what should I do?

[deathshead2]

For the past week my mom has been calling me a failure. I try to talk to her and to do what she wants but she still yells at me and tosses stuff. She is really hurting my feelings. She keeps telling me to do my homework and I have.

 

[Fran]

For the past week my mom has been calling me a failure. I try to talk to her and to do what she wants but she still yells at me and tosses stuff. She is really hurting my feelings. She keeps telling me to do my homework and I have.

Damn, that is not really cool, dude.

Does she have a drinking problem? That could trigger it. Maybe stress from work, or something else. That sucks.

 

[Tsunulia]

......... Try hiding the alcohol on her.......... that should fix it.

 

[Fran]

Well, demand for her to talk to you!!

 

[Alpha and Omega]

For the past week my mom has been calling me a failure.

No offense, but your Mom's the failure for calling her own flesh and blood one. If I were you, I'd try to tune that out as much as possible.

 

[Fran]

No offense, but your Mom's the failure for calling her own flesh and blood one.

I'd have to agree with Alpha on that! She really has no right to do that, she's essentially calling herself a failure.

 

[deathshead2]

she doesn't work and she barly drinks. I have come up with an idea or 2 why she does it. I think its mostly because she knows im growing up and don't need her. I know when to study I do my homework by myself I can drive now. Im 16 and she still wants me to be 5 so she can have something to do.She even yells at me when I drive like pointing out stop sighs that I can clearly see. Dang now that I think about she has been insulting everything I have ever done throughout my whole life.Nothing I do is right for her.

 

[Kaleb]

thats not cool man, I feel sorry for you no mother should ever treat their kids like dirt

 

[Fran]

You really need to sit her down, dude. That **** wouldn't fly with me.

 

[Boom]

she doesn't work

And she's calling you a failure?

No offense dude.

 

[Hades]

You really need to sit her down, dude. That **** wouldn't fly with me.

Yeah, but what can you do? especially if it's your only parent.

 

[thewhitequeen]

Honestly that sucks that she would talk to you like that, but study/work hard, get a scholarship to college and move out.

 

[deathshead2]

I've tried to sit her down to talk but she gets angry and starts yelling then I start yelling. Then she storms off and I just say im sorry and go back to what I was doing. Hmmm this is depressing. Maybe Sat I can sit her down to talk to her for once. Hopefully she won't play the "ground you" card.

 

[deathshead2]

And she's calling you a failure?

No offense dude.

My dad brings in the income and my mom just takes care of the house and me well at least me when I was younger. She doesn't need to do anything with me for school anymore so she has alot of freetime. I've told her to get a job shes even talked about getting one. Heck I do well enough in school for me to have time to get one.

 

[thewhitequeen]

Also, a former 16 year old (I'm 18 now) I know that that's a tough age to be at. In alot of ways you might have to accept that you're not always going to see eye to eye with your mom. She deff shouldn't talk to you like that, but it might get better as you get older. Especially if you try not to pertetuate argument (which, of course, I did with my mom)

 

[Fran]

Get your dad involved!

 

[JLBats]

Wow, this thread is depressing.

 

[thewhitequeen]

Get your dad involved!

Too true. Sometime the best way to make a parent understand is to talk to the other parent. They listen to eachother sometimes when they won't listen to you.

 

[Mee]

I would suggest cut your wrists, then write a poem about it, rinse and repeat.

But that would be rude of me.

 

[Fran]

I'm outtie, got class in teh morning.

I'll check back in though.

Good night d00dz

 

[deathshead2]

Get your dad involved!

I dad does his best to cool my mom down most of the time by stating my good grades all A's by the way.

 

[deathshead2]

I would suggest cut your wrists, then write a poem about it, rinse and repeat.

But that would be rude of me.

I using all of my energy not to get to that point I will not be EMO NEVER .

 

[Fran]

Good, we don't need anymore emo's.

 

[Boom]

I dad does his best to cool my mom down most of the time by stating my good grades all A's by the way.

Wow. You really are a failure .

 

[deathshead2]

Good, we don't need anymore emo's.

I won't go to their side I must control myself.I feel much better now. SHH makes me feel better.