pity dates/dances, or other

[blind_fury]

remember kids, it could always be worse.

 

[blind_fury]

Women go out with guys out of sympathy?

When did this start happening?

 

[vibeke_T]

do guys go out with women in sympathy?

 

[vibeke_T]

Women go out with guys out of sympathy?

When did this start happening?

doesnt it happen all the time...

 

[blind_fury]

I think women get out of that "compassion for lonely guys" stage once they leave high school.

After that women don't want to be bothered.

 

[vibeke_T]

yeah...well...i have no pity on anyone.

 

[Kyalesyin]

I have never been a pity date, nor has someone ever dated me out of pity. I have been a survival date though, but thats another story.

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

whats a survival date?

 

[vibeke_T]

yeah what is that

 

[Kyalesyin]

School thing. He was literally the only guy in school who was gay. Given the nature of the school, he was probably the only guy who'd even given any deeper thought to the nature of his sexuality. He hadn't come out, but they were ragging him for not having a girlfriend or spending much time with girls. At the same time, people were getting suspicious of me and my 'best friend' Stef. So, we made a deal and hooked up. We didn't even speak to eachother outside of school unless we got invited out to stuff as a couple, but it stopped some of the ****kicking that went on.

Survival date- pretending to date someone to save your own hide.

 

[04nbod]

i don't do pity.For the very reason that are in some of these stories, its obvious and it hurts more than a flat no. as for being pitied, not really as i said its obvious so i put a stop to it