Why Men Are No Longer Willing To Marry.

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  1. Varient Guru for Geeks

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    Taken from Black Voices website:

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    http://men.msn.com/articlebl.aspx?cp-documentid=5873934&GT1=10715

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    Sudden Divorce Syndrome. You won't find it in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, that bible of psychiatric illnesses, but you will find it in life. In a 2004 poll by the AARP, one in four men who were divorces in the previous year said they "never saw it coming." (Only 14 percent of divorced women said they experienced the same unexpected broadside.) And few events in a man's life can be as devastating to his physical, mental, and financial health.


    Check link ....ish is UGLY!
     
  2. Symbiotic Registered

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    I'm willing to marry.
     
  3. Captain_BluTac You Better Run

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    i would marry as long as i could get a baby out of it and i wouldn't divorce once there was a baby involved
     
  4. Logan's Runt Runtmuffin

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    How romantic. Good luck getting a woman with that line. :up:
     
  5. Badger Side-Kick my Ass!

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    He's such a romantic...
     
  6. Captain_BluTac You Better Run

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    I don't want romance i want a baby if romance is there to great if not no biggie
     
  7. Symbiotic Registered

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    You wouldn't care about the person you were having the baby with?
     
  8. Badger Side-Kick my Ass!

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    Go to the Sperm Bank. :up:
     
  9. The Watchman Balls McGee

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    If I wanted to give money to someone I ****ing hate, I might as well save a few years and just write a check to someone I hate now. That's the thing, I work, I'm a generous person and willing to give absolutely anything and everything to a person I love, hell even people I'm indifferent to. But with an ex-wife, chances are if you're getting divorced, and for me to not make something work, then in all likelihood this is a person I despise abhor and loathe - then I have to pay them, so much for equal rights. **** marriage, I'm sure I'll get suckered in, and it's a frustrating situation.
     
  10. kainedamo Registered

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    With that attitude I don't think you should have children.
     
  11. Super Kal Proud Conservative

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    I'm willing to marry.
     
  12. Captain_BluTac You Better Run

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    yeah i want a baby not to give a stranger a baby
     
  13. Badger Side-Kick my Ass!

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    Ok, watch Junior and then go to Sperm Bank. :up:
     
  14. Captain_BluTac You Better Run

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    what I am of the belief that as long as a kid has at least one loving parent they will be fine I would be only to happy to be a single father
     
  15. Steve Rogers Registered

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    I'm having the stone set in the ring as we speak.
     
  16. Captain_BluTac You Better Run

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    dear god no its not the giving birth part but junior was a terrible movie
     
  17. kainedamo Registered

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    Going into a relationship with the sole intention of getting a child out of it is a horrible thing.
     
  18. Symbiotic Registered

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    :word:
     
  19. Symbiotic Registered

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    Agreed. Do I want kids? Sure, but I have the intention of loving who I'm with.
     
  20. Badger Side-Kick my Ass!

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    Congrats.


    :csad:

    I kid.

    :woot:
     
  21. Captain_BluTac You Better Run

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    its better than going into a relationship unprepared for a child and then having one and lets face it when a woman wants a "baby daddy" its fine but just because i want a child rather than a partner as a man its frowned upon sexism much
     
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    Any man who gets married, at least in CA, is a f**king fool.
     
  23. kainedamo Registered

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    Yeah...

    You shouldn't have kids.
     
  24. Steve Rogers Registered

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    She needs to say yes first, but thanks. You guys think a Valentine's Day proposal is romantic or lame? I'm trying to pick a good date to ask her.
     
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    Valentine's Day is popular. Be unexpected.
     

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