become a dad i am not going to care much about my kids.

 

[LexCorp]

Poor guy

 

[Cobblepot]

While I have no idea what your talking about, it can't be that bad. Think it over once (not too much) and try to see things in perspective. Will you have to deal with this for the rest of your live or can you somehow fix it? Even if it takes months or years. Don't sweat it.

 

[arachnid-guy]

I wish I'll never be in your situation. But like others have said, unconditional love solves everything.

What happened?

 

[Sensi]

I cry and cry and cry. Then I begin taking small steps toward facing life and eventually even the biggest problems and failures disappear as life just seems to continue. I am so sorry you feel so defeated now but please know there will be a new tomorrow just keep taking the steps.

 

[Cobblepot]

Crying is not an option, real men don't cry!

 

[arachnid-guy]

Real men do.

 

[muertevilla]

yeah...i cry... and i got lots of chest hair and can smash a guys face in

 

[Cobblepot]

That a current miss conception. Men that keep track of fashion do, real men don't give a damn about fashion hence they don't weep.

 

[WTFimVENOM]

That a current miss conception. Men that keep track of fashion do, real men don't give a damn about fashion hence they don't weep.

Im a real man, and Im sure that if my mom got stabbed in the face and died I would cry a bit

 

[LexCorp]

Im a real man, and Im sure that if my mom got stabbed in the face and died I would cry a bit

That's just a stupid thing to say

 

[Cobblepot]

As long as you shed no tears, you can join my club.

O I forget, real men don't join and participate in clubs.

 

[WTFimVENOM]

That's just a stupid thing to say

you're right, I shouldn't have said that I would cry...

 

[CFE]

It's not a matter of whether or not real men cry...that's complete bulls**t...

Human Beings cry...it's an aspect of ones humanity.

It doesn't show that you're weak. It shows that you have a soul.

The only way you don't cry is if you're a robot.

CFE

 

[Cobblepot]

You guys never heard of sarcasm...

 

[LexCorp]

you're right, I shouldn't have said that I would cry...

t: Silly bugger