I recently picked up Spider-Man: Blue at my local library along with the recent Cho/ Millar collaboration in the "Angelo Fortunato as Venom" storyline. I found that Blue stirred up lots of good sentiment I had watching SM:TAS as well as back when the classic stories weren't mired down in idiocy. It's not exactly what I'd call "male-orientated". I can see how some people may be put off by the romance element. But I think this is the kind of story where the romance element is developed so well that you'll kick yourself if you don't read it for that reason alone. The way it gives a good light to Gwen while showing that Mary Jane is an equally important part of Peter's life really made me reconsider whether one is truly better than the other, and the actual usage of villains in a way that makes coherent sense is pure nostalgia to days when Spider-Man was a well-written masterpiece. Some have said Peter comes off at the end as obsessed about the past, but after all the time of holding in the emotions I would imagine he gushes it out the same way Blue so excellently shows. I'm wasn't a huge fan of the art, but after reading it a second time I came to enjoy the artistry in it. It's a bit sketchy, but a good modern touch to the drawing style of old. I'm buying it ASAP for my collection, and suggest the same for yourself.
Oh, and the Cho/ Millar collaboration? An excellent reason why Blue shines like a star- the recent Spider-Man stories pale in comparison.