If Your Girlfriend Leaves For College...

[cryptic name]

...and doesn't say good bye before hand, is it okay to see other people?
Seriously, we didn't talk for a week before she left and I figured, you know, if she wants to see me, she'll call me. Now it's been two weeks and so far not so much as a text or e-mail, it's getting harder and harder to say "sorry, I have a girlfriend". Should I just say f**k it and move on?

 

[Lackey]

yup, she's probably wanting to date some college guys and didn't know how to break it off with you

 

[Iceman]

Pretty much, unless it's a very long term relationship or you want to keep it going.

 

[Axid]

 

[cryptic name]

Pretty much, unless it's a very long term relationship or you want to keep it going.

i would if she wanted to, but if she doesn't care enough to pick up a phone and say 'hey, im leaving tomorrow, see ya." then i don't really care. we were together off and on since a little after christmas, so not that long term.

 

[Iceman]

i would if she wanted to, but if she doesn't care enough to pick up a phone and say 'hey, im leaving tomorrow, see ya." then i don't really care. we were together off and on since a little after christmas, so not that long term.

There's a 99% chance that it's all over but depending how strongly you want to keep it going, it might be worth contacting her just to make sure that there's no other reason for her not contacting you. I got annoyed at an ex once when she didn't call me back for a couple of days after visiting family but found out one of her relatives had died and she called me eventually and everthing was fine for another 4 or 5 months.

If you contact her you shouldn't have anything to lose as long as you have already accepted that it's probably over before you call her.

 

[cryptic name]

There's a 99% chance that it's all over but depending how strongly you want to keep it going, it might be worth contacting her just to make sure that there's no other reason for her not contacting you. I got annoyed at an ex once when she didn't call me back for a couple of days after visiting family but found out one of her relatives had died and she called me eventually and everthing was fine for another 4 or 5 months.

If you contact her you shouldn't have anything to lose as long as you have already accepted that it's probably over before you call her.

that's smart, but i'm probably not going to call her. i'll just assume it's over, and if i find out otherwise... oh well

 

[Iceman]

that's smart, but i'm probably not going to call her. i'll just assume it's over, and if i find out otherwise... oh well

OK mate.

 

[Untilteld]

Your single sir.

 

[The Riddler]

you guys don't talk everyday?

you sure she was your gf?

 

[My Liege]

Yes, because if she didn't say goodbye, then she's clearly a selfish broad, and that's just the tip of the iceberg.

 

[Shuley]

...and doesn't say good bye before hand, is it okay to see other people?
Seriously, we didn't talk for a week before she left and I figured, you know, if she wants to see me, she'll call me. Now it's been two weeks and so far not so much as a text or e-mail, it's getting harder and harder to say "sorry, I have a girlfriend". Should I just say f**k it and move on?

Trust me,she's gone. A week is like a year when your in a relationship.This is the classic case of women trying to give guys a hint,how many women have you heard say "Gee,can't this guy take a hint"? Nuff,Said.

 

[TrailerCues]

Send someone like this guy after her

 

[Lex Luthor]

You really should have never told a girl, "Sorry I have a girlfriend" after your ex-GF left without even so much as a goodbye. But no worries. You're single now. And honestly, you might be better off without her. Apparently the relationship wasnt going anywhere anyways. So enjoy it.

 

[Shuley]

Send someone like this guy after her

I thought MaGuyver doesn't like guns?

 

[Corinthian™]

that's O'Niel from Stargate

 

[TrailerCues]

I thought MaGuyver doesn't like guns?

Edit Corinthian beat me to it

 

[Harlekin]

i would if she wanted to, but if she doesn't care enough to pick up a phone and say 'hey, im leaving tomorrow, see ya." then i don't really care. we were together off and on since a little after christmas, so not that long term.

I'll be honest, I think you can consider her your ex, but you obviously haven't cared enough either. If you knew she was going to go, you could've done so much before she left, but you didn't bother either. Now, this is just a possible scenario, but maybe she thought: "What a bastard. My boyfriend doesn't even care that I'm leaving for college."

 

[SpiderHulkThing]

...and doesn't say good bye before hand, is it okay to see other people?
Seriously, we didn't talk for a week before she left and I figured, you know, if she wants to see me, she'll call me. Now it's been two weeks and so far not so much as a text or e-mail, it's getting harder and harder to say "sorry, I have a girlfriend". Should I just say f**k it and move on?

Um yeah dude. You're screwed as far as keeping that one if that's your plan. She either thinks you're a prick for not calling or she's looking for new opportunities. Going back to school (or for the first time) is a pretty big deal to most gals. She'd call you and tell you about it. So pretty much, you're relationship with her is already over. Sorry bro. Maybe I'm wrong, but probably not. And it doesn't seem like you really care too much anyway.

 

[SpiderHulkThing]

I'll be honest, I think you can consider her your ex, but you obviously haven't cared enough either. If you knew she was going to go, you could've done so much before she left, but you didn't bother either. Now, this is just a possible scenario, but maybe she thought: "What a bastard. My boyfriend doesn't even care that I'm leaving for college."

after reading more of the first posters posts, i agree.

 

[Master Chief]

Hot, lol. Is that TangledWeb?

 

[Alpha and Omega]

...and doesn't say good bye before hand, is it okay to see other people?
Seriously, we didn't talk for a week before she left and I figured, you know, if she wants to see me, she'll call me. Now it's been two weeks and so far not so much as a text or e-mail, it's getting harder and harder to say "sorry, I have a girlfriend". Should I just say f**k it and move on?

Dude, are you sure that you two were even going out? Your situation sounds like it was just more of a convenience for two people who were enjoying each other.

A couple of people here have already given you the best advice: forget about it.

Hot, lol. Is that TangledWeb?

I thought of that too.

You beat me to it.

 

[Lantern Venom]

...and doesn't say good bye before hand, is it okay to see other people?
Seriously, we didn't talk for a week before she left and I figured, you know, if she wants to see me, she'll call me. Now it's been two weeks and so far not so much as a text or e-mail, it's getting harder and harder to say "sorry, I have a girlfriend". Should I just say f**k it and move on?

I don't think it's a good idea to just assume anything. Talk to her and get all the specifics of the relationship laid out. Then go from there. Even if your relationship hasn't been that long, it's always good standard practice to communicate.

 

[kane9321]

talk to her first before you do anything hasty.Ask some questions..then you move on

 

[Mr. Credible]

yup, she's probably wanting to date some college guys and didn't know how to break it off with you

that sounds about right.