From what i've noticed, most people seem to dislike Cyclops because he's purposely written to be the guy that fan favorites play off of.
They want characters like Wolverine or Gambit to be cool so they make Cyclops all wimpy and straight laced so that they have something to disagree with and rebel against.
I personally love Cyclops because I remember how he used to be.
Cyclops used to be everybody's favorite. He used to be the Wolverine of comics. The original X-men was Cyclops' team in every sense of the word.
Now we rarely get to see him written well anymore. (except in Astonishing X-men recently)
If you wanna like him more look at it this way.
-He's been the single biggest mainstay of the X-men since it's creation. The X-men wouldnt exist without him. He's their Captain America.
-He's easilly one of the greatest tacticians and team leaders in the Marvel universe (Personally I place him right after Cap)
-He's potentially one of the most dangerous mutants alive and not even entirely because of his mutant power. He has the complete, unquestioning loyalty of the X-men, he's in charge of the Xavier institute, he's basically the leader of what remains of the mutant population of earth. His tactical genius and his influence among mutants make him a major player.
-His ability means he can litterally kill people just by looking at them.
It's recently been established that he's never let loose with his powers before. That he always holds back. That said, looking over his more impressive power feats it's not hard to imagine how much damage he could actually do.
-He has nailed 2 of the hottest chicks in the MU several times. he's a playa.
If that doesnt help you think more highly of him.... well check out this respect thread. It's got several of his better feats.
http://www.killermovies.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=390874&perpage=20&highlight=&pagenumber=1