What Do You Look For in the Opposite Sex???

[Moviefan2k4]

I created this thread for simple discussion. Please refrain from explicit responses and/or slamming other users; this is meant to be kept clean. What attracts all of you regarding this subject, be it physical, emotional, mental, or spiritual? That being said, I figured I'd start this on a roll...

To me, a beautiful woman means more than just the body...although, to be honest, I think that's one subject most guys usually think of first. In terms of personality and faith, a Christian woman is paramount for me (since I'm a believer myself). Additionally, I prefer a woman who is kind, understanding, compassionate, humorous, witty, intelligent, and has enough self-confidence that she's not tearing herself down.

With regard to looks, there are certain types that I prefer, but I'm not so picky that I'd stick to just one overall "model" (pardon the pun). Engaging soulful eyes are a must, along with a charming smile. As for the rest, it's difficult to describe. Girls who are very tall or really short tend to be a turnoff; I'm 6-foot-1, so between 5'7" and 5'10" would probably work.

Another turnoff is women who are overly-concerned about their weight. Nothing wrong with being fit, but I've seen women just walking around who look like they'd make a #2 pencil jealous...that ain't cool at all in my book. I'm not interested in "superficial-beyond-words" types, but to be honest I'd like someone who's attractive to the eyes, as well as the spirit and heart. Everything being in good proportion is better (to me) than a woman with a super-thin waist or improbably-large hips.

So, let the discussion begin...

 

[cookiva]

no tails....

 

[Mee]

Organs, muscles, bones...

 

[Kritish]

1. Has a vagina
2. Is willing to let me put parts of myself into said vagina.

 

[cookiva]

1. Has a vagina
2. Is willing to let me put parts of myself into said vagina.

so you are fine with this???

 

[Kritish]

so you are fine with this???

How long have I abstained from sex in this hypothetical scenario?

 

[Retro]

Oh God My Eyes!!

 

[M.E.H.Z.E.B]

I look for the following in members of the opposite sex:
1. Intelligence
2. Personality
3. Self-Esteem
4. Spunk
5. Verve
6. Fashion sense, and Physical beauty

 

[cookiva]

How long have I abstained from sex in this hypothetical scenario?

Honestly, you get to choose. Its too nasty for me to decide.


Hype, im sorry for that picture.....

 

[Spider-Bite]

Physical appearance? Everything that's typical of what a guy thinks is hott, however I have this thing for hands. I think really pretty hands are a huge turn on, and I don't mean having their nails done up super fancy either. I mean soft beautiful perfectly shaped hands.
As far as non physical attributes? Too lazy to get into it. Have a nice day.

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

Hmm.... Lack of Axe/Axe like spray. That immediately throws up the, "Get the hell away from me," line.

Not a loner/bad boy/attitude problem. I like them slightly more submissive.

Intelligent (usually very)

Doesn't have hair that's competing with mine for length, so that if I kiss them, I'm not trying to get through their freaking hair. (I cannot tell you HOW much that pisses me off when I have to move hair. On a girl, I usually don't mind, because they'll brush it back, but guys, I swear, they make ME do it for them. It's lame!)

Does not wear super fashionable designer clothing. (A poor Indonesian child dies for every Hollister or A&F shirt you buy. Brought to you by Indonesian Child Alert). At least, if that comprises up like all of their closets. Like one or two is fine.

Doesn't express immediate sexual interest in me for at least date three. And doesn't try that whole goading thing. (If I wanted sex, you'd know. I don't need convincing.) Or else, it's the stun gun. (Lost two boyfriends and a girlfriend over that, getting stun gunned).

Doesn't have to prove themself or something. Jumping through hoops is for dolphins.

Other than that, it's fair game.

 

[cookiva]

Does not wear super fashionable designer clothing. (A poor Indonesian child dies for every Hollister or A&F shirt you buy. Brought to you by Indonesian Child Alert). At least, if that comprises up like all of their closets. Like one or two is fine.
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Haha, great line. I have to tell you, im going to steal it from ya...

 

[Kritish]

Fine jerks, you've made me want to post my serious response!

• Beauty (you can have the nicest woman on Earth but if they Look like Freddy Kruger the deal is off)
• Intelligence (no "blondes")
• Similar tastes in things like music, cinema and ect.
• Not overly emotional

 

[cookiva]

Honestly, i find someone who can hold their own when my movie debates heat up to be uber attractive.

 

[Kritish]

Does not wear super fashionable designer clothing. (A poor Indonesian child dies for every Hollister or A&F shirt you buy. Brought to you by Indonesian Child Alert). At least, if that comprises up like all of their closets. Like one or two is fine.

Indonesian children are expendable, they're people like Malaysian children.

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

Haha, great line. I have to tell you, im going to steal it from ya...

lol I stole it off my friend Brandon who yelled it at some cheerleaders and their male friends, and just set them off.

I tell you, I fear for my life when he drives.

 

[Jack Rabbit]

If a girl can make me laugh, she's got me.

And I mean like, "Oh, ****, you're hilarious," not "Oh, ****, you're an idiot."

Naturally, they have to be attractive.

 

[ang_hulk]

brains enough to carry ona conversation
interests,real ones.
booty
boobs
lips
a future
a temper i can go rounds with
comand
a caring heart above all that.guts to.

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

good looking(does'nt need a hour-glass figure)

nice looking feet( for some odd reason it's one of the first things i look at when i notice a girl ifshes wearing open toed shoes)
know how to cook(notrequired,but itsa plus)
a sense of humor, with a pinch of sarcasm

nice smile

 

[ang_hulk]

yes yes a sense of humor to

 

[Excel]

1. DEFIENTLY need to be down to earth
2. Generally nice, pleaseant person with positive outlook
3. Nice booty n body...cant be a big girl either...
4.....gotta be able to COOK!
5. Sense of humor...doesnt have to be funny so much as to laugh at what I say

good thing i found a girl who fits all that and more!

 

[SPIDER-MAN-ROX]

She has to like short guys because I am only 5' 2" tall. I'll take them short or tall though.

I like a woman with a little meat on her bones.

I don't like women who have manly hands or feet.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so I like lots of different looking women.

As for color, It doesn't matter cause horny man is color blind when it comes to beautiful women.

 

[The Chairman]

Physical Attributes:

• Short (4'11-5'3)
• A curvy, full figured body
• Long, flowing, blonde hair
• A glowing smile
• Muscle tone (not overly freakish like the girl in the pic below, but athletic)
• Long legs

Non-Physical Attributes:

• Intelligence
• An outgoing but level headed personality
• A strong spiritual side
• Compassion and understanding and the ability to overlook my shortcomings as well as those of others.
• Similar tastes in film and music (though opposites attract)
• An overall positive and optimistic view of life and love

 

[tzarinna]

Is this like a semi annual thing?

 

[nosebleed.]

Is this like a semi annual thing?

People's tastes change. I used to think feet were fugly...then I met this chick with the prettiest feet and now it turns me on when a lady has some pretty feet. Especially if they're wearing ****-me shoes.