My friend needs a place to stay...should I invite him to live with me?

[Snow Queen]

Here is Coral's account:
http://www.comicvine.com/profile/coral_wyvern/

She just reads like someone who really misinterpreted their partner's BDSM kink.

 

[KevanG]

Or plans to take over the world to implement that.

 

[Snow Queen]

Or plans to take over the world to implement that.

An extreme fetishist. I've heard of kinky but this is just ridiculous.

 

[Fallen Angel]

Cardinal Red does Kelvin have a sister?

 

[CardinalRed]

No, he has a step brother named Matt who's a few years younger than him iirc.

 

[KevanG]

There you go Clippy. Go for it.

 

[Fallen Angel]

There you go Clippy. Go for it.

You'd think I'd be grossed out but, no.

 

[Feenix]

So CardinalRed, you started this thread clearly looking for advice about your friend. No one thinks this is a good idea and have actively tried to convince you not to do it.

So my question to you is, why did you bother starting this thread to ask for advice if you weren't going to take it? Do you honestly believe you know better than us? You've gotten advice from men and women from all walks of life. You haven't gotten a single positive response to your question. Don't be an idiot.

Do not open up your home to him and do not put your parents and yourself at risk.

 

[KevanG]

You asked for a sibling. Don't be picky.

 

[CardinalRed]

He probably wouldn't be in this mess if his biological father hadn't left in the first place but that's neither here or there now.

If I do bring Kelvin into our household, I probably will try to find him some sort of form of income, even if it's just doing simple chores around the house. Don't tell him that though, I'll gradually introduce that idea to him once he's here and comfortable. This all depends on whether or not he consents to this.

So CardinalRed, you started this thread clearly looking for advice about your friend. No one thinks this is a good idea and have actively tried to convince you not to do it.

So my question to you is, why did you bother starting this thread to ask for advice if you weren't going to take it?

I had intended to allow him to live with me but I am open to advice, so long as it's backed by sound reasoning and not "Kelvin is lazy" or "Kelvin is a maniac", those aren't good reasons, they are mere assumptions.

 

[Fallen Angel]

You asked for a sibling. Don't be picky.

I'm not Kev read the damn post.

 

[Ultron-5]

What does Kelvin want from you? A room, food and drink and what else?

 

[Feenix]

It is sound advice. I can't believe you don't see how ridiculous it is for him to make demands of you in order for him to consider moving in.

Give your head a shake.

 

[CardinalRed]

What does Kelvin want from you? A room, food and drink and what else?

The basic building blocks of life yes, food, water, shelter. He also wants the luxuries afforded to him when he was staying with his parents, television, internet, and the like. I'm not going to deny him those things when I have easy access to them. We also have a small storage/guest room that would be a good place to keep him in there.

 

[Fallen Angel]

So CardinalRed, you started this thread clearly looking for advice about your friend. No one thinks this is a good idea and have actively tried to convince you not to do it.

So my question to you is, why did you bother starting this thread to ask for advice if you weren't going to take it? Do you honestly believe you know better than us? You've gotten advice from men and women from all walks of life. You haven't gotten a single positive response to your question. Don't be an idiot.

Do not open up your home to him and do not put your parents and yourself at risk.

Forget reasoning with him, He isn't going to listen.

Just have fun while this thread last's.

 

[C. Lee]

He also wants the luxuries afforded to him when he was staying with his parents, television, internet, and the like.

Then he should have done whatever it took to stay at home with them.

I'm not going to deny him those things when I have easy access to them.

Why not? Are you providing them to everyone that needs them...or just the ones that demand it from you?

We also have a small storage/guest room that would be a good place to keep him in there.

Like I said....sounds more and more like a CRIMINAL MINDS episode. Will you provide him with lotion too?

 

[Octoberist]

This is the best I can do for him right now, offer him a place to stay. I did get another text from him saying he'll think it over, he's currently looking into seeing if he can place a tarniff on Comicvine posts as a means to make money? I don't fully understand what he means by that, I sent him a follow up text asking for more details.

The answer is still no because you really don't know the guy. He's on online friend. And if I was him, I would never put someone like you in this sort of situation.

If you're still living with your parents, it's not even UP to you.

 

[CardinalRed]

Forget reasoning with him, He isn't going to listen.

Just have fun while this thread last's.

To clarify: I am NOT letting a stranger into my midst, I'm letting someone who I've known for 5 years, and someone who has been fairly good natured the whole time I've known him save for the past 2 weeks when he was taken out of his comfort zone from a family who doesn't understand his needs. Having him here would not be a burden and could maybe even be a godsend to have him stay with us to take care of.

 

[Ultron-5]

This whole thing is a little fishy. Has this so called "female supremacist" threatened him?

 

[OriginalMiles]

Bruh, he's gonna stab you in your sleep.

Dude sounds super cray.

 

[Snow Queen]

This whole thing is a little fishy. Has this so called "female supremacist" threatened him?

By telling him things from the future where women are 20 feet tall and keep men on high tech obedience collars. Also flashing green lights outside his window.



No, I'm being serious.

 

[Fallen Angel]

This whole thing is a little fishy. Has this so called "female supremacist" threatened him?

Yeah that Snow Queen. She's evil I tell ya.

 

[Octoberist]

Cardinal, did you even talk to your parents about this? I mean, really talk. BTW, how old are you?

 

[Ultron-5]

By telling him things from the future where women are 20 feet tall and keep men on high tech obedience collars. Also flashing green lights outside his window.



No, I'm being serious.

What? Is this a joke or something?

 

[Octoberist]

And Carinal, have you ever met the guy in person? Or even skped with him?