Frog Warlord
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I agree, it's probably not healthy for males to aspire to that kind of unrealistic body image either. But, realistically, how often do you see that happening? How many guys' quality of life is significantly reduced because they're not jacked? Plus, society tells us there are tons and tons of other ways men can be valued, whereas looks weigh a lot heavier for women--even intelligent politicians and sophisticated authors are still often reduced to being thought of in terms of what they wear in public. The world's still pretty kind to average-looking men.
I agree, women are more often objectified then men and I recognize from my own daily life the examples you give of people in their professional life being reduced to their looks and this is incredibly frustrating and unfair and happens more often to women than to men. This is a huge social problem and the standards do indeed differ. In many parts of the world and in many aspects of life it is, regrettably, still a huge disadvantage to be born a woman. This needs to change. So, I agree with you on that, wholeheartedly.
However, to answer your question, I would like to note that I have had male friends suffer from body image problems and confidence issues, not unlike those problems we often hear women face, and that gets very little attention. Often men do not talk about their feelings, since they are taught from a young age not to share their emotions but just 'deal with them and not be a wuss', as that is the masculine thing to do. This can cause much suffering and in some cases even suicide, which is one of the primary causes of death for young male adults in certain parts of the Western world. The ideal of masculinity (just like the ideal of femininity) is quite harmful in that respect.
Maybe my last post wasn't clear in this regard, but I am a huge supporter of more diversity body wise, for women but also for men. Wouldn't it be cool to see some more male superheroes who are over-weight, don't have an athletic build or are in other ways just less masculine?

I will be sure to pick this comic up!
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