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Nervous around girls

Maxwinner said:
and I hate it. Can anyone give me any tips?:csad:

the secret is..... ask the questions about themselves.... trust me, it works... a girls favorite subject is herself... just keep on asking her questions..... if she's interested in you, she will ask you some back... keep your asnwers short though.....
 
Maxwinner said:
and I hate it. Can anyone give me any tips?:csad:
Be less nervous.


Or get one of those dolls :up:
 
Maxwinner said:
and I hate it. Can anyone give me any tips?
Just get some girl 'friends'. Talk to as many girls you can especially the ones you arent attracted to.
Its good practice, you learn the language :D

Taking a drama class couldnt hurt either, it builds self esteem and an ease in improvisation. Not to mention there are always tons of chicks in drama class that are there to have fun. Girls in drama classes are always looking for guy friends and being involved with the plays will probably help you come out of your shell as well.
 
Ask your male friends to wear wigs and make-up when they are around you.
 
Maxwinner said:
and I hate it. Can anyone give me any tips?:csad:

The only real solution is to push past your nervousness and talk to them anyway. The more times you do that, the easier it becomes over time.
 
War Lord said:
The only real solution is to push past your nervousness and talk to them anyway. The more times you do that, the easier it becomes over time.
And then you'll end up like War Lord, master of all he surveys and quite a ladies man.
 
well either do something about it or take note that: 'dead b*tches don't scream'.
 
War Lord said:
The only real solution is to push past your nervousness and talk to them anyway. The more times you do that, the easier it becomes over time.
Unless you get blown out in public.
 
Ronny Shade said:
And then you'll end up like War Lord, master of all he surveys and quite a ladies man.

The main reason for my loneliness is because I work 230 to 300 hours a month. I just don't have the time to engage in relationships. Also, I do like to use my free time for other things in hopes of getting my business up and about in 6 months.

It's not because of an inability to speak to people. When I had more free time, I used to do public speaking and was quite good at it.
 
Iceman/Psylocke said:
Unless you get blown out in public.

The more times you do it, the less it hurts to get blown out.

It also helps if you don't pull an Icarius and shoot too high.
 
War Lord said:
The main reason for my loneliness is because I work 230 to 300 hours a month. I just don't have the time to engage in relationships. Also, I do like to use my free time for other things in hopes of getting my business up and about in 6 months.

It's not because of an inability to speak to people. When I had more free time, I used to do public speaking and was quite good at it.
I think I liked you better when I thought you were socially ******ed.
 
War Lord said:
The more times you do it, the less it hurts to get blown out.
Are you speaking from experience here buddy? :oldrazz:
 
Maxwinner said:
and I hate it. Can anyone give me any tips?:csad:

1) Treat women the same way you do guys. Don't talk down to them, don't talk up to them. Talk TO them and be genuine.

2) Never, ever, EVER kiss a woman's a** (meaning, don't suck up to a woman). As much as you may think it's endearing yourself to them and that they'll like you for it, you are WRONG. They hate it. Be a man and be proud, that's what women want.

3) Humor. There's a difference between being an arrogant prick and being someone who's sarcastic and playful. Women don't like arrogant pricks, but they LOVE guys who are sarcastic and playful, who can give them sh** without actually making them feel bad in the process.

That's all I have. Good luck.
 
lazur said:
1) Treat women the same way you do guys. Don't talk down to them, don't talk up to them. Talk TO them and be genuine.

2) Never, ever, EVER kiss a woman's a** (meaning, don't suck up to a woman). As much as you may think it's endearing yourself to them and that they'll like you for it, you are WRONG. They hate it. Be a man and be proud, that's what women want.

3) Humor. There's a difference between being an arrogant prick and being someone who's sarcastic and playful. Women don't like arrogant pricks, but they LOVE guys who are sarcastic and playful, who can give them sh** without actually making them feel bad in the process.

That's all I have. Good luck.
Don't listen to any of that. Thats how I live and it hasn't gotten me ****.
 

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