Pregnency Question

[Kritish]

actually man, my parent's are very well off, making over 500K a year, and ya know what, i didn't get a penny for college.... all I got was a co-signer for loans... and I made it through

Then your parents were coo coo for coco puffs.

 

[Superman4ever]

OOOOOoooo....

 

[Crazy Venom]

Then your parents were coo coo for coco puffs.

not really, they wanted me to etablish myself, and to know the value of a dollar... they've never spoiled me, yes, I had a BWM M3 and a bunch of other nice crap that was given to me, but my parent's also made me get a job when I turned 16, and helped my estalbish credit and how to manage investments....

 

[Kyalesyin]

not really, they wanted me to etablish myself, and to know the value of a dollar... they've never spoiled me, yes, I had a BWM M3 and a bunch of other nice crap that was given to me, but my parent's also made me get a job when I turned 16, and helped my estalbish credit and how to manage investments....

Then your parents had brains and I hope you follow their example. It sounds like they didn't do all that bad a job.

 

[Crazy Venom]

Then your parents had brains and I hope you follow their example. It sounds like they didn't do all that bad a job.

they gave me everything I needed and many things I wanted....

there whole reasoning for not giving me money for college was "if I paid for it on my own, I would understand the value of what I'm recieving, and would be more likely to take it seriously then to take it forgranted"

 

[Kyalesyin]

they gave me everything I needed and many things I wanted....

there whole reasoning for not giving me money for college was "if I paid for it on my own, I would understand the value of what I'm recieving, and would be more likely to take it seriously then to take it forgranted"

Pretty much the reason that I've managed to hang on at college through everything- I'm paying my own way. I only got the real basics as a kid, but I was always better socially and academically than my peers.

 

[Crazy Venom]

Pretty much the reason that I've managed to hang on at college through everything- I'm paying my own way. I only got the real basics as a kid, but I was always better socially and academically than my peers.

I remember my first years in high school when I wore expensive clothing, people really look down upon you... everyone else wearing Nike or whatever, I was wearing Armani, and Boss... I felt out of place...

 

[Kyalesyin]

I remember my first years in high school when I wore expensive clothing, people really look down upon you... everyone else wearing Nike or whatever, I was wearing Armani, and Boss... I felt out of place...

I was wearing neighbour hand-me-downs. I got the crap kicked outta me, but it taught me to be confident no matter what I'm wearing. I've never followed fashion or bothered with trends and its made me a lot more confident.

 

[Gotendbz-2]

Females... So strange.... and scary....

 

[Kyalesyin]

Females... So strange.... and scary....

You're telling me. I even scare myself sometimes.

 

[redmarvel]

Far as I'm concerned #'s 1-3 are the OONLY options, but then again, this isn't gonna be my kid. Honestly, knowing your a decent guy, CV...if you love her then run with #1 but if not, 3 would likely be the best for the kid (you know happy family with a mommy and a daddy).

I have a friend that has adopted 3 kids with his wife...honestly they are the coolest/kindest/picture perfect family I know...t:

I know a couple like that. One of there 3 kids is a good friend of mine. They're all well adjusted adults now.

The point is #1 is only viable if it will be a loving family. If you consider #1 "to get married" only because you "have to" and resent the kid for it, then #1 is not the option for you. #2 might actually be the healthier relationship. Kids need love. Parents need to be able to respect themselves and each other.

 

[Canadian Rider]

Marriage has become a meaningless "symbol" in most parts of the world.

Put the kid ahead of your own needs for the rest of your life and things will work out fine. PS - start saving if you want your kid to go to college or university. It will probably only cost $1,000,000 a year by the time they are ready to go.

Cheers!

 

[Crazy Venom]

Well, she had an ultrasound today, heard a heartbeat... due date is around august 9th

 

[Kyalesyin]

Damn! Thats good news. Now all you got is a few months of fretting about wether it'll come out healthy, wether you can look after it and what the best course of action is.

Best of luck to you!

 

[Shuley]

You play,you pay. hehehe

 

[Lurk]

It helps to scan the thread before posting.

 

[Crazy Venom]

first baby pic....