Let's see...Secret Invasion's ending was so much better than the ending to WWH, Civil War, and House of M, and it was the first ending I've enjoyed in quite a while, and has me pumped to read the new or changing books that spin out of it. A good ending for an event should lead to some changes and excitement about other titles; and, on that account, Secret Invasion lived up to it.
Sure, it might be sad that Ennis left Punisher; but, the first new storyarc by another writer was still pretty dang good. AND, we are getting another Punisher story by Ennis with the current mini, Punisher War Zone.
The destruction of Spider-Man??!!?? How about the rebirth of Spider-Man, with some pretty dang good stories in this past year. It's been a while since I've enjoyed Spidey this much, when in past years, the best Spidey title used to be Spider-Man Loves Mary Jane.
What else is cool about Marvel? I'm loving The Stand! It's bringing Stephen King's best novel to life beautifully. Sure, I'm mixed on The Dark Tower, as I think those who haven't read those books might be kind of unimpressed with what's been presented; but, The Stand is awesome.
Ultimatum, while only being two issues in, seems pretty darn good so far. The Ultimate Universe needed a jolt, and they seem to be shaking things up. Hopefully the cancellation of most of the regular series titles means something great will come later.
Other titles that are pretty good: Thor, Iron Fist, Daredevil, Captain America, Nova, Guardians of the Galaxy, Eternals, Hercules, Avengers Inititative, and Kick-Ass.
And, while I understand you might be upset about the cancellation of Spider-Girl, it doesn't bother me that much. It will probably be back in some mini-series...and, really, it has only been an ok book lately.