My friend needs a place to stay...should I invite him to live with me?

[CardinalRed]

This whole thing is a little fishy. Has this so called "female supremacist" threatened him?

She has been emailing him since he joined Comicvine, apparently because she has something against MrEnter (who Kelvin considers to be a positive role model in his life because similar to Kelvin, MrEnter has Asperger's syndrome). Apparently, according to Kelvin, Coral has a background in neurology and is trying to find people, or males I should say, with autism to study to further some sort of agenda. I don't know how much of that is true but that is what Kelvin has told me.

 

[Fallen Angel]

Cardinal, did you even talk to your parents about this? I mean, really talk. BTW, how old are you?

I think he said he's 23.

 

[Snow Queen]

Yeah that Snow Queen. She's evil I tell ya.

Hey that was our secret, you're not supposed to tell people it's me!

What? Is this a joke or something?

No, I'm serious. I'm low on batteries for this green flashlight outside his house, someone mind sending me some? I can't get through the door of the shop, being 20 feet tall and all.

 

[Ultron-5]

Yeah that Snow Queen. She's evil I tell ya.

So lemme get this straight... a person calling herself the "snow queen" is threatening to cause a future with 20 foot tall women and men with electric doggy collars? This is too much.

 

[Snow Queen]

So lemme get this straight... a person calling herself the "snow queen" is threatening to cause a future with 20 foot tall women and men with electric doggy collars? This is too much.

Guilty as charged.

 

[Octoberist]

I think he said he's 23.

It's because he's coming off as very naive. That's why I asked.

 

[OriginalMiles]

In all seriousness:

Dear OP,

You're getting played. This guy is using you.

Leave the situation alone.

All the best,

Me.

 

[Octoberist]

She has been emailing him since he joined Comicvine, apparently because she has something against MrEnter (who Kelvin considers to be a positive role model in his life because similar to Kelvin, MrEnter has Asperger's syndrome). Apparently, according to Kelvin, Coral has a background in neurology and is trying to find people, or males I should say, with autism to study to further some sort of agenda. I don't know how much of that is true but that is what Kelvin has told me.

It's ironic to tell you this, but you guys need to get offline. I know there's an online culture out there (and here) but it shouldn't be regulated by your online personas and hobbies. in other words, don't get involved. Like here, i'm here to have fun to chat about movies, but that's it. It's not going to govern my life but I have one. In fact, a busy one but i still make the time to chit-chat here when i can. But I'm not at the hype to get into drama, and let the drama affect me as a person. That's just silly.

 

[C. Lee]

Cardinal, did you even talk to your parents about this? I mean, really talk.

He says he has....but hasn't explained if it was - Parents, I have a friend from the internet who is hitting on hard times...he has some mental problems as well as physical disabilities. Would we be able to put him up for a couple of days until he gets back on his feet? - or - Mummy, daddy, may I have a play date with my bestest pal...it shall be a grand adventure!!!!

BTW, how old are you?

He says 22 (almost 23)....from the video he posted, that looks about right.

 

[Fallen Angel]

So lemme get this straight... a person calling herself the "snow queen" is threatening to cause a future with 20 foot tall women and men with electric doggy collars? This is too much.

only on weekends 5-9.

Hey that was our secret, you're not supposed to tell people it's me!

I will not keep secret's from my male brethren you witch.

 

[Ultron-5]

Guilty as charged.

What else is in your dark post apocalyptic future?

 

[Ultron-5]

He says he has....but hasn't explained if it was - Parents, I have a friend from the internet who is hitting on hard times...he has some mental problems as well as physical disabilities. Would we be able to put him up for a couple of days until he gets back on his feet? - or - Mummy, daddy, may I have a play date with my bestest pal...it shall be a grand adventure!!!!


He says 22 (almost 23)....from the video he posted, that looks about right.

He posted a video about this? Where? Here?

 

[CardinalRed]

I think, at least until Tuesday, Kelvin is staying with his grandparents at night and during the day he's staying at the park pavilion he commandeered. He also mentioned to file a class action lawsuit against his uncle if he is forced to go live with him, but, I don't know if that's going to work seeing as he's low on funds. I really hope he gives some consideration towards the Kickstarter or Patreon idea as a means of bringing in some money, at least enough for him to buy a travel ticket here because to be honest I really don't want to pay for his travel expenses. I'll house him but I don't want to adopt him, not that we could seeing as he's 26.

 

[Octoberist]

This sounds really weird, Cardinal. And you can just drop him as a friend. I don't think it'll 'hurt' you to lose him as a bud since he's more of a virtual friend anyway. He sounds manipulative. Whatever problems he has, it's none of your business. And it shouldn't be your business.

Create boundaries for yourself, man.

 

[Schlosser85]

Demanding a 26 year old who seems perfectly functional on a technical level to get a job is not being "abusive", so just shut up with that already.

Also making demands about what kind of TV and Internet is acceptable for him to move in, and saying g he's thiking it over, does not indicate someone in a desperate situation.

Clearly you know nothing about how homeless people live.

Also, if you believe that female supremacists from the future are harassing your friend by flashing green lights, you're as delusional as he is.

If you and Kelvin are for real and this is not complete trolling (which in my mind is a huge "if"), then you are both mentally unstable and need to seek psychiatric help.

 

[Snow Queen]

only on weekends 5-9.




I will not keep secret's from my male brethren you witch.

Hey, my hours are 5-8, thank you.

Do I need to get the collar out again?

What else is in your dark post apocalyptic future?

A Batwoman movie if I get my way.

 

[CardinalRed]

This sounds really weird, Cardinal. And you can just drop him as a friend. I don't think it'll 'hurt' you since he's more of a virtual friend.

Create boundaries for yourself, man.

He's gotta give me an answer soon, my offer will stand by the end of the week but then he's got to make a decision. The way he's been acting has made me a bit weary but I think if he gets back into his comfort zone it'll make all the difference. If he's here and abides by our rules, I think it's help him more than his uncle's words have.

 

[OriginalMiles]

I think, at least until Tuesday, Kelvin is staying with his grandparents at night and during the day he's staying at the park pavilion he commandeered. He also mentioned to file a class action lawsuit against his uncle if he is forced to go live with him, but, I don't know if that's going to work seeing as he's low on funds. I really hope he gives some consideration towards the Kickstarter or Patreon idea as a means of bringing in some money, at least enough for him to buy a travel ticket here because to be honest I really don't want to pay for his travel expenses. I'll house him but I don't want to adopt him, not that we could seeing as he's 26.

How does one commandeer a park pavilion? Aren't those things public property!?

Anyway... from what I've read in this thread, he wouldn't be able to file any kind of lawsuit against his Uncle. It's not a bad thing to get a job, especially if this guy literally has no reason not to (he has autism but he's not so bad that can't post **** online and have a YouTube channel? What's stopping him from getting some easy part-time job or something like that? Where does he lie on the autism spectrum?)!

Tell him to go the **** home and deal with his own life.

 

[Ultron-5]

Hey, my hours are 5-8, thank you.
A Batwoman movie if I get my way.

I'd have no problem with a Batwoman movie.

 

[Snow Queen]

I think, at least until Tuesday, Kelvin is staying with his grandparents at night and during the day he's staying at the park pavilion he commandeered. He also mentioned to file a class action lawsuit against his uncle if he is forced to go live with him, but, I don't know if that's going to work seeing as he's low on funds. I really hope he gives some consideration towards the Kickstarter or Patreon idea as a means of bringing in some money, at least enough for him to buy a travel ticket here because to be honest I really don't want to pay for his travel expenses. I'll house him but I don't want to adopt him, not that we could seeing as he's 26.

So you expect people to pay for him to get a house and food (oh and also high speed wifi and FiOS ) when he won't even get a job because...?

 

[Octoberist]

If I had to guess, it sounds like Cardinal's life is most of the time stuck online, and he gets attached to the personas out there on the inter webs. Or he's trolling because I can't image someone being this naive and stubborn.

Correct me IF I'M WRONG because most normal people wouldn't even give their time or day to a random stranger online who needs help like this. Don't tell me that you've sent out money to Nigerian princes via SPAM.

 

[Snow Queen]

I'd have no problem with a Batwoman movie.

Exactly, my dark future is awesome.

Oh and something something something men as slaves something something. And blah blah anti-autism which is totally not hypocritical of me blah blah blah.

 

[Ultron-5]

Is his Uncle physically abusing him or is he just asking him to get a job? Asking someone to get a job is nowhere close to being abuse.

 

[Octoberist]

How bad is his autism anyway?

 

[Fallen Angel]

If I had to guess, it sounds like Cardinal's life is most of the time stuck online, and he gets attached to the personas out there on the inter webs. Or he's trolling because I can't image someone being this naive and stubborn.

Correct me IF I'M WRONG because most normal people wouldn't even give their time or day to a random stranger online who needs help like this. Don't tell me that you've sent out money to Nigerian princes via SPAM.