Well no not really, in Superman II Zod's plan was seemingly to just rule Earth & kill Kal-El.. or have him be his slave. In Man of Steel, Zod's plan is much more in line with what Zod's angle is in comics & other incarnations of the character with his main goal or aim being to rebuild Krypton.
Sure, and Superman's cape was a little shorter so it's a complete different movie based on that alone.
But no, you see, the origin of Superman, meeting Lois and Zod's coming is what happened in STM and SII in broad terms. Details of course are different, which is partially what I addressed when I said "more updated."
But I'll help you out this time: "Lex Luthor was not in it, Senator Pleasury!"
STM & SR's main plot angle both involved a Lex Luthor obsessed with selling land.
But SR didn't involve Superman's origin, nor did it involve missiles destroying California, Superman saving the president, and a long etcetera. You see, if you're going to use details as your main proof that two movies are completely different, you have to involve them when trying to say that's what make two movies completely the same.
However this is getting away from my point, my point wasn't that they each had similar plot angles, my point was that STM's main plot wasn't good enough & memorable enough to be updated & retold.
And yet it was.
Superman's origin, his youth in Smallville, the way he got to the Planet, met Lois, fell in love with her and vice versa and is introduced to the world is good enough and memorable enough, that's why every incarnation has them, that's why MOS has most of them, although MOS thought Superman being an amazing awe-inspiring being in the eyes of people wasn't interesting enough.
I kinda disagree, Spiderman wasn't in the same tone as Batman Begins, however it was a more modern story & made an attempt to give more of a realistic take on the character that had been seen before.
What was realistic in Spider-man? Pretty much nothing; the romantic story, Goblin powers, bombs exploding next to Peter's face with not a burnt, Goblin having Spider-man unconscious without unmasking him (even when he was later aware that his identity could be essential to get to him), MJ's ability to fall a long distance and grab a tram car without any major damage (not to mention she managed to do it without having the speed affect his hands), etc.
And what was seen before of Spider-man on the screen? The 1977-79 TV series. And we can tear that apart but it was far more realistic.
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I'm still waitin for someone to tell me why Superman cares so much Lois is dead. If the kiss in MOS is forced, Supes reaction in SM is just convenient, it happens only cuz he's Superman and her name is Lois Lane, with that being said i still think SM > MOS.
Well, the movie pretty much explains he is in love with her. That's why he chooses her to give an interview, take her on a personal flight, flirting, etc. And yes, that happened because he is Superman and she is Lois Lane. Those are the characters.
If that's not enough, Superman kind of cares about humans, specially their safety.
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Not to mention that turning back time goes against EVERYTHING that Jor-el had taught and warned him about, the entire point of the movie. Yet, he suffered NO consequences for doing this. At least in MOS, Superman was forced to kill a man, which goes against everything he believes in, and had a reaction to it.
Well, a reaction is not exactly a consequence (I think Snyder said the consequences are to be shown in the sequel). Superman also reacted when he remembered Jor-el's words, but he went on anyways. The fact that he remembered his Kryptonian father's words and hesitated means that the movie addressed the issue.