How do you read a girl?

What did I do wrong in that one?
1) You told her you didn't want her.

(NEVER let your true feelings known unless you're absolutely sure you can control the situation)

2) When the situation presented itself, you dropped everything for her, despite what you said earlier.

(You just stepped into lap-dog territory. From what she said, sounds like she doesn't want a flip flopper. Have some confidence)
 
1) You told her you didn't want her.

(NEVER let your true feelings known unless you're absolutely sure you can control the situation)

2) When the situation presented itself, you dropped everything for her, despite what you said earlier.

(You just stepped into lap-dog territory. From what she said, sounds like she doesn't want a flip flopper. Have some confidence)

I see. What the **** is wrong with me? But the thing is, I wasn't over her.

Here's what I wrote:


"Because I WASN'T over you. The only way (shape form) I was over you is because I thought you didn't like me. I didn't want to wait for you to change your mind (I thought you didn't like me) so I wanted to say that I was over you.

It turns out you do like me? That changes things. You are the one that I want. I couldn't move on if I knew there could be something between us."


Was that the wrong thing to say?
 
I see. What the **** is wrong with me? But the thing is, I wasn't over her.

Here's what I wrote:


"Because I WASN'T over you. The only way (shape form) I was over you is because I thought you didn't like me. I didn't want to wait for you to change your mind (I thought you didn't like me) so I wanted to say that I was over you.

It turns out you do like me? That changes things. You are the one that I want. I couldn't move on if I knew there could be something between us."


Was that the wrong thing to say?
Pretty much every single word of your last 3 sentences was the worst thing you could say.
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At this point, I wouldn't be surprised if she took that message as "cling-y" which is a BIG turn-off. Like I said a million times, being nonchalant is bulletproof. It's the perfect bait because you'll show enough interest to let her know that there *might* be something there, but enough disinterest to make her think twice if she moves on.

Girls love a challenge. If you let them know without a shadow of a doubt that they can have you anytime they want....you're finished.
 
Just let her alone, little bro.
I can't. I want her.

Pretty much every single word of your last 3 sentences was the worst thing you could say.
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At this point, I wouldn't be surprised if she took that message as "cling-y" which is a BIG turn-off. Like I said a million times, being nonchalant is bulletproof. It's the perfect bait because you'll show enough interest to let her know that there *might* be something there, but enough disinterest to make her think twice if she moves on.

Girls love a challenge. If you let them know without a shadow of a doubt that they can have you anytime they want....you're finished.

That didn't seem to work when I told her I cancelled a date for her. It made her admit to liking me but now she thinks that there is someone else in the picture. I'm in a ****ing pickle.

I want to say the right things, but I can't. What do you think she'll say next and how could i respond in a nonchalant way?

This is hard for me.
 
That didn't seem to work when I told her I cancelled a date for her.
It didn't work because now she knows you'll cancel a freakin' date for her.

I want to say the right things, but I can't. What do you think she'll say next and how could i respond in a nonchalant way?

This is hard for me.
Never been in your situation, so hard to predict. Lemme know what she says and I'll see if you're in a deeper hole or not. :o
 
It didn't work because now she knows you'll cancel a freakin' date for her.


Never been in your situation, so hard to predict. Lemme know what she says and I'll see if you're in a deeper hole or not. :o

What the **** was I thinking? Damn it Spoons. His talk of a fake girl friend influenced me.
 
It didn't work because now she knows you'll cancel a freakin' date for her.


Never been in your situation, so hard to predict. Lemme know what she says and I'll see if you're in a deeper hole or not. :o

lol. I don't think there's a way to rebound from this. Continuing the pursuit is futile. :dry:
 
The fake gf thing wasn't a bad idea, actually. You're still in hs so the whole "that's pretty desperate" thing won't apply to you. Don't try it in your 20s though. :o

You just f'd up by letting her know you'd drop the "gf".
 
What if I post a bulletin?!

She's not online, but I could post a bulletin and it could help.

What should it say? How could I come off as nonchalant?
 
I can't. I want her.



That didn't seem to work when I told her I cancelled a date for her. It made her admit to liking me but now she thinks that there is someone else in the picture. I'm in a ****ing pickle.

I want to say the right things, but I can't. What do you think she'll say next and how could i respond in a nonchalant way?

This is hard for me.
you idiot. what the **** did you do!? i told you not to **** this up like last time and what's the first thing you do?....huh!?....:csad:
 
What if I post a bulletin?!

She's not online, but I could post a bulletin and it could help.

What should it say? How could I come off as nonchalant?
stop, stop, stop, stop! just hold on. let me think here. :dry:
 
I can't. I want her.

describe me a single characteristic she has that you can't find in any of the other freaking millions of girls your age available around where you live.

go ahead.:o

oh, and so we're clear, you don't get to say "I don't know"
or "she's special" she can only be special if you can say that she has like a third nipple or something otherwise those don't count.
 
describe me a single characteristic she has that you can't find in any of the other freaking millions of girls your age available around where you live.

go ahead.:o

oh, and so we're clear, you don't get to say "I don't know"
or "she's special" she can only be special if you can say that she has like a third nipple or something otherwise those don't count.

Fine...She likes me.
 
Since when does liking someone turned into a game of tactics? You need to be real with eachother. This is generally speaking..
 
okay, how bout this. tell her to stop being such a ****in' tease and make her mind up if she wants you in her life or not. because if not, just get the **** outta there cuz she's just using your ass when she needs a shoulder to cry on. that's all you're getting outta her. :csad:
 
that's OBVIOUSLY up for debate, do you have such little self esteem that you would settle for this girl just because she might like you?
you can't like her cuz she likes you, this is not a precious moments figurine dammit! think man! think!!! :cmad:
 
I already did like her. When I found out she liked me too, it clicked. I just know that I HAVE to have her.
 
that's OBVIOUSLY up for debate, do you have such little self esteem that you would settle for this girl just because she might like you?
you can't like her cuz she likes you, this is not a precious moments figurine dammit! think man! think!!! :cmad:
okay, i wont lie his girl is a nice looking girl that's kind of mature for her age. however, she is immature in the sense that she plays with this guy like a little kid.
 
okay, i wont lie his girl is a nice looking girl that's kind of mature for her age. however, she is immature in the sense that she plays with this guy like a little kid.
Wait..you've seen her pic? :o
 
I already did like her. When I found out she liked me too, it clicked. I just know that I HAVE to have her.
I hope you're being facetious there...but I did just join the conversation. That really is the wrong way to view a girl as "having her".
You shouldn't have to have someone, that just sounds possessive and makes me wonder if the girl actually likes you.
 
I already did like her. When I found out she liked me too, it clicked. I just know that I HAVE to have her.
alright, no pressure but the time is now! this whole friendship **** has reached it's climax! it's now the time when you both have to make the decision wether or not you gonna take it further. i see you want to, you just gotta have her want to. :word:
 

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