Welcome, Havok.
I'm glad you're interested in the show. Even though it's in its 7th season, I still think it's a great time to jump in. You might consider watching the previous seasons on DVD if you ever get the chance though.
I'll add my 2 bits to the Lois/Clark/Lana question. Keep in mind, the SV fans are about the MOST polarized fandom I've ever seen, and I've been around quite a few of them, for many years. So, most opinions you read will be colored by personal bias. I'm not saying anyone's absolutely right or wrong, but don't be fooled by anyone telling you that they know exactly how ALL the fans feel about anything on this show. They don't. Not even me..
Personally, I'm more of a Clark and Lana fan, because that relationship, along with the Clark and Lex one is what sold me on the show. But never forget, despite all the complicate relationships in this show, it's still ultimately about Clark Kent and the events of his life that lead him to becoming Superman.
The relationship of Clark and Lana has always been filled with frustration, primarily because of one of the basic tenets this show set up: Clark's need to hide his alien origins from her. This storyline did go on far too long, but fortunately, it's finally been resolved as of last season. Now we go to the next phase for them - trying to make it work as a real couple. I suspect, it's going to be a bumpy ride as usual for them, and as we all know, it's not going to end up with them happily ever after as he has other plans for his future *coughSupermanLoisLane*. But through all of this, there's no denying the amazing chemistry of Tom and Kristin playing these two ill-fated lovers. So I do :heart: them madly, even though they won't last.
Regarding Lois, who I also love, as Pat explained, she was introduced on the show with certain stipulations about not having her be romantically involved with Clark.. yet. I've come to actually LOVE the way SV is handling Lois. She's still developing her iconic persona, just as Clark is. There are so many anvils and nods to their future together that I find very entertaining. But despite the obvious anvils, there is a palpable bond developing between Clark and Lois that is very real and honest feeling, and this is the kind of chemistry that makes you believe that they will be able to one day fall in love in the future. Without the burden of having to create a dramatic romance between them yet, Clark and Lois have fun and exciting scenes together almost all the time. It's a wonderful balance to have along with his love scenes with Lana.
Lana and Lois have always been supportive of each other. Even when Lana was with Lex - she confided in Lois after Lois made the offer to listen. I love SV writers so much for not making them competitors on this show. The way I see it, Lois and Lana are the two great loves of Clark Kent's life, and Clark Kent isn't an idiot. He sees something in both of these women - neither would betray him, and both love him in different ways. I hold to the thinking that Lana will always love the human side of Clark Kent -the boy she grew up with; and Lois will be able to love the Superman side of him. Since his adult role will be dominated by his Supermanly duties, Lois is the woman that fits into his life for the long run, and not Lana. (okay, I got a chest pang when I wrote that.
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Wow! Holy morning coffee rant! Sorry guys, caffeine buzz strikes again.