I saw this conversation start in the Gemini thread and then migrate here (good idea btw, because it was getting off topic over there.)
Anyway, my favorite character is Clark. Duh!
LOL But I'm not sure how much of that has to do with me "identifying" with him more than any other character, because really, how could anybody identify with
that? I have a hard enough time understanding Tom Welling, never the hell mind trying to identify with Clark Kent. Hee!
I keeed, I keeed.
Seriously though, the writers are spending the better part of a whole season showing how Chloe has to adapt to the stresses imposed by *her* secret, and Lana had to be giving Clark's powers in order to appreciate what it's like to walk in his shoes - and she STILL didn't get it. So if the characters are having a rough time with it, I'm not sure I can relate to it either. The real life metaphors are obvious: teen angst, individualism, balancing goals, coming of age, etc., but when it comes to meteor freaks and super powered aliens from Krypton, those elements are a leeetle bit beyond my reality LOL.
So for me, it's not so much about relating to Clark (though having empathy for him plays a HUGE part), it's about the fantasy, escapism and pure joy that comes from believing in him. I should also add that said joy is completely dependent on how the character is written and who plays him, 'cause if it were just the character alone, I could get my jollies by simply reading the comics. Clearly, Tom Welling plays a HUGE part in my love for Clark Kent and Smallville. I'm not sure I can emphasize that enough.
Of the female characters on the show, my favorite has always been Chloe. I love her wit and spunky drive, and most especially, her devotion to Clark. From the Pilot forward, I always got the impression that no matter what happened - no matter how bad things became - Chloe would throw herself under a bus in order to protect Clark. That includes the 3rd season; she carried a torch for him even during those dark times. I often think of Chloe as the voice of the audience...
Chloe: To me, you're more than just a hero. You're a super hero.
Clark: Chloe...
Chloe: I'm serious, Clark. If more humans were like you, the world would be a better place.
Chloe: We didn't ask for a world that needs heroes, but the truth is we do. Now more than ever, Clark.
Clark: Well, see, that's the thing. No matter how many people I save, I can't solve the world's problems.
Chloe: I don't know anyone else who does more for this world than you.
Even in Clark's own psyche, Chloe was the one person who believed in him. My assumption is that she will eventually die for Clark, but I hope they wait till the end before that happens...
Chloe: Look, Clark, I understand that you haven't been yourself, but you know that I would never tell Lionel your secret. I'd never tell anyone. I'd die before I'd betray you.
Lois is a close second in favorite female characters on SV. I like her and Clark's one-upmanship and the way they playfully butt heads...
Clark: Lois? She's bossy, she's stuck up, she's rude. I can't stand her.
Lana: The best ones always start that way.
Lois: You're amazing, Smallville. You always look for the best in people even when they walk all over you.
Clark: I guess that explains why we're friends.
Lois: Oh, we're friends now?
Clark: Well, I won't tell anyone if you don't.
Their destiny as a married couple makes it that much more entertaining, because even now, both seem to know each other in ways that no other character has been able to see...
Clark: There are times when I think you don't know me at all... and others where I think you know me better than anyone.
Lois: That's what I'm here for, Smallville -- one save at a time.
Clark: Lois, you're like a pit bull on a pant leg. You're never gonna let this go until you know for sure.
Lois: I hate that you know me like that.
One of the best scenes to encapsulate where both ladies stand in terms of Clark was in Pariah...
Chloe: Lois, if you found out something, something someone didn't want you to know about them, would you tell them?
Lois: That depends. Is that person someone you care about?
Chloe: Yeah.
Lois: And does keeping the secret hurt anyone?
Chloe: No.
Lois: Then my answer is no. If I really cared about that person, I wouldn't tell them that I knew. But I would go out of my way to be supportive of them so that hopefully, one day, they would be comfortable enough to tell me themselves.
I'm a happy viewer just having Lois and Clark's verbal sparring, Clark and Chloe's scooby-dooing, and Lex's nefarious machinations wrapped around a good story every week. Throw in a few curve balls from Lionel and Jor-El, a little Bizarro and Brainiac on one side, and Green Arrow and Co on the other side, and I'll be smiling ear to ear.