Please Help

[Mr. Credible]

Yeah...drunk sex typically results in bruises on the girl's wrists, shoulders and neck and her calling a friend while hysterical in tears from the bathroom immediately after while the guy yells angrily for her to come back to bed in the background.

jag

like i said... i'm not defending this guy. i'm just saying, it happens, and you never know.

i've had sex that resulted in a few bruises, too... sober, even.

but, whatever.

 

[Mr. Credible]

yeah, this morning around 6 she woke up and I went over to her apartment to get some stuff she needed (purse mainly). He was already gone which was probably for the best because that could have turned out real bad.

I got back to my place and talked to her some more and we finally got a hold of her sister who is her roommate but wasn't home last night. She came over to my place and all of us talked about it. I had already convinced her to go to the hospital to get tested and the morning after pill and her sister and I also convinced her to report it. I took both of them to the hospital, but after that I left them alone. It was apparent that it was still ver awkward for her and being with just her sister and not another male was probably best. They went in and did everything. Afterwards they both went back to their parent's hom ein the suburbs.

Since that, I haven't talked to her much. She's with her family which is best right now and it's probabyl hard for her to just talk about it over the phone anyway.


And I know that you aren't defending rape or anything like that but just trying to look at it from an outside view that isn't biased. Like you said, it is weird circumstances and I fully admit that. I do however believe she is telling me the truth but i do still respect your opinion and aren't pissed for simply being skeptical or anything.

i appreciate that. because honestly, i'm not a bad guy, and would never hurt a girl (or really, anyone) on purpose... but i've been in this situation before, wrongly, of course, and i'm just providing an alternate opinion.

 

[Iceman]

Thank you everyone. You have no idea how much I appreciate all of your advice.

When she woke up around 6, I told her she's not going back and I went over to her place to get some stuff for her. He was already gone, which was probably for the best since I couldn't get a hold of another firend to be a witness if anythign happened.

We both finally got a hold of her sister, which she lives with but wasn't home last night. She came over and we both convinced her to report it. I walked both of them to the ER and they went in together to get get everythign she needs done. At that point, the sister took over, which is completely understandable. I might be a close friend, but I am no sister.

She got back and called me to let me know, and she is just ahnging out with her sister right now. I am pretty sure they are going home to the suburbs later today.

I know she's in good hands with her sister and family, so I think I've done all I can for her today.

Once again, thank you all for everything you said. I'm sure all of you are glad we convinced her to report the *******, and I know I am.

Sounds like you handled it pretty well