Military Moms Breastfeeding in Uniform Stir Controversy

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At a time when breastfeeding in public is already controversial, pictures of two military moms doing so while wearing their uniforms is sparking outrage.

The photo is part of a local breastfeeding awareness campaign by Mom2Mom of Fairchild Air Force Base, a support group launched in January by Crystal Scott, a military spouse and mother of three. Among the intimate close-ups of smiling young mothers cuddling their adorable babies, the images of the two airmen stand out.

"People are comparing breastfeeding in uniform to urinating and defecating in uniform. They're comparing it to the woman who posed in "Playboy" in uniform [in 2007]" Scott told Yahoo! Shine in an interview. "We never expected it to be like this."

"I'm an X-ray tech and I breastfeed in my uniform all the time," Scott says. "Granted they're scrubs. But people do it all the time in their uniforms. If you have a hungry baby, why would you take the time to change completely?"

Terran Echegoyen-McCabe, a member of the Air National Guard who was photographed in uniform nursing her 10-month-old twin daughters, says that she's surprised by the reaction to the photos.

"I have breastfed in our lobby, in my car, in the park ... and I pump, usually in the locker room," she told the "Today" show, adding that she usually nurses her babies while on her lunch break during drill weekends. "I'm proud to be wearing a uniform while breast-feeding. I'm proud of the photo and I hope it encourages other women to know they can breastfeed whether they're active duty, guard or civilian."

All of the women in the photos volunteered to appear in the awareness campaign, and Echegoyen-McCabe is featured -- wearing civilian clothing -- in a few of the other candid shots. None of the photos are posed; the women are simply feeding their babies the way they usually do. But even though some of the other photographs are just as revealing, only the ones of Echegoyen-McCabe and her friend Christina Luna in uniform have been criticized.

"The Air Force has never endorsed these photos," the photographer, Brynja Sigurdardottir points out on her website, where she posted several other photos from the Mom2Mom campaign. "These women just happen to be in the Air Force, in their uniform, breastfeeding their babies."

When it comes to talking about breastfeeding in public, comparing it to other bodily functions -- and even sex -- is common, in spite of the fact that breastfeeding is legal and protected while defecating or having sex in public is not. But the fact that two of the moms are shown breastfeeding in public while wearing military uniforms makes the entire controversy more complicated. The Army, for example, didn't even come up with a combat uniform for women until 2010, so accepting the idea of a uniformed soldier breastfeeding a baby may be especially jarring. And the uniforms themselves come with their own sets of rules.

According to Military Spouse Central, public displays of affection -- even something as innocuous as holding hands -- are not allowed while wearing a military uniform. Also forbidden while in uniform: eating, drinking, or talking on a cell phone while walking, carrying an umbrella that's not black, and (in some cases) smoking or even chewing gum. While there is no policy that addresses breastfeeding in uniform, Air Force spokesperson Captain Rose Richeson told MSNBC: "Airmen should be mindful of their dress and appearance and present a professional image at all times while in uniform." Military moms who are still breastfeeding are encouraged to pump and bottle-feed their babies while they're in uniform.

Scott suggests that the issue might have less to do with the uniform and more to do with our own internal conflicts. "I think a lot of people think that you can't be a mom and be a soldier," she says. "This is not something that's out of norm for them. They breastfeed in uniform all the time -- it's just not something that's usually captured on film."

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I think I had a dream like this once.

Seriously though, I don't see the problem. Personally I don't really dig the act of breast feeding in public and I think that's up for debate, but doing it in the uniform is just a silly point to argue.
 
... all this does is remind me that I need a girlfriend bad..
 
Shows how overly conservative our country is once again. Un-be-lievable.
 
I was in the Navy for 11 years. The rules for being in uniform are very strict. I don't have an issue with women breast-feeding but to do it in uniform is a little too much.
 
I was in the Navy for 11 years. The rules for being in uniform are very strict. I don't have an issue with women breast-feeding but to do it in uniform is a little too much.
so do you take off the uniform to use the restroom?
 
so do you take off the uniform to use the restroom?

unless you want to go in your pants you do

Like I said there are strict rules for the uniform. The one the women are wearing is only for on base work....you are not allowed to go off base in it....with the exception of going home. Its not a uniform to be hanging around outside in.
 
unless you want to go in your pants you do

Like I said there are strict rules for the uniform. The one the women are wearing is only for on base work....you are not allowed to go off base in it....with the exception of going home. Its not a uniform to be hanging around outside in.
i do get that but i don't see how these women are dishonoring the uniform if all they are doing is breast feeding. they aren't just flashing or anything like that. and if there isn't a code about breast feeding then they can't be breaking it.
 
I find this ridiculous. I grew up in a military family and understand the uniform guidelines but this is stupid. Its a natural act of nourishing a baby. Its not disgraceful in any way so I don't see how its disgraceful to the uniform. Furthermore I know people don't change out of their uniform to ****. You drop trou and do your business. So how this can cause a problem is beyond me.
 
i do get that but i don't see how these women are dishonoring the uniform if all they are doing is breast feeding. they aren't just flashing or anything like that. and if there isn't a code about breast feeding then they can't be breaking it.

i didn't say they were dishonoring the uniform...I said to me its a bit much...
 
It can be difficult not to notice. Plus, it can really bother some people, men and women alike. I'm not in that camp though, but I can see their point.
Unless the infant is "bawling their eyes out" hungry, then in all honesty I don't see why feeding cannot wait until they get home, or in the car, or a less public place.

But I certainly do not believe that military mothers breast feeding their babies while in uniform is worse than any mother breast feeding.
 
From what I've seen regarding comments online or in interviews guys that were or are currently military take issue with it moreso than guys that haven't been.
 
I've heard more about breastfeeding in the past six months, than I have in the past ten years.
 
When I read that article, all I can think of was that "Wow, these military moms are hot!" :o

Anyway, I don't really understand the controversy behind it. So a mother cannot breastfeed her babies when she's wearing her uniform? That sounds rather absurb. It's not like those women were pole-dancing or doing strip-tease. The controversy is unwarranted.
 
I'm not a prude but breast feeding in public annoys me. Look lady I love boobs as much as the next guy but I don't need to see that ****. And before anyone says "It's a natural thing, they're just feeding their babies." Yeah, taking a piss is natural too but if I whip my stuff out and pee in public I'm going to jail.
 
I'm not a prude but breast feeding in public annoys me. Look lady I love boobs as much as the next guy but I don't need to see that ****. And before anyone says "It's a natural thing, they're just feeding their babies." Yeah, taking a piss is natural too but if I whip my stuff out and pee in public I'm going to jail.

When did breastfeeding become as vulgar as pissing in the public? :huh:
 
Why do boobs offend people its just breasts?

I would rather a women breast feeding in public than hear her kid screaming the place down because their hungery.
 
When did committing a natural act become vulgar?

Breastfeeding is about nourishing a young infant, while pissing is about ejecting excretions from your body. You can try to categorize both things as "natural acts" to prove your argument, but no one can say that these two are similar in any way. Therefore, I don't see your point.
 
Why do boobs offend people its just breasts?

I would rather a women breast feeding in public than hear her kid screaming the place down because their hungery.

I'm not offended by boobs. It's just that I want to run around with my junk hanging out and I can't. I hate double standards.:csad:
 
I'm not offended by boobs. It's just that I want to run around with my junk hanging out and I can't. I hate double standards.:csad:

Well, boobs aren't genitalia like your junk is, so it's not the same.
 
Well, boobs aren't genitalia like your junk is, so it's not the same.

It's totally the same, stop hating on my junk bro.


Funny thing though, in any other moment other than breast feeding, whipping your boobs out is considered illegal. So I think we found a loophole for Mardi Gras.
 
Breasts are not seen as a sexual thing everywhere which is why those tribal women in Africa and South America walk around topless as breasts are not seen as sexual.

In Europe many women on beaches go topless and most people don't care.

Mens penises are not used to feed people so comparing it with breastfeeding is ridiculous
 

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