"Boy, what a loser this Superman guy is, huh? Knocks up this chick, discovers some other dude's raising him as his son, then decides to hang around in disguise so he can fantasise about being with her and his kid!"
Hardly a super scenario, eh?
In fact, haven't Singer and co. ripped off Mrs Doubtfire?
No, because he's not disguising himself as a woman. Using a plot point that happens to have been used elsewhere is not "ripping off" something. Or did you think MRS. DOUBTFIRE pioneered the idea of the father trying to get closer to his kids after seperation/divorce?
And I'll reiterate my argument that it doesn't matter that the fictional character is blameless for the situation he finds himself in... the scenario as conceived by the writers remains embarassing and ignominious.
It's embarassing in the sense that it prevents a complication and an obstacle in Clark's life, but not neccessarily in the broader definition of the word.
This sort of thing happens all the time in the real world, and isn't neccessarily always humiliating or inappropriate there.
[How can he be a symbol to humanity if he embraces human weaknesses?
Who says he even WANTS to be a symbol to humanity, especially after he leaves and they all move on without him? And who's to know? It's not like he's not going around telling humanity he has a son out of wedlock that he didn't know about.
I just don't think anyone in this day and age of dark heroes and PC crap realizes the depth of Superman's character past his God-like powers. He's not a human nor should he behave like one in every aspect. He was sent here by Jor-El to enlighten humanity on the path of what is good and pure, not assimilate himself as a human with all of our weaknesses and petty emotions.
And the Kents raising him as a human being should have no bearing on his humanity? He's every bit as human as you or I in his emotional makeup. He lived as humans do, in a human society, for years, and continues to do so, despite having powers.
*edit* P.S. Oh, and I do have to add this, but if I want to watch a Superhero movie where the main hero(s) have character flaws, I'll watch the X-Men movies or the Fantastic Four. I just don't think character flaws should be attributed to Superman.
Clark Kent essentially LIED to Lois Lane about being Superman for DECADES. Last time I checked, lying is a character flaw, despite his intentions. So, he already has shown character flaws. But with good intentions. Maybe, just maybe, the same holds true here?
You have sex with a woman. Unprotected sex at that. Then you immediately leave, without as much as an explanation (as evidenced in the trailer and various sources). I ask you this - is that the work of a nice man?
Unprotected sex does not always lead to conception. Especially between to different species.
You're making it sound like he just up and left the day after SUPERMAN II. You know what likely happened? Time passed, and he was still in love with Lois, and she was still in love with Superman, and he realized they couldn't be together for the same reasons he realized in SUPERMAN II. And then he left on a mission to seek out Krypton for whatever reason (Luthor?), not realizing how long he would be gone.
Rally cry of the absentee father. "I...I didn't know she was pregnant!"
Sometimes it's true.
Should he try impregnating one before he knows for sure?
Did he even ejaculate when they had sex? I mean, hell, as long as we're going to micromanage this plot point, let's think about where Lois was in her conception stage, and about how strong Kryptonian sperm are when they are made human...
It's the birds and the bees. If you haved unprotected sex, you should be mindful of the possible outcome. And you should be prepared for it. Are you saying Clark is stupid enough not to know how that all works?
Yes, but he had unprotected sex in 1980 something, when awareness wasn't...
This is just getting ridiculous. But you know what? Maybe he DID use some kind of protection. Maybe it didn't work. We didn't exactly SEE their sex scene.
We know how he left it with Lois. He didn't. In the trailer, her first question: "Why did you leave?" He didn't tell her anything. He just left.
Then think about this for a second. Either he didn't know he was going to be gone as long as he was, or he left because he can't BE with her and lead a normal life. Is he supposed to tell her that right before he leaves?
Well, thank God that the governments of most developed countries disagree with you.
There's a difference in Superman knowingly not supporting his child, and not supporting a child he didn't know he had. It's entirely possible, if it's his, that even Lois thinks it's Richard's. Stranger things have happened, after all.
Naive and flawed does not mean morally bankrupt.
How do you get "morally bankrupt" from removing yourself from a woman's life that you care about and don't want to hurt when you have no idea that she's pregnant?
I want to see Superman in a love triangle with Lois, fight Luthor's nefarious new plot, do awesome stuff, inspire me, and put it to bed. That was the beautiful simplicity of Donner's vision of Superman, and it worked incredibly well.
And you will see all that and more in SUPERMAN RETURNS.
I don't want to relate to Superman. I want to be inspired by him.
And you can't be inspired by someone who has made mistakes?
Yes. Which is why they don't explore the reality of irresponsibility of unprotected sex or being an absentee father.
He has a point.