Here's a list of ALL the good Spidey stories I can recall at the moment in the past 5 years or so:
1) Spider-man/Human Torch: I'm With Stupid
Finally got the trade of this, and it was well worth the 6 bucks I paid for it. best Spidey story in years!!
2) I (heart) Marvel: Web of Romance
This is how the Spider-Man marriage should be written. Damn fine issue. The artwork is kind of sloppy here and there, but I'll let it slide.
3) Spectacular Spider-man #28
Paul Jenkins's final issue, and one hell of a personal introspective look at Peter Parker.
4) Spider-Man: Blue
I can't stress enough how great this mini-series was. It was truly awesome.
5) Spider-Man: New Avengers
This is the only jewel left in JMS's crown, IMHO. This is Spidey being heroic, and being a total bad-ass....something he doesn't do enough nowadays.
6) Marvel Knights Spider-Man 1-12
I'm a huge Millar fan, and I enjoyed this arc immensely. Aside from the lackluster GG/Doc Ock showdown, and the ******ed John Jameson is Spider-Man fiasco, it was awesome. Even with those faux paus, it was still better than any of the other overhyped Spider-Events we've had to endure over the last few years.
7) Civil War
No, I don't like Spidey being unmasked, but, in the context of this storyline, it works well....and judging from the cover to issue 5, we're going to get one hell of a showdown....maybe Spidey will actually hit someone and NOT say "like" or "um" every third word....(looking at YOU, Bendis)
That's all I can think of, as I'm running low on sleep right now. I'll think of more later, and I'm sure that others will add their own to the list.
Avoid the following:
-The Other
-Sins Past
-Book of Ezekiel
-Mr. Parker goes to Washington
-Anything by Reginald Hudlin
These are the unholy quintuplets of the apocalypse that have drained Spider-Man of his life's blood.