The Official Hype Sex Ed Thread

[AndThePickles]

Welcome, class, to the Hype's Official Sex Ed thread! Can you get an STD from oral sex? What should you do if you miss taking a birth control pill? Does double-bagging condoms really work? Ask before you try it, please!

Due to the nature of this thread's subject material, please keep your questions and answers mature and SHH-appropriate. Anyone can ask a question, but please only answer if you are truly knowledgeable regarding the topic. No guessing!

Some basic rules:
~No pornography
~No vulgar language. Our genitals are called a penis and a vagina, kids Really though, let's keep things mature.
~Don't make fun of other posters for asking a question that may seem extremely ignorant.
~Don't ask a question that's obviously just to joke around, please. This is a serious thread for educational purposes. Sometimes the internet is the only place the people feel comfortable going to for help and advice.
~It's unlikely that anyone in this thread posting will be a doctor, so remember, for any big problems, ALWAYS go see a professional!

Talking about sex is always fun, so play nice and we'll all have a grand old time. :heart:

**Please note, this thread is mod-approved and WILL be heavily moderated, if need be!

 

[knowsbleed]

What, in your opinion, is a tactful way to ask a female for some trimmage in the area?

 

[knowsbleed]

I'm so torn. I'd love to try and carry on a mature conversation about many things sexual... but I don't see where the line is. The act of sex is a very mature subject that I don't see fitting into a pg-13 environment except for the simple/basic birds and bees speak.

What I'm saying is that I'm probably going to walk alongside the edge... fall off of it and won't even know it.

 

[AndThePickles]

What, in your opinion, is a tactful way to ask a female for some trimmage in the area?

It may sound a tad juvenile, but the easiest way to get a person to change up their personal hygiene and such is to offer a reward Or, try phrasing it in a way that will make her feel like if she does it, it'll be really sexy.

"Baby, I think it'd be sooo sexy if you went completely bare."

Or, has she ever trimmed before? If so, remind her of how great it looked.

You could also offer to take a sensual bath/shower with her, and tell her you want to shave her as a sexual thing.

 

[AndThePickles]

I'm so torn. I'd love to try and carry on a mature conversation about many things sexual... but I don't see where the line is. The act of sex is a very mature subject that I don't see fitting into a pg-13 environment except for the simple/basic birds and bees speak.

What I'm saying is that I'm probably going to walk alongside the edge... fall off of it and won't even know it.

While it is a very mature subject, I think it's also important for even younger people to be properly informed. I think some of the youngest members here are likely 12...and yes, this day and age, kids that age are having sex. Shouldn't it at least be safe?

As long as things are discussed in a mature fashion, I think you'll be fine. If anything gets to be too much, I'm sure a moderator will let us know.

 

[knowsbleed]

Ah, I see. So you'd like to use this as a venue for younger posters to openly ask questions about sex without fear of being made fun of.





So when is spoons going to start asking questions?

 

[Colossal Spoons]

So when is spoons going to start asking questions?

Har har, I know plenty!

 

[AndThePickles]

Ah, I see. So you'd like to use this as a venue for younger posters to openly ask questions about sex without fear of being made fun of.





So when is spoons going to start asking questions?

More experienced and older posters can ask questions and open up discussion, as well.

 

[Immortalfire]

Enough with the dumbassery, Alex and Troy.


..same to the rest of you considering it. Keep this civil.

 

[Hunter Rider]

Alex, unless you want to take some time off, stay out of here.

 

[Lobo]

Thanks Fire

 

[SuBe]

Ok, I have a serious question, Pickles.

I've been in a 2 year relationship, whom I am living with. I'm interested in trying toys in the bedroom, she is not. How do you get the female to be interested also?

 

[Immortalfire]

Thanks Fire

S'alright.

 

[knowsbleed]

I think this would also be a great thread to debunk or prove myths associated with sex. I've often heard that a person's diet will affect the way they taste to their partner... but I've only heard this affecting men. Has anybody heard this with women as well?

 

[Logan's Runt]

Ok, I have a serious question, Pickles.

I've been in a 2 year relationship, whom I am living with. I'm interested in trying toys in the bedroom, she is not. How do you get the female to be interested also?

Try not referring to your girlfriend as 'the female'.

Seriously, though- if you've presented the idea to her and she's still saying no, there's no 'trick' to getting her to do anything. Aside from explaining that it would mean a lot to you for her to be open to trying new things, sometimes you just have to let go of an idea.

 

[SuBe]

Try not referring to your girlfriend as 'the female'.

Seriously, though- if you've presented the idea to her and she's still saying no, there's no 'trick' to getting her to do anything. Aside from explaining that it would mean a lot to you for her to be open to trying new things, sometimes you just have to let go of an idea.

Thanks Runt.

But, I'll call her what I want.

Problem is, when we discussed it, she was ok with it. I bought one for her, now she wants nothing to do with it.

 

[Immortalfire]

Try not referring to your girlfriend as 'the female'.

Sound advice.

 

[AndThePickles]

Ok, I have a serious question, Pickles.

I've been in a 2 year relationship, whom I am living with. I'm interested in trying toys in the bedroom, she is not. How do you get the female to be interested also?

I imagine that you'll be able to get a lot of good input from people on this one. Here's my 2 cents:

A lot of people aren't interested in sex toys because they've never tried them. My advice? Find the nicest/cleanest store in your area and let her explore, and offer to buy her whichever toy she wants. Keep it casual...before you go, let her know that she doesn't have to buy anything, but you think it would be fun to at least go look. Or, if she's into surprises, surprise her with the trip and don't let her know where you're going. The key is to make sure she feels relaxed and not pressured into getting a toy. But what person doesn't enjoy getting to pick out their own presents?

Most places have "levels" of toys, and the packaging will often specify whether the toy is beginners or for advanced fun. Either way, it's best to start off with smaller toys, or pretty ones that don't look quite so intimidating. You can also purchase a wide variety of starter kits.

Let her try the toy out by herself, first. She may be comfortable with you watching, but if not, give her some privacy.

If you don't have any stores near you, I can give you some good website suggestions.

 

[knowsbleed]

I bought one for her,

I wonder how awkward that was, bringing it to the counter to pay for it (depending on the toy).

 

[Logan's Runt]

I think this would also be a great thread to debunk or prove myths associated with sex. I've often heard that a person's diet will affect the way they taste to their partner... but I've only heard this affecting men. Has anybody heard this with women as well?

I have heard this with women as well. It makes sense, as what you eat fuels the production of everything inside the body, vaginal fluids included.

 

[AndThePickles]

I think this would also be a great thread to debunk or prove myths associated with sex. I've often heard that a person's diet will affect the way they taste to their partner... but I've only heard this affecting men. Has anybody heard this with women as well?

It affects both men and women. I think it mainly has to do with the acidic levels in your body...for both genders, eating a lot of fresh fruit will improve your taste, particularly pineapple.

 

[Logan's Runt]

Thanks Runt.

But, I'll call her what I want.

Problem is, when we discussed it, she was ok with it. I bought one for her, now she wants nothing to do with it.

Of course you can call her whatever you want-- you can also buy her whatever sex toys you want. But you see how that worked out.

 

[AndThePickles]

Problem is, when we discussed it, she was ok with it. I bought one for her, now she wants nothing to do with it.

While that was nice of you, toys are very personal. Until you know what she likes (which she still has to discover for herself), she needs to be able to pick it out for herself.

 

[knowsbleed]

Yes, I've heard about pineapple and lots of other fruits affecting the flavors in a positive manner. One thing I will say, I've known women who are pretty much alcoholics... and let me just throw out there that I don't really recommend going that route with them. It's not going to be a pleasant trip.

 

[AndThePickles]

Yes, I've heard about pineapple and lots of other fruits affecting the flavors in a positive manner. One thing I will say, I've known women who are pretty much alcoholics... and let me just throw out there that I don't really recommend going that route with them. It's not going to be a pleasant trip.

Makes sense, because alcohol DEFINITELY screws up the pH levels in your body.