Heres a question: why is it that Tobeys Peter could be with MJ because she CHOSE it in SM2, but in TASM even though Gwen WANTS to be with him, KNOWS his secret, and KNOWS the dangers that come with it
shes not allowed that same happiness? How is it somehow more responsible to leave her to fend for herself in the wake of her fathers death? How does that make him less of an ass? No one ever explains this at all.
I mean yeah, her dad wanted that. Thats nice. Does that make every guy who ever dated a girl whose dad didnt like him an ass? Should he have dumped her because daddys not fond of him? The daughter has no say? Is this the 1950s?
And furthermore, how exactly is he a horrible person" throughout? He saves a kids life even at the risk of revealing himself, he got in harms way when he didnt need to, he made a choice to go after the Lizard and protect people BEFORE he knew it was Curt Connors (or do people forget the scene on the bleachers ever happened?) and the best part: this comes after his selfish endeavor to only go for crooks that bore resemblance to the guy that killed Uncle Ben.
Know what that right there is? A CHARACTER ARC. What did he learn? RESPONSIBILITY. And the next movies official synopsis even refers to the fact that what her father says to him still weighs on his mind. Know what that might be called? AN ONGOING CHARACTER ARC.
Like seriously people, yall act like Peter pretends his human side doesnt exist. Like what, after Gwens death in the comics, should he not have stayed away from Mary Jane? Would that not have been the responsible" thing to do? To simply break himself free of any unnecessary attachment so no one else would get hurt? Is this what you expect?
Best get angry with Stan Lee and Gerry Conway then, because they thought otherwise.
Like seriously people, what the actual frig do you want from him, because whatever you seem to recall having read is DEFINITELY NOT SPIDER-MAN.
This movie was directed by a man who grew up reading the comics, who can name the issue in which obscure, oft-forgotten things in the comics happened, who also included references in this film to Spidey comics half of everyones never read. (Untold Tales of Spider-Man #1 comes to mind with his conversation with Captain Stacy.) I think its pretty safe to say he gets him.