Last month I got the same violation (the first time I didn't look for traffic carefully coming out of my driveway on a busy street with lots of parked cars is NATURALLY when I cut off a cop on a motorcycle.
) and I was told I was able to keep the points entirely off my record if I did traffic school. I live in California, so I was even able to do home study, since driver's ed in a classroom the first time for my permit was a complete waste of a weekend.
The fine was around $160, and an extra $30 to process the traffic school option, and then another $20 toward the actual class. I could afford it though, I have enough saved up despite my low salary.
That's what I save for, I suppose - for stupid silly mistakes that cost $$$$.
The DMV website says that your insurance doesn't go up right away, only when you renew next year and they check your record.
I was going to ask if they offered you traffic school (before SHH went down for a few minutes), but from your post it seems like they did and you can't afford it. Totally bummer.
NJ car insurance rates are horrifying. My family moved from NJ to CA and I remember my parents mentioning that car insurance was practically the ONLY thing that was more expensive in NJ. If you're a teenage guy, it's even worse.