My friend needs a place to stay...should I invite him to live with me?

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After reading his response I think I'm ready to make this happen and welcome him into my midst.
 
Kelvin is not to blame for the situation he's currently in. I blame the following people:


  • Kelvin's parents for not continuing to provide for him.
  • his abusive uncle for threatening him.
  • Viacom for shutting down MrEnter's Youtube channel for petty reasons.
  • Coral for being a psychopath, whether she is a cult leader or not.
  • the lights that have been bothering Kelvin, whatever their origin are.
 
After reading his response I think I'm ready to make this happen and welcome him into my midst.

You are out of your mind. You're offering this guy a room in your house and he's making demands of you (high speed internet connection? FIOS television? Wtf?).

Don't put this burden on your parents. It's not your call.
 
You are out of your mind. You're offering this guy a room in your house and he's making demands of you (high speed internet connection? Wtf?).

Don't put this burden on your parents. It's not your call.

For one, Viacom has wronged our friend, and this all started with MrEnter's Youtube channel being shut down, so once Kelvin is here, we are going to boycott all Viacom owned channels. 2, I have talked it over with my parents and they expressed interest in me bringing over a friend, since it's not something I've done often before.
 
Yeah, it sounds like your parents have enough on their plate handling you.
 
FINALLY I got a text from Kelvin:
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Sometimes my life can be a bit on edge when things don't go my way. I would consider your offer if you can provide me with a completely furnished room that includes: a high speed internet connection (including WiFi), television (preferably FiOS), refrigerator, bed, overall comfortable living quarters and some more once I think of them. My options available to me aren't good, if I go back with my parents or my uncle they said I have to fill out job applications. Coral wants me to be her human lab rat. Viacom refuses to talk with me about Mr. Enter. So as you can see, none of these are viable options for me. I will consider staying with you if you pay for travel costs and provide me a fully furnished living space as detailed above.
Sounds like an ass to me. He demands stuff from someone asking to help him? No wonder no one close to him wants him around.

Kelvin is not to blame for the situation he's currently in. I blame the following people:


  • Kelvin's parents for not continuing to provide for him.
  • his abusive uncle for threatening him.
  • Viacom for shutting down MrEnter's Youtube channel for petty reasons.
  • Coral for being a psychopath, whether she is a cult leader or not.
  • the lights that have been bothering Kelvin, whatever their origin are.
Actually...it sounds absolutely like Kelvin is to blame for his situation....he needs to take responsibility for his actions and get the treatment that others have most likely recommended. You sound like an enabler...him a taker....that is the road to ruin.
 
Yeah, invite someone to your house and they make demands of you to pay for new things for them on top of housing and food. Sounds like a great friend not using you at all.
 
Yeah, invite someone to your house and they make demands of you to pay for new things for them on top of housing and food. Sounds like a great friend not using you at all.

Would you stay at someone's house if they didn't have TV or internet. I know I wouldn't. Neither would Kelvin or anyone.
 
Would you stay at someone's house if they didn't have TV or internet. I know I wouldn't. Neither would Kelvin or anyone.

I'd kiss the path they walk on if I was desperate and they offered me shelter.
 
Would you stay at someone's house if they didn't have TV or internet. I know I wouldn't. Neither would Kelvin or anyone.

Over being homeless? Crazy thought, you don't be an added burden to someone and have them pay room and board for you and then demand extra.

On top of this, you're enabling paranoid delusions of some kind of female supremacy cult with Viacom and Youtube that sits outside houses flashing green lights at people. Seek a therapist. Please.
 
Would you stay at someone's house if they didn't have TV or internet. I know I wouldn't. Neither would Kelvin or anyone.

Oh, but he doesn't just want a TV, he wants a FIOS. And more things once he thinks about it. As a guy who is about to be homeless, making demands of someone willing to take him in is incredibly selfish.

If you can't see that he's taking you for a ride, then you almost deserve this.

Your parents don't, though.
 
Kelvin is not to blame for the situation he's currently in. I blame the following people:


  • Kelvin's parents for not continuing to provide for him.
  • his abusive uncle for threatening him.
  • Viacom for shutting down MrEnter's Youtube channel for petty reasons.
  • Coral for being a psychopath, whether she is a cult leader or not.
  • the lights that have been bothering Kelvin, whatever their origin are.

1) Not going into that
2) Threatening to make him have a job? If he's aware enough to make youtube videos, post online and other things then thee's a good chance he is good enough to get a job. Even something parttime 10 hours a week would be a decent start. He's not demanding he work hard labour for $1/hour in the freezing cold.
3) It's a massive company. They do what they do to protect trademarks, copyrights and other things. Also, random people can send up complaints about things to get the channel shut down in the name of the company and a good amount of the time no one actually looks into it before shutting it down.
4) Probably not a cult leader, might just be a *****. No idea.
5) The lights are probably delusions, just like some random guy being forced to wear a slave collar by a feminist supremacy cult to alter brain pathways due to being autistic.

Honestly, I think his family is just trying to make him learn to grow up and not be completely reliant on them. They probably had his uncle look after him since he seems to be willing to be tougher on him than his parents.
 
I'd kiss the path they walk on if I was desperate and they offered me shelter.

I know this is a desperate situation, but, knowing that, like I said he has autism and he's being threatened by his uncle and being chased by GOD knows what...then I'm inclined to make his stay has comfortable as possible with all the luxuries that he's used to.
 
I know this is a desperate situation, but, knowing that, like I said he has autism and he's being threatened by his uncle and being chased by GOD knows what...then I'm inclined to make his stay has comfortable as possible with all the luxuries that he's used to.

I thought his uncle was abusive. How nice that he still enjoys luxury items.
 
I thought his uncle was abusive. How nice that he still enjoys luxury items.

I meant when he was staying with his parents. He has a phone with internet, but that's about it. He's said before his phone is his life chord.
 
I meant when he was staying with his parents. He has a phone with internet, but that's about it. He's said before his phone is his life chord.

So let me get this straight. On top of current expenses, you expect your parents to pay for FiOS, his cell phone bill, possibly upgrading your internet and room and board for him? Do you see the problem here?
 
I meant when he was staying with his parents. He has a phone with internet, but that's about it. He's said before his phone is his life chord.

He's taking advantage of you. No reasonable human being would make a list of demands to someone who was offering to house them. You are putting yourself and your parents at risk. Don't do it.
 
So let me get this straight. On top of current expenses, you expect your parents to pay for FiOS, his cell phone bill, possibly upgrading your internet and room and board for him? Do you see the problem here?

Well we don't have FiOS...we do have high speed internet and a fridge and we have a guest room where he can stay.

And to answer someone's earlier question yes I do know Kelvin's real name. I also know MrEnter's real name, which is Jonathan Rozanski.
 
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