"But her profile said she was 18"

[Spider-Bite]

He. F**ked. A. Fourteen. Year. Old. That. Is. Illegal. Period.

If he was dumb enough to not verify her ID at all, then he's an idiot and has responsibility for that. If he'd checked it and been at least fooled by a fake ID then maybe I'd feel sorry for him, but he didn't even do that.

jag

dude. think about the last time you had sex. Did you ask the girl for an ID, first? Would you ever do that? I woudln't. You would look like an idiot in front of her. Nobody does that, and this guy shoudln'tbe punished for not doing something that nobody else does either. This is a case of entrapment.

Even if you picked the girl up at a bar, so you didn't ask for her ID because you figured with her being at a bar, she is of age. Well he figured with her profile saying she was 18, and her being at a 18+dating site, she was of age.

 

[jaguarr]

dude. think about the last time you had sex. Did you ask the girl for an ID, first?

Hmmm....that would have been last night with my wife. You think I should have checked her ID?

Would you ever do that? I woudln't. You would look like an idiot in front of her. Nobody does that,

I already addressed that question, and yes, I used to check ID's. I had a buddy get in deep poop when we were 18 because he schtooped some 16 year old and her parents found out. Scared the hell out of me. There are ways to check a girl's ID while making it a game she's more than happy to play. Never, ever slowed me down or kept me from getting laid.

and this guy shoudln'tbe punished for not doing something that nobody else does either. This is a case of entrapment.

No, it's a case of stupidity. While I don't think he should get labeled as a sexual predator for the rest of his life or have to do such a heavy sentence, he does deserve to be punished.

Even if you picked the girl up at a bar, so you didn't ask for her ID because you figured with her being at a bar, she is of age. Well he figured with her profile saying she was 18, and her being at a 18+dating site, she was of age.

Nahh. My buddies and I always checked ID's even when at the bars. There are a whole lot of girls who make themselves look older and get into bars without even getting their ID's checked because they sweet talk the bouncer. Or they have fake ID's and it's easy enough to catch them lying about their name. It's not fool proof, but at least do the due diligence.

jag

 

[terry78]

Jag likes to go the extra mile, but most dudes don't have the patience for that when it comes to getting the rocks off obviously. So trouble ensues.

 

[Jolie_Desastre]

ugh i've had too many experiences with these types of situations with girls that i know and heard of. a girl i knew had sex with a 21 year old guy..she was about 13 or 14 at the time. and no..she did not look her age at all. she was pretty stacked and could easily pass for a 19 year old girl. they had sex, he left her. she went to the hospital one day for sharp pains in her pelvic area....turns out one of her fallopian tubes busted open. she would have been pregnant but there were complications. the doctor found out how old the "father" was, and tried to urge her and her family to press charges.

she said she didn't want to do anything because she knew how old he was and knew what she was doing. the doctor told her if she didn't do anything he would. so last i heard her and her family were going to press charges.

sorry people, most kids these days know exactly what they are getting into when it comes to sex. it just makes me mad how every single kid is looked at as a victim..i'm not saying all kids and teenagers are liars, i'm just speaking from my own experiences.

also, telling the difference between a 14 year old and 18 year old? for the past couple of years people have been telling me i look atleast 2+ years older than i actually am mostly 19 or 22. i'm not even 18 yet!

 

[Honey Vibe]

sorry, but that guy is in no way at fault.

I agree. He was completely mislead by both the claims of the site and the individual he hooked up with.

How would you porn junkies like it if you got a letter to appear in court -- for recently viewing pictures of 16 year-old Sparkle Lopez on a porn site that claimed "all our girls are barely legal"? Are you truly responsible for that??

Either I'm missing some details here, or this judge is a very unreasonable person...

 

[Honey Vibe]

Well, if he had asked to see a driver's license and birth certificate when they met face to face, he wouldn't be in this much trouble.

...Sarcasm, yes?

 

[AhabTheArab]

No, it's a case of stupidity. While I don't think he should get labeled as a sexual predator for the rest of his life or have to do such a heavy sentence, he does deserve to be punished.
jag

you understand what 'minimum sentencing' requires right?

edit: and do you have kids by the way?

 

[Anita18]

It's not hard to play the "I'll show you my driver's license if you show me yours" game.

I don't think it's that awkward either. Act like you want to make fun of each other's photos, and then sneak a peek at the date of birth. (Driver's license photos are SO easy to laugh at...)

I think the reason why the girl is getting away with it is because she's only 14, not because she's a girl. If it was an older woman with a 14-y-o boy, you bet there would be some repercussions as well. And it may suck, but it's the law.

Most 14-y-o boys don't look anywhere like men though, but that's another issue entirely.

I'm not "stacked" at all (hmm, learned a new slang word today) but most people who meet me think that I'm 5 years older than I really am...No idea why, actually. But I definitely don't give off the "pick me up and take me home" vibe so I don't have to worry about older men trying to get with me.

 

[terry78]

^Darn.

 

[zanos]

LOL! She's a minor, dude. Period. He didn't even try to verify her age, that's why I don't feel sorry for him at all. That was just dumb.

jag

If you pick up a young looking chick from a bar and she goes home with you are you going to ask for two proofs of id before she has sex with you? Cmon. Let's use some rationale here. At worst this guy's only crime was his naivete. Should have be crucified for the rest of his life being labeled a sex offender because of that?

 

[jaguarr]

you understand what 'minimum sentencing' requires right?

Uhhh, yes, I do. That's why I said I felt that what he was sentenced to was a bit much. It indicates that perhaps I disagree with the minimum sentence requirements. What's your point?

edit: and do you have kids by the way?

No. I don't. Trying to play the "well, you're just overly defensive about this because you have kids" card, eh? Nice try.

I don't think it's that awkward either. Act like you want to make fun of each other's photos, and then sneak a peek at the date of birth. (Driver's license photos are SO easy to laugh at...)

See, guys? Anita gets it. It's not that difficult to check an ID and make a fun game out of the whole thing.

If you pick up a young looking chick from a bar and she goes home with you are you going to ask for two proofs of id before she has sex with you? Cmon. Let's use some rationale here. At worst this guy's only crime was his naivete. Should have be crucified for the rest of his life being labeled a sex offender because of that?

*sigh* I already answered this. Twice. You guys trying realllly hard to rationalize this are probably all at the age where something like this could easily happen to you, aren't you? I already told you how to handle it, just like I did when I was younger, and yet the only one who sees the sanity and practicality in it is a woman. It works and it works well. Don't want to end up like the guy in this story? Then learn how to protect yourself, because you can complain all you want about how unfair the system is but it's not going to change anything. You f**k up and you will pay the price for it. Just ask the guy in this story.

jag

 

[Snipershot]

thats ****ed up.... poor guy

 

[Spider-Bite]

Because of the increased calorie intake of Americans these day,s girls are starting to develop breasts at a much younger age. In fact one out of 7 begin growing them before they are even out of elementary school now.

The increased fat deposits trick the body into thinking it's time for puberty, and hormones start getting released years early, causing sexual urges and breast growth at a much younger age.

 

[jaguarr]

Because of the increased calorie intake of Americans these day,s girls are starting to develop breasts at a much younger age. In fact one out of 7 begin growing them before they are even out of elementary school now.

The increased fat deposits trick the body into thinking it's time for puberty, and hormones start getting released years early, causing sexual urges and breast growth at a much younger age.

It's not so much the increased calorie intake as it is all the growth hormones and steroids we are injecting into our livestock and poultry and the genetic engineering being done on our crops (which does involve some growth hormones).

jag

 

[AhabTheArab]

lets all just download winger - seventeen and realize, those were the days.

and i guess everything is black and white with jag... whatever...

 

[jaguarr]

Haha! Yeah, the only thing that's black and white is the law. F**k an underage person and your ass will go to jail.

jag

 

[AhabTheArab]

again like you keep repeating yourself, i will repeat myself. guys should not be punished for lying *****es. its that simple. if she puts herself in that position, too bad, don't throw signals if you don't want it. and im guessing, almost guaranteeing, the girl had nothing to do with pressing charges, her parents found out somehow and they did all the paperwork. guaranteed.

lying *****es never think of consequences.

 

[jaguarr]

You guys are too funny. Since we're all repeating eachother now, I'll keep doing it. You can b1tch and moan all you want about how the system isn't fair, but the reality is that you will go to jail if you f**k someone who's underage. That's the law. So, complain all you want, but if you aren't taking steps to protect yourself then you're an idiot.

jag

 

[AhabTheArab]

im not saying he isn't an idiot, but the blame does not all lie on his shoulders. girls are not all angels. society today is ****ed, the girl says jump and the justice system says how high. i just hope the trend will stop.

 

[SuperMonkey]

SOLUTION: Clear the guy and persue a second case against the site (that I have never heard of nor have visited)

P.S. That site has spyware. no one go there

Really, its not that im a member there. its just that other... certain... sites... I... occasionally visit have the scripts for spyware that get on your comp. used to get popups for that crap all the time

 

[knowsbleed]

You guys are too funny. Since we're all repeating eachother now, I'll keep doing it. You can b1tch and moan all you want about how the system isn't fair, but the reality is that you will go to jail if you f**k someone who's underage. That's the law. So, complain all you want, but if you aren't taking steps to protect yourself then you're an idiot.

jag

Damn straight.

I'm not really pointing the blame...I'm just looking at it from a guy's perspective. THAT particular guy wasn't thinking clearly AT ALL.

FIRST of all...how many of you, specifically reading this, would hook up with a chick through a similar website?

SECOND...if you met face to face with that chick you met off of that website, would you accept her saying she was 18 at face value?

If you answer yes to both of those...then you are burying yourself. Use your damn head and realize that people are shadier than ever in the history of being shady. How can you trust someone you met off of a website that is suspect in the first place?

If you are willing to accept all of those things and are still willing to stick your wang in without taking ANY precautions (save for maybe a condom) then you are not thinking of anything except getting laid...good luck with that.

 

[The-Dark-Knight]

Same thing happened to me i saw the girls pic shewas hot, told me she was 19, i meet up with her.


she was 78, guess it was just a good pic.

 

[strikezone89]

i honestly want 2 just punch in the face people who go on the net to get dates.

 

[Ghostvirus]

I guarantee in 50 years not looking for a date on the net, will be considered weird. I bet your grand kids will be like, "I just want to punch people in the face who go to bars, & nightclubs to find a date. It is just so primative."

 

[strikezone89]

I guarantee in 50 years not looking for a date on the net, will be considered weird. I bet your grand kids will be like, "I just want to punch people in the face who go to bars, & nightclubs to find a date. It is just so primative."

yah ur probably right