super-bats said:
oh.....and don't give me that crap that superman didn't know Lois was pregnant before he left....that it was LOIS' responsibility to tell him she was pregnant........or that Superman didn't even know he's able to have kids.....
I'm a going to give ya that crap...don't be mad.
super-bats said:
First.......it is NOT the woman's job to tell the man she is pregnant. The man has to have some duty too........he can ask the girl too if she is pregnant...ESPECIALLY IF THEY HAD UNPROTECTED SEX!!!!!
Actually it is mostly her duty to tell him. Women do not know the instant that they become pregnant. Most don't suspect they are pregnant at all until they miss thier first period...and that can be 28+ days after the act. The guy can ask...does that mean that she knows at that time that she is pregnant, or that it is his (yes, some women do like to have sex with more than one partner - kind of like many men) or that she is going to tell him the truth? And you might want to study up on contreceptives...just because you use them,doesn't mean that they are 100% effrctive.
super-bats said:
..IF THE MAN IS NOT RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES OF SEX ( possible pregnancy/planning for a future family ), THEN THE MAN SHOULD NOT BE HAVING SEX IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!!!!!
I know it's a nice thought...and many religions and parents may push this concept....but as statistics and studies show....humans like to have sex. It would really be nice if they were more responsible about it...but it doesn't always happen.
super-bats said:
Also, some ppl argue that leaving for Krypton was a bigger priority for Supes than staying with Lois.....EXCUSE ME!!????
super-bats said:
The girl was obviously a priority when you wanted to get her naked in bed and have her spread her legs for you........but after that she's nothing!!?? You can just sever the bond and relationship with her, and leave her for 5+years, without a word??!! What, she has no feelings??? You've had your fun, but now you're going to throw her life into chaos, so you can go off and rediscover your alien heritage.............WROOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNGGGGGG!!!!
At the risk of a bad joke...it just proves that even though he is Kryptonian...he's still a man.
Seriously, think about it. You are 25-30 years old. You know you are an alien from another planet. You have been told by the holographic image of your father that you are the only existing member of your race left alive. You have spent your entire life so far trying to fit in with these puny humans. You have to watch everything you say and do...to not only not let others know that you are an alien, but to keep from physically damaging them with the casual flick of your finger. Everything within many miles canstantly bombard your ears because of your super hearing. The very act of walking like otherpeople takes enormous concentration to keep from floating uo into the air. Stressful way to live.
Then you meet a woman. You like her. She likes you. You are afraid to do anything about it...because you can kill her with a hug. But you are lonely. Everyone longs for the touch of another person at some time or another ...and you know that you can only fleetingly do so while concentrating on not crushing them as you do it. Then finally you can take it no more...you discover that you can have these powers taken away...that you will actually be like the rest of the inhabitants of this planet and be able to be with the woman you love. You do the procedure. You have your first sexual encounter ever with her. Things are wonderful...better than you ever imagined.
Three Kryptonians show up and kick the world in the nards. Kryptonians? You were told you were the only one. What's up with that? You manage to get your powers back...you kick thier butts....you have to call it off with the woman you love...because you are superpowered again and could kill her accidently by breathing wrong. Life's a bummer. You know that she loves you, and that she will show it...she will unconsciously give away to anyone who notices over time that she knows more about you than she should. You think back...the rogue Kryptonians used her to attack you....other enemies could do the same....you make a decision, right ot wrong, you must erase from her memory the fact that she knew your secret and had slept with you. It was for her safety...you do it for her.
Then there is that other nagging matter. You just met three other Kryptonians. You are not alone as you thought. If you are not the last one as your father said you were...could he be wrong about your planet being destroyed too? The only thing to do is....go and see for yourself.
super-bats said:
That is irresponsible, and highly inconsiderate ( to say the least ).
Read my above long winded speech.
super-bats said:
And, finally, some would say that Superman didn't know his alien DNA would even allow him to produce an offspring ( get Lois pregnant )......ummm......okay???????
Yep...that's what I say.
super-bats said:
Well.....if you are unsure as to how your alien DNA will react with Lois' DNA.......then you shouldn't be having sex in the first place!!!!! If you're that unsure of the consequences, considering that it MAY HARM Lois, then you shouldn't be playing around at all.........
Uh...remember what I said...he is a man...he had abstained for about 30 years...he's trying to.
Knowing that your touch (flesh to flesh...careful breath from your lungs against human flesh....other bodily fluids against human flesh - his parents after all had to change diapers) does not cause people to mutate or dissolve...it is fairly reasonable to assume that semen will not act like battery acid either. It is also a reasonable assumption that his Kryptonian DNA will not interact with human DNA....it was pretty wild odds that they would work.
super-bats said:
All that is IRRESPONSIBLE, INDECENT, and woefully INCONSIDERATE........yah.....that's Singer Superman for you......
Most of that is Donner's, Puzo's, Lester's, and a host of others Superman...because it was in Superman II that Lois and Supes had thier sexual encounter.
