How do you read a girl?

[Darthphere]

Tangled Web needs to hit something his own age.

 

[November Rain]

Alright, I have a situation here?

There's this girl. She got me to admit I liked her and all that and she said that I definitley have a shot with her. The only problem was is that she had a boyfriend. After some talking she told me that she doesn't like him and he's too clingy.

She said she wants to break up with him. Did my revelation prompt this? I have no idea. Well, she sends me a text saying that she broke up with him (with a smiley face on it.) Well, I misplaced my cell for two days. I find it and I reply that "I don't know what to say." She then tells me that "it's been one of the worst days ever!" I ask if there is anything she can do, but she says no.
So that was on Wednsday, so today I send her a text asking if she feels better. She said "yes" because "Jimmy (**** it his name is Jimmy) finally talked to me today after being mad at me." So know I have no idea what the **** is going on.

She's playing some weird chess game with me. I need to know how I can try to get the real scoop without making it seem obvious that I care. I want to come off like (you know) not really concerned.

Any suggestions?

in all honesty, tell jimmy, at least give him a head's up

oh and for the future, if she's willing to do that to her boyfriend, she's willing to do it to you down the line, I wouldn't advise going out with anyone like that.

all ze best

 

[arachnid-guy]

TW...it all worked out, huh?

 

[kane9321]

christ..shes..just a kid.

 

[arachnid-guy]

He could always buy her a nice Hello Kitty bag...as a bribe.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

christ..shes..just a kid.

ugh....so's he.
and at 14 girls are more mature and much more intelligent that some horn-ball 16 year old, look at how she's totally toying with him, it's like watching a killer whale fling a seal around.

a stupid, stupid seal.

 

[Erzengel]

I know it's only 2 years but he's like almost half a year from being a Senior and she's still in Jr. High School. It's a fine line, but still a line.

 

[Fran]

I think Tangled Web should drive up to the Jr. High School, find his girl. She should be easily identifable by her Barbie lunchbox and Hello Kitty backpack. He should then take her to dinner at Chuck E Cheeses and maybe spend the rest of the night coloring and having a pretend tea party. He then would have her eating out of the palm of his hand.

How I got my first girlfriend

 

[November Rain]

ah christ, I've just read the whole of this thread...

what a ****ing disaster....

I can't believe some of you guys steered him into a world of pain. wow....

here's a quick tip, NEVER TALK ABOUT FEELINGS VIA TEXT OR OVER THE PHONE!!!!

unless you are dumping someone and it's funny, anyone wanna see some texts of how i broke someone's heart recently, it's awesome...hehe...

 

[Tangled Web]

Was she toying with me? Or was I toying with her? It was I who got her to admit to liking me.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

she was /Is toying with you.

 

[Erzengel]

I hate it when 14 year olds play with my heart, it's not fair.

 

[fangrl06]

Was she toying with me? Or was I toying with her? It was I who got her to admit to liking me.

Chances are she admitted to liking you because you started pulling away. She wants you to chase her, but isn't sure how she feels about you. Stop giving her so much attention and although she might not show it, it will drive her crazy.

 

[Tangled Web]

Chances are she admitted to liking you because you started pulling away. She wants you to chase her, but isn't sure how she feels about you. Stop giving her so much attention and although she might not show it, it will drive her crazy.

Should I avoid her for a while?

 

[fangrl06]

Should I avoid her for a while?

No, just treat her like a friend. Be nice to her. Put her in the friend zone. She'll think you're over her, and she'll crave your attention once more...trust me.

 

[Lunar_Wolf]

Should I avoid her for a while?

Man take it from me, I've been ****ed over by so many girls now my head is spinning! Best thing to do is make no contact! Find a girl who will not play games with you even if it hurts avoiding her.

 

[Mr Sparkle]

I keep googling " banging my head against a ****ing wall" for Images
but I can't find any.

 

[Erzengel]

I love the adult advice for a 16 & 14 year old.

What you got to do is explain your feelings for her, and ascertain her true intentions.

 

[Tangled Web]

No, just treat her like a friend. Be nice to her. Put her in the friend zone. She'll think you're over her, and she'll crave your attention once more...trust me.

The thing is. Once she told me she liked me, I admitted that I'll cancel the date with the other girl.

 

[AndThePickles]

I keep googling " banging my head against a ****ing wall" for Images
but I can't find any.

Seriously

 

[WorthyStevens]

The thing is. Once she told me she liked me, I admitted that I'll cancel the date with the other girl.

It's clear she has the upper hand on you, and that's something you don't want.

 

[fangrl06]

The thing is. Once she told me she liked me, I admitted that I'll cancel the date with the other girl.

That's the thing, if she sees you moving on she's going to try and get your attention back so that she can use you as a safety net. She wants you to chase her, is what I think. Does she only show intrest in you when you're beginning to get over her?

 

[Erzengel]

I keep googling " banging my head against a ****ing wall" for Images
but I can't find any.

Have you tried "Ponderous, f'ing ponderous"?

 

[Mr Sparkle]

Have you tried "Ponderous, f'ing ponderous"?

I liked Bonanza

 

[fangrl06]

She's 14? Damn...and already playing games...good for her.