How do you read a girl?

[Tangled Web]

Alright, I have a situation here?

There's this girl. She got me to admit I liked her and all that and she said that I definitley have a shot with her. The only problem was is that she had a boyfriend. After some talking she told me that she doesn't like him and he's too clingy.

She said she wants to break up with him. Did my revelation prompt this? I have no idea. Well, she sends me a text saying that she broke up with him (with a smiley face on it.) Well, I misplaced my cell for two days. I find it and I reply that "I don't know what to say." She then tells me that "it's been one of the worst days ever!" I ask if there is anything she can do, but she says no.
So that was on Wednsday, so today I send her a text asking if she feels better. She said "yes" because "Jimmy (**** it his name is Jimmy) finally talked to me today after being mad at me." So know I have no idea what the **** is going on.

She's playing some weird chess game with me. I need to know how I can try to get the real scoop without making it seem obvious that I care. I want to come off like (you know) not really concerned.

Any suggestions?

 

[Master Chief]

Uh. Just ask her out.?..?

 

[Mr Sparkle]

She's playing some weird chess game with me. I need to know how I can try to get the real scoop without making it seem obvious that I care. I want to come off like (you know) not really concerned.

Any suggestions?

ask yourself why YOU'RE playing at all.

 

[Mr. Credible]

dude, you got it right, she's playing games with you.

girls (and really, people in general) like to have people fawn over them...

more than likely this girl has no intention of breaking up with her boyfriend, she just likes having you dig her.

i'm in an eerily similar situation right now, and what i opted to do was just completely blow the girl off, no calls, nothing, and see what happens. we'll see if she actually cares enough to call or come see me or anything. otherwise, what's the point?

 

[Tangled Web]

ask yourself why YOU'RE playing at all.

Because I have so much to give...

dude, you got it right, she's playing games with you.

girls (and really, people in general) like to have people fawn over them...

more than likely this girl has no intention of breaking up with her boyfriend, she just likes having you dig her.

i'm in an eerily similar situation right now, and what i opted to do was just completely blow the girl off, no calls, nothing, and see what happens. if she actually cares enough to call or come see me or anything.

It's such a pain in the ass, huh? Should I fawn over her or act like I don't give a ****?

 

[Master Chief]

As he said, she prolly just likes the attention. So it's prolly not leading anywhere. Hoowah. Try out the latter or continue with the former and be her betch.

 

[jimmy]

I. . . I don't know where to begin.

Hah, my name is Jimmy.

 

[Kaleb]

Run away......Im serous

 

[Mr Sparkle]

Because I have so much to give...

Oh, I'll bet you horndog. I mean what will YOU get out of it.
for the most part it seems like Headaches.

trust me, tons of girls out there bro! TONS!




TONS!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[heypapajinx]

pleeeease honey, take this from a girl.
she's playing games. and the sure fire way to put a stop to it is go up to her, ask her out.
if she gives you some round about answer, don't bother with her.
games will screw you up once you start playing.
that's not the way to learn about love.
there are probably plenty of girls who would like to give you the time of day, those are the girls you need pursue, not the attention hungry scags of this world.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

like I said.....TONS OF GIRLS!!!!

 

[Crooklyn]

pleeeease honey, take this from a girl.
she's playing games. and the sure fire way to put a stop to it is go up to her, ask her out.

Worst advice ever.

That'll make him seem more like a lapdog. TW take the high road and ditch the situation. But if you're curious, play it off, but don't totally ignore her. If she comes clamoring up to you more than usual, you'll know she's an attention ****e. However, if she worriedly asks, "what's wrong with you? why aren't you talking to me?" in a serious manner....the ball has officially been handed over to you.

 

[Kaleb]

TONS

 

[Tangled Web]

like I said.....TONS OF GIRLS!!!!

Well, I know there are plenty of girls out there. But, this one (I think) is way out of my league but she doesn't see it that way. When else am I going to get that kind of oppurtunity.

Plus, I actually care about her and all that. I'm actually happy when I talk to her.

 

[Mr. Credible]

pleeeease honey, take this from a girl.
she's playing games. and the sure fire way to put a stop to it is go up to her, ask her out.
if she gives you some round about answer, don't bother with her.
games will screw you up once you start playing.
that's not the way to learn about love.
there are probably plenty of girls who would like to give you the time of day, those are the girls you need pursue, not the attention hungry scags of this world.

exactly... tell her you want to take her out now that she's single. guage her reaction, and if she still kind of blows you off, then do the same.

if you're lucky, she'll get confused by you blowing her off, and like you because of it. good looking girls who get hit on all the time tend to do that.

 

[Tangled Web]

Worst advice ever.

That'll make him seem more like a lapdog. TW take the high road and ditch the situation. But if you're curious, play it off, but don't totally ignore her. If she comes clamoring up to you more than usual, you'll know she's an attention ****e. However, if she worriedly asks, "what's wrong with you? why aren't you talking to me?" in a serious manner....the ball has officially been handed over to you.

Yeah, I'm hoping this is the kind of situation that turns out.

 

[jimmy]

There are more girls. Look around.

 

[Crooklyn]

Yeah, I'm hoping this is the kind of situation that turns out.

On the downside it's entirely up to your "reading" skills. Some girls are just natural-born deceivers. They're hard to read, even when it seems they're vulnerable.

 

[Tangled Web]

There are more girls. Look around.

I don't want to sound cliche, but there are none like her.

Sure, she's not perfect, but I want this to happen.

I don't know what's wrong with me.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

Well, I know there are plenty of girls out there. But, this one (I think) is way out of my league but she doesn't see it that way. When else am I going to get that kind of oppurtunity.

Plus, I actually care about her and all that. I'm actually happy when I talk to her.

no, no, no...she's TELLING you, she thinks this.
that means nothing!
and when are you getting that opportunity? pretty much any other days since you're freaking 16!
and you don't care about her, you "care" about her ( you can't see it, but I'm using air quotes) which means ...again NOTHING! if you don't play her game you'll forget all about her in 2 months time tops.
if you DO I foresee like a year of frustration in your future.
I'm telling you dood take the Red pill because..right now, from what I'm hearing the Matrix has you.

 

[heypapajinx]

Worst advice ever.

That'll make him seem more like a lapdog. TW take the high road and ditch the situation. But if you're curious, play it off, but don't totally ignore her. If she comes clamoring up to you more than usual, you'll know she's an attention ****e. However, if she worriedly asks, "what's wrong with you? why aren't you talking to me?" in a serious manner....the ball has officially been handed over to you.

see. that's what i'm talking about. that's just another game.
ignore her and wait for her to come to you.
that is just STOOOOOOOPID!
you go up to her face, say "now that you're not seeing him, i would like to take you out". then, if she says anthing OTHER than "yes. when?", she's not worth a single more minute of your time.
the ignore and wait game is the worst advice ever.
then he has to spend the next several weeks, months, waiting for some sort of reaction?! no. just confront it and get it over with.
maybe it's just because i'm an older girl, but i think games are just a waste of time. i would rather know if they're into me or not right off the bat.

exactly... tell her you want to take her out now that she's single. guage her reaction, and if she still kind of blows you off, then do the same.

the force is stong with you young Jedi.:heart:

 

[Crooklyn]

no, no, no...she's TELLING you, she thinks this.
that means nothing!
and when are you getting that opportunity? pretty much any other days since you're freaking 16!
and you don't care about her, you "care" about her ( you can't see it, but I'm using air quotes) which means ...again NOTHING! if you don't play her game you'll forget all about her in 2 months time tops.
if you DO I foresee like a year of frustration in your future.
I'm telling you dood take the Red pill because..right now, from what I'm hearing the Matrix has you.

I wouldn't go ahead jumping into conclusions just yet. He needs to elaborate on what he meant by "she doesn't see it that way". Because the precedent that set off that statement changes a lot of things.

I've been down the Road of Regret twice in my life cuz I thought the girl was playing me. Wasn't until a few years down the road where I realize I was being a petty b1tch. Hurts even more when you see the girl again.....and they're 4x as hot.

 

[Tangled Web]

I wouldn't go ahead jumping into conclusions just yet. He needs to elaborate on what he meant by "she doesn't see it that way". Because the precedent that set off that statement changes a lot of things.

When she confronted me about me liking her she asked why I didn't want to tell her before. I told her that I thought she was way out of my league. She said "You're older then me, so isn't it the other way around?" I don't know, I have no idea.

 

[Crooklyn]

see. that's what i'm talking about. that's just another game.
ignore her and wait for her to come to you.
that is just STOOOOOOOPID!
you go up to her face, say "now that you're not seeing him, i would like to take you out". then, if she says anthing OTHER than "yes. when?", she's not worth a single more minute of your time.
the ignore and wait game is the worst advice ever.
then he has to spend the next several weeks, months, waiting for some sort of reaction?! no. just confront it and get it over with.
maybe it's just because i'm an older girl, but i think games are just a waste of time. i would rather know if they're into me or not right off the bat.

the force is stong with you young Jedi.:heart:

Lol, if you were an editor, it'd be for this magazine:

If the game is being put on you...don't ***** out, PLAY it and throw it right back at her. Asking her out is exactly what she wants, and chances are, she won't expect things to be flipped on her if she decided to play TW in the first place. Which is even better since it's unexpected.

 

[Joker]

my suggestion as always in situations like this is abduct and kill the boyfriend, then abduct her and show her the body while yelling about how you two can finally be together now, then rape and kill her...that'll teach her to f**k around with you like that