Why is she acting like this today?
I talked to a beautiful waitress named Abby. She is around about my age, I talked about going to a Haunted House, which she was also planning to do. I told if she ever needs a guy to lead her through I can do it, and I was refering to the Haunted House. Anyways we got along well, I didn't get the call from her on Saturday for the Haunted House but I did see her today at the reseraunt she works at today, and ask her if she got my extra piece of paper for my full phone number she did. She said yes that I can take a picture with her.
So right before I am about to get the picture with her, I get told by the manager that she doesn't want to take a picture with me, leave her alone, I think don't ask her again or I'll get thrown out of the resteraunt.
How does she go from favorable, and from what I can see getting along with me well no hint that she doesn't like being around me, to now I'm a Antagonist to her.
I feel like I am in the Twlight Zone because I couldn't wait to talk to her before, and see her. Now If I care less if I see her when I go to the resteraunt I will not talk to her because it's just going to be trouble for me. Add in I am still not getting how she goes from yes I'll take a picture with you, to she doesn't want to take a picture with me. I didn't do anything bad, or antagonistic to her.
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She works at Hooters, it's not against the resteraunt policy for pictures. However the Waitress, Manager, and any other worker does have the right to say no. Now I don't know her last name, and the Manager is male so it's possible that she is his daughter, and he doesn't want me with her, or talking to her.
Best Answer - Chosen by Asker
She was too passive to say no to you. She feels like you're bothering her but she's too passive to say so, so she's having her manager deal with it.
She probably was just being polite the whole time you two talked, possibly as part of her job or she just didn't know what to say.
Asker's Rating: 5 out of 5
Asker's Comment:
You are so on the money. She fooled me that she was interested for the picture when she was really being passive.