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The Imitation Lounge - Part 122

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Well this is has been a terrible monday. This morning my grandfather had an aneurysm and a stroke, and the doctors have said that there is nothing that can be done for him. He cant breathe on his own and he is unresponsive so my father and my aunt are going to have to decide whether to take him off life support. Im pretty sure they will.

He has always been my favorite relative and someone I always felt entirely comfortable around because we are so alike and I took after him more than i did my own parents. My life's going to have a gaping hole in it without him. :(


The fact that this man had such a profound impact on your life is the greatest tribute you can give to him.
 
Thank you all for your support. It means alot.

My grandmother told me that when pawpaw got up this morning he said he felt better than he had in months and that he was even able to walk better than usual. He always fed the birds every morning. He had a bag of animal crackers in his tool shed and he would crumble some up and scatter them for the birds. So he and my grandmother said their morning prayers and he went outside to feed the birds. He was outside feeding his birds when it happened. At least he was in the sun on a beautiful day doing something that made him happy when it happened.

I just wish I had spent the day with him yesterday. I was invited to go with them to a church singing , but I didnt go.
 
Thank you all for your support. It means alot.

My grandmother told me that when pawpaw got up this morning he said he felt better than he had in months and that he was even able to walk better than usual. He always fed the birds every morning. He had a bag of animal crackers in his tool shed and he would crumble some up and scatter them for the birds. So he and my grandmother said their morning prayers and he went outside to feed the birds. He was outside feeding his birds when it happened. At least he was in the sun on a beautiful day doing something that made him happy when it happened.

I just wish I had spent the day with him yesterday. I was invited to go with them to a church singing , but I didnt go.


We always have regrets. Don't let them eat you up. Stay strong but also let the emotions come when they bubble up. Paradoxical? Yes. But... That's been my experience.
 
Just got back from the new spot, I'll be moving in on Friday. So happy to get out of this s***hole of a house. The place I'm moving to makes me realize just how crappy this place really is. I gave her $200 for the deposit and I'll give her the rent on the Friday when I go to move in. The only downside is it's a lot farther away from my job but I can deal with that. So happy this roommates tried me, it's going to end up much better for me in the long run
 
Thank you all for your support. It means alot.

My grandmother told me that when pawpaw got up this morning he said he felt better than he had in months and that he was even able to walk better than usual. He always fed the birds every morning. He had a bag of animal crackers in his tool shed and he would crumble some up and scatter them for the birds. So he and my grandmother said their morning prayers and he went outside to feed the birds. He was outside feeding his birds when it happened. At least he was in the sun on a beautiful day doing something that made him happy when it happened.

I just wish I had spent the day with him yesterday. I was invited to go with them to a church singing , but I didnt go.

I honestly can't think of anyone I know who has lost someone close to them that doesn't have a similar regret about one thing they could have done with the person. Just make sure to remember that he knows you loved him and focus on all the great times you had with him while he was still here. When he is looking down on you he will know how much you cared for him
 
Just got back from the new spot, I'll be moving in on Friday. So happy to get out of this s***hole of a house. The place I'm moving to makes me realize just how crappy this place really is. I gave her $200 for the deposit and I'll give her the rent on the Friday when I go to move in. The only downside is it's a lot farther away from my job but I can deal with that. So happy this roommates tried me, it's going to end up much better for me in the long run


Good Luck DJ!

Hope it all works out...

:gngl:
 
you'll regret this one day... the absence of **** diapers in the morning will eat at your soul.
 
Not sure what I'm going to miss more, poop filled diapers or the millions of roaches that live here
 
But DJ! What about that baby momma? You ever gonna call her? :o
 
Thank you all for your support. It means alot.

My grandmother told me that when pawpaw got up this morning he said he felt better than he had in months and that he was even able to walk better than usual. He always fed the birds every morning. He had a bag of animal crackers in his tool shed and he would crumble some up and scatter them for the birds. So he and my grandmother said their morning prayers and he went outside to feed the birds. He was outside feeding his birds when it happened. At least he was in the sun on a beautiful day doing something that made him happy when it happened.

I just wish I had spent the day with him yesterday. I was invited to go with them to a church singing , but I didnt go.
Well, at least his last day was a good one. :)
 
But DJ! What about that baby momma? You ever gonna call her? :o

The weird thing is I haven't even seen her back at the house. Not sure why they freaked out like that if she wasn't going to be staying here
 
Well this is has been a terrible monday. This morning my grandfather had an aneurysm and a stroke, and the doctors have said that there is nothing that can be done for him. He cant breathe on his own and he is unresponsive so my father and my aunt are going to have to decide whether to take him off life support. Im pretty sure they will.

He has always been my favorite relative and someone I always felt entirely comfortable around because we are so alike and I took after him more than i did my own parents. My life's going to have a gaping hole in it without him. :(
My sympathies. :csad:
I miss my grandad, he passed away 12 years ago.
I'm glad you at least was able to sit with him this long, wish you can have more time with him.

Just got back from the new spot, I'll be moving in on Friday. So happy to get out of this s***hole of a house. The place I'm moving to makes me realize just how crappy this place really is. I gave her $200 for the deposit and I'll give her the rent on the Friday when I go to move in. The only downside is it's a lot farther away from my job but I can deal with that. So happy this roommates tried me, it's going to end up much better for me in the long run
Good luck DJ
 
Damn, Marvolo, my feelings go out to you and yours. I lost my grandfather (last living grandparent) in 2007 when I was 23. It's rough, I was really close with all of my grandparents but especially him. Being my last living grandparent and all. I was in jail when he died. I got to go to the wake, in shackles. It wasn't too unexpected when it happened but we were all hoping he'd make it a couple more months so I could see him again. Me and my sister were both locked up actually. It was really rough and I've felt tremendous amounts of guilt since then. Regret can eat you alive, dude. Believe me, I know. I've beat myself up about it a lot but the thing is, you just have to remember that that isn't what they would have wanted. It's a hard thing to convince yourself of but it's completely necessary, at least, it was for me. Hang in there, dude.
 
I wish I was kidding but it's snowing here again.
 
I literally had over 12 feet of snow on my lawn at the start of the month and now it's down to around a foot and it's snowing again!
 
Already have 2 customers closed this morning. Feels like it will be a good day
 
It stormed pretty good over here yesterday. Then again, whenever it storms in Florida the world ends. :o
 
Since we're giving weather report's:

It was cold here last night with a touch of frost.
 
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