Oh that is a slippery slope we have gone down one time too many.
And some people still repeat the same usual things.
Keeping "obvious insults" in check is a slippery slope. You don't have the right to demand someone have self control because you're offended by what they say.
You're right, I have no right to demand it, no one has a right to demand it.
Diplomacy is needed, smiles, friendly conversations and advice.
It shouldn't be forced, it needs to be smooth and civilized.
The ironic thing is, truth be told, I do not like Islam as a religion that much. I recognize that it is the most harshly anti-gay of the already anti-gay Abrahamic religions. And while all organized religions mainly exist as a way of cementing the economic power of a select few men, and oppressing women, poorer men and others by occupying them with ceremony and irrational belief, Islam does that in such an obvious way it is comically tragic. And I believe Islam needs to evolve, including the idolatry belief.
This is not the ideal understanding of the religion.
A few things I see some people miss when they talk about religions:
- Islam is about believing in God, and not about idolizing the man, and not about placing someone in political power, especially not for someone to stay there in long after he is deceased.
- Different people came to their people trying to convince them to believe in God, they all share the same message to deliver. The title of prophet ended with Muhammad (Peace be Upon Him)
And a few verses that are not about control, or forcing the religion, that unfortunately extremists refuse to see:
*"Invite to the way of your Lord with wisdom and good instruction, and argue with them in a way that is best. Indeed, your Lord is most knowing of who has strayed from His way, and He is most knowing of who is [rightly] guided." [16:125]
*"So by mercy from Allah , [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you. So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the matter. And when you have decided, then rely upon Allah . Indeed, Allah loves those who rely [upon Him]." [16:125]
It is not about oppression against anyone.
*"O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women. And fear Allah , through whom you ask one another, and the wombs. Indeed Allah is ever, over you, an Observer." [4:1]
*"And give the women [upon marriage] their [bridal] gifts graciously. But if they give up willingly to you anything of it, then take it in satisfaction and ease." [4:4]
Ignore it. Just like people ignore preachers on the sidewalk. You don't have to read or see things that offend you. Exercise self control and don't bother yourself with things that will make you angry.
You are right about this, I ignore these things based on this principle, that is why I refuse to watch the movies: "Noah, Passion of the Christ" among others, because the way they represent the Prophets of Allah is mostly demeaning to them.
This verse from the Qura'an supports your recommendation.
*"And it has already come down to you in the Book that when you hear the verses of Allah [recited], they are denied [by them] and ridiculed; so do not sit with them until they enter into another conversation." [4:140]