Through accident and circumstance, they both end up traveling the world and getting involved in important historical and cultural events.
Short of going to Vietnam, I believe Gump just travels the country, doesn't he? When he runs, and when he tours with the All American Team?
Button travels the world more than Gump ever did, but not so much the country itself. It's almost the reverse, so I'd hardly call that a similarity.
Sure, their impact on the world around them is sort of a similarity, but that's common to almost any story, and the use of that device is markedly different. Gump's is used to highlight historical occurrences. Button's is used to highlight ideas about life in general. And as for the historical stuff...gosh...someone becomes involved in things that have happened (history) by existing in this world and being there through circumstance?
BUTTON's use of this device appears to be a far more toned-down and relevantr in terms of his historical relevance than GUMP's was. GUMP is shown to influence popular culture. Button, near as I can tell, doesn't. GUMP's stuff is played for laughs. Button's historical touchpoints are used to illustrate the deeper meanings alluded to in earlier scenes.
Their relationships with said blonde girls are on-again, off-again, resulting in a decades-long series of brief encounters ending with the girl being unnecessarily cruel and Gump or Button being unreasonably forgiving.
Daisy is a redhead. Yes, the women are *****es to them, and they forgive to the women they love. That is a similarity. But again, the contexts are completely different.
The girls, conversely, live equally exciting lives, traveling the world as they pursue a career in performance art but ultimately failing due to health problems and realize that they find no happiness in their bohemian life styles without the down-home Southern boys they loved as children.
That's a similarity, albeit another slightly vague one. Daisy is painted as far more successful and talented than Jenny ever was. Jenny latched onto some hippies. Daisy was so good she sought out a prestigious school and latched onto a famous choreographer.
Both relationships eventually culminate in marriage and a single child, but, due to reasons of illness, their marriages are short-lived, and the remaining parent is forced to care for their perfect child alone.
That's ridiculously vague and hardly relevant on the same level.
Benjamin leaves voluntariliy so that his child can have a father, realizing the strain he will be placing on his family because of who he is.
Jenny dies of what is generally assumed to be AIDS because of her lifestyle choices.
And Daisy is not forced to care for the child alone, she remarries another man, who becomes the child's father.
Your friend also fails to mention that after Daisy grows old, she ends up living with and caring for Benjamin.
Neither Gump nor Button ever seem to be particularly distressed about anything
Some people aren't. A similarity, sure. Hardly proof of a complete lack of creativity or depth.
and all the other characters are made out to be fools for not taking things in such stride.
How so?
The moral at the end of the story is either "you never know what you're gonna get" or "you never know what's coming for you", depending on which version you're watching.
That's one of several themes in the films. The main theme of Forrest Gump appears to be that you never know what life will hold, or the meaning that events have, and that you should make the best of it. The overarcing theme of Benjamin Button is that you never know how and when your life will end, so you should appreciate it as much as you can.
Lt. Dan becomes Captain Mike. The Bubba-Gump shrimp boat becomes Captain Mike's tugboat, as well as Button's father's sailboat.
The "commanding officer" bit is a similarity, but again, used very differently.
There's a boat that plays a key role in both movies? Thats the big similarity that makes Roth so uncreative?
One of them is a tugboat where an aimless young Benjamin Button works his first real job, learns about work ethic, and goes to war, before setting out to find out what he really wants to do.
One of them is a shrimping boat where an older Forrest Gump attempts to fulfill his and Bubba's dream and survives a hurricane, which allows him to fulfill his and Bubba's dream for real.
I guess surviving something dangerous on a boat is sort of a similarity, but the relevances are completely different.
The feather Gump sees flying around in the wind becomes a hummingbird out at sea.
And the structure, use, and themes of the images are completely different.
Lt. Dan's loss of his legs after a war injury becomes Daisy's crippled legs after a car accident, complete with scenes in foreign hospitals where the injured party sends Gump or Button away disdainfully.
That's a similar theme, yes. However, the contexts of the scenes are completely different, as are the aftermaths between the characters and the "cripples".
Infantry battles in Vietnam become naval battles in World War II, with the protagonist being the only one to come out unscathed.
Didn't Gump rescue Lt. Dan in FORREST GUMP?
Gump's cross-country running becomes Button's travels on a motorcycle.
How is this even remotely a similarity? They both have hobbies?
Gump's influence on Watergate and the invention of the smiley face become Button's encounter with the oldest woman to swim the English channel and his mystical connection to Hurricane Katrina.
What in God's name does Button's encounter with Hurricane Katrina and the oldest woman to swim the English channel have to do with the kind of devices that were just mentioned for GUMP in terms of similarities?
The scenes where Button and Daisy finally live happily together could have easily been described as "we were like peas and carrots again."
As could most relationships that are portrayed as such. Gosh, we've never seen a couple "get back together" before on film.
The famous "run, Forrest, run" scene becomes Button learning to walk as an elderly seven-year-old.
Uh...no. The contexts are completely different. In one scene, Forrest and Jenny are essentially alone. In another, they are surrounded by well wishers and friends. He does not walk (or run for the first time, discovering some fabulous new talent that will take him places) out of desperation in BUTTON, as he does in GUMP, he walks because of the nature of the scene, which has nothing to do with danger, or desperation, and everything to do with hope and faith. He never "couldn't walk" in FORREST GUMP, either, he just had the braces to help him.
Yes, the wheelchair and the braces are a similar "crutch" for a disabled person, and moving beyond them is significant on the same level but...he's born an old man. A wheelchair isn't exactly out of the question, considering.
Gump watching Jenny play guitar at the night club becomes Button watching Daisy dance at a concert hall.
Kind of like any character who's ever watched his loved one do anything.
Really?
He's watching her on Broadway.
Jenny was at a night club.
Broadway...night club.
Hmm...
Gump going to the Black Panther meeting and then saying goodbye to Jenny as her boyfriend calls her onto a bus becomes Button going to a beatnik party and saying goodbye to Daisy as her boyfriend calls her to a cab. It just goes on and on and on.
That's a relatively minor similarity. Button's use of the device is quite different than GUMP's.
There are differences, of course - Gump's duncehood versus Button's reverse aging being the most glaring example - but they're ultimately trivial and don't change any of the film's core messages.
How is the entire premise being different an "ultimately trivial" difference?
Fincher directs The Curious Case of Benjamin Button with far more flair, beauty, and fantasy than Robert Zemeckis did with Forrest Gump, and had Forrest Gump never existed, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button could very well be called a good film
I don't see how FORREST GUMP has any bearing on this film's quality. Unless the message here is "no film can ever repeat the themes or ideas seen in part in another film, especially if a writer who likes to use those themes wrote the other film".