Love help

[JokerNick]

okay, this isn't for me, I'm fine, but my cousin, who is in his mid 30s, dude has never had a GF, and lately, he's been telling me he's lonely and all, but he has no idea how to meet girls... I really can't give him much advise, haven't been on the "dating" seen in some time, and we have a 14 year age difference, I can't take him to the places I go to, he would seem really out of place therre....

so anyways, I want to help dude out, he's a good friend of mine, what are some places to go where he can meet "chicks".... is the internet a good resource, ala match.com....

we live in the Milwaukee area, so if anyone lives around there and knows of any good spots, let me know.... thanks in advance, I think....

 

[Ronny Shade]

That'll be me in 10 years.

 

[The Amazing Lee]

Go to bars, clubs etc. The best bet it to get out there and meet new people and to generally socialise.

Take him to a few bars and clubs and get him in the general attitude to talk to girls.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

church

 

[Morg]

join in sports or clubs he likes or interested in and then meet other people who has the same hobbies

 

[jaguarr]

There are lots of co-ed intramural sports clubs like hiking, biking, rock-climbing, roller-blading, running, soccer, softball, karate etc. that are good places to meet other people, including women. Book clubs. Wine tasting clubs. Toastmasters. Continuing education classes for nearly every interest known to man are offered by most colleges and public school systems. There are adventure clubs for folks who want to get out and try new and exciting things together. If you're someplace where people of your general age group of both genders get together to have fun and share interests and experiences, chances are you'll meet someone you hit it off with and you already have some common ground to start from.

I'll also add that bars and clubs are an awsome place to get laid, but a terrible place to find a girlfriend.

jag

 

[Elijya]

match.com and eharmony are good places to find a good caliber of single people. Of course you have to pay, but success rates are much higher

you can also try craigslist or myspace. the chances of finding meaningful relationships with decent people are less there, but you can at least get a couple of dates

check out city guides for your area and find singles bars, or community activities where you can meet new people. Even if he doesn't meet someone he can connect with, if he makes friends that will make him feel less lonely, and they may even be able to set him up with someone. It's all about networking

is he, like, an ugly guy or something? Obese, or anything like that?

 

[Equint77]

superherohype.com....

 

[Morg]

superherohype.com....

and have him run into a Aunt P person?

 

[THWIP*]

okay, this isn't for me, I'm fine, but my cousin, who is in his mid 30s, dude has never had a GF, and lately, he's been telling me he's lonely and all, but he has no idea how to meet girls... I really can't give him much advise, haven't been on the "dating" seen in some time, and we have a 14 year age difference, I can't take him to the places I go to, he would seem really out of place therre....

so anyways, I want to help dude out, he's a good friend of mine, what are some places to go where he can meet "chicks".... is the internet a good resource, ala match.com....

we live in the Milwaukee area, so if anyone lives around there and knows of any good spots, let me know.... thanks in advance, I think....

YEAH, HERE'S SOME ADVICE: TELL THE BASTARD TO LEAVE THE DEAD CHICKS ALONE!.

 

[Hades]

Geesh, what has he been doing these past 30 years to not meet anybody?

But, uh... Good luck to him.

 

[The Amazing Lee]

church

 

[Equint77]

and have him run into a Aunt P person?

he's in his 30's and is getting no play.... beggers can't be choosers.... :heart: :heart:

besides.. I'm don't discriminate..... I'm in love with Lee and DL.

And in my spare time I run my fingers through holly's

Spoiler

hair

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

I'll also add that bars and clubs are an awsome place to get laid, but a terrible place to find a girlfriend.

Yes, that's why I wasn't kidding about church.
I read this article about how church is the hip new place to meet chicks 'cause the good ones are tired of bar/club bulls**** (especially the older ones), so they go to church horny as hell hoping to find a "decent" man, even when they don't believe what the church is teaching.

One of my favorite girlfriends was initially friends with my best friend and they met at church. Needless to say, she did not actually believe their teachings and seemed to be there purely for social reasons and to rebel against her atheist parents.

 

[Ronny Shade]

match.com and eharmony are good places to find a good caliber of single people. Of course you have to pay, but success rates are much higher

They don't have higher results because they're better but because people who are willing to pay membership for those things are more desperate and therefore more willing to do what it takes to find somebody that's "Okay" enough to end up with.

 

[JokerNick]

match.com and eharmony are good places to find a good caliber of single people. Of course you have to pay, but success rates are much higher

you can also try craigslist or myspace. the chances of finding meaningful relationships with decent people are less there, but you can at least get a couple of dates

check out city guides for your area and find singles bars, or community activities where you can meet new people. Even if he doesn't meet someone he can connect with, if he makes friends that will make him feel less lonely, and they may even be able to set him up with someone. It's all about networking

is he, like, an ugly guy or something? Obese, or anything like that?

he's no Brad Pitt, but he's a decent guy, regular looking, probably 6 foot, 190 pounds.... has his own house, good paying job....

his think, was that he was really sick when he was a child, and had to be home schooled until he was 14... he started school a few years behind, and eventually made friends with people 8 years younger then him, that's how far behind he was... so all his friends now are in there mid 20s, and he's in his mid 30s, so he's always the odd one out when they go out.... dude is very intelligent and everything, he just acts like he's in his mid 20s,

just imagine being socially cut off for 14 years,.... that's why he related to younger kids growing up... he was far behind socially....

 

[7Hells]

that is soooo wrong.

 

[Ronny Shade]

Yes, that's why I wasn't kidding about church.
I read this article about how church is the hip new place to meet chicks 'cause the good ones are tired of bar/club bulls**** (especially the older ones), so they go to church horny as hell hoping to find a "decent" man, even when they don't believe what the church is teaching.

One of my favorite girlfriends was initially friends with my best friend and they met at church. Needless to say, she did not actually believe their teachings and seemed to be there purely for social reasons and to rebel against her atheist parents.

HAHA! classic

 

[The Amazing Lee]

Churches are for chicks..

clubs and bars are for *****.

 

[Morg]

she either looking at porn or tricking some poor noob thinking she's a hot babe

 

[jaguarr]

he's no Brad Pitt, but he's a decent guy, regular looking, probably 6 foot, 190 pounds.... has his own house, good paying job....

his think, was that he was really sick when he was a child, and had to be home schooled until he was 14... he started school a few years behind, and eventually made friends with people 8 years younger then him, that's how far behind he was... so all his friends now are in there mid 20s, and he's in his mid 30s, so he's always the odd one out when they go out.... dude is very intelligent and everything, he just acts like he's in his mid 20s,

just imagine being socially cut off for 14 years,.... that's why he related to younger kids growing up... he was far behind socially....

The good news for him, then, is that he's at an age where younger girls in their twenties are going to be digging on a guy in his thirties because he's got a stable job and is a bit more mature. His advantage is that he'll still like going out and doing the things girls in their twenties might like to do where as a lot of older guys in their 30's might not.

jag

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

HAHA! classic

not a stated goal, my informed theory

 

[JokerNick]

The good news for him, then, is that he's at an age where younger girls in their twenties are going to be digging on a guy in his thirties because he's got a stable job and is a bit more mature. His advantage is that he'll still like going out and doing the things girls in their twenties might like to do where as a lot of older guys in their 30's might not.

jag

dude just always looks out of place... I think that's his problem....

 

[7Hells]

so all his friends now are in there mid 20s, and he's in his mid 30s, so he's always the odd one out when they go out.... dude is very intelligent and everything, he just acts like he's in his mid 20s,

He needs to start hanging out with people his age.
Otherwise he will always be a bit socially retar...eer behind the times.

 

[The Amazing Lee]

Has an out going personality...you can have looks but without a good personality he'll only find VERY shallow girls.