Pregnency Question

[Kyalesyin]

I think the right reasons would be you wanting to see an image of yourself enter this world, and wanting the responsibilty of raising him in this world....

I'm a pretty tough guy, but seeing a baby is one of the things that gets to me, makes me want be nuturing and caring....

and that's another thing, I want to spoil the hell out of my kid at first.... give him everything.... right now I don't think I can

Everything is a warm and loving home, and the emotional support to help them develop. You can give someone all the material goods in the world, but that doesn't count for **** if they don't know where to get a hug. My parents were counting the pennies at the end of every month, and I never had new clothes, but emotionally there was no issue.

 

[Kyalesyin]

the thing that sucks, it we were going to get married next year.... getting married on a beach... I have a good portion saved up, but I don't know if it's responsible to continue with those plans....

You can still get married after you have the kid, if thats what you pick. I was the youngest bridesmaid at my mothers wedding- four months old!

 

[Crazy Venom]

Everything is a warm and loving home, and the emotional support to help them develop. You can give someone all the material goods in the world, but that doesn't count for **** if they don't know where to get a hug. My parents were counting the pennies at the end of every month, and I never had new clothes, but emotionally there was no issue.

i think that's why Katie went for me.... she had a bunch of guys going after her a few years back.... some having more money then me.... but she saw that undernieth my tattoo's, piercing, and my unemotional ways, that I was actually a nuturing caring type of guy... that rather hold her, then party with my friends.....

 

[Kyalesyin]

i think that's why Katie went for me.... she had a bunch of guys going after her a few years back.... some having more money then me.... but she saw that undernieth my tattoo's, piercing, and my unemotional ways, that I was actually a nuturing caring type of guy... that rather hold her, then party with my friends.....

As my father said 'It takes a man to cry, or to say I'm sorry. Only cowards pretend not to feel.'

 

[Kritish]

Crazy Venom.

You know what the best contraceptive is?
NEUTER TIME!

You don't need no stinkin' contraceptives!
You've got erectile dysfunction lee!

 

[The Amazing Lee]

You don't need no stinkin' contraceptives!
You've got erectile dysfunction lee!

LOL!

that was SO yesterday's news. besides, that problem has waaaay gone.

 

[Crazy Venom]

As my father said 'It takes a man to cry, or to say I'm sorry. Only cowards pretend not to feel.'

I guess I'm a coward then.. since I haven't cried in years... and I don't remember the last time I said I was sorry

 

[Kritish]

LOL!

that was SO yesterday's news. besides, that problem has waaaay gone.

You're in denile...

 

[The Amazing Lee]

You're in denile...

I'm in England, not Africa. you jack-ass.

 

[Kyalesyin]

I guess I'm a coward then.. since I haven't cried in years... and I don't remember the last time I said I was sorry

But were you avoiding it because its an affront to your manhood, or did you simply not get the occasion? I only saw my father cry twice- once when our dog died, and once when his grandmother died. I only heard him apologise a few times. He goes to great lengths not to mess up.

 

[Kritish]

I'm in England, not Africa. you jack-ass.

Where about's?

 

[Crazy Venom]

But were you avoiding it because its an affront to your manhood, or did you simply not get the occasion? I only saw my father cry twice- once when our dog died, and once when his grandmother died. I only heard him apologise a few times. He goes to great lengths not to mess up.

don't know honesty.... occasion never came up I guess

 

[The Amazing Lee]

Where about's?

Londonish.

 

[Kritish]

Londonish.

How's the east end?
Still a crap hole?

 

[Kyalesyin]

don't know honesty.... occasion never came up I guess

So mayhaps you make a point of making sure you do when the occasion comes up? How often do you tell your woman that you love her?

 

[The Amazing Lee]

How's the east end?
Still a crap hole?

At times, yup.

Ever heard of Romford?

 

[Crazy Venom]

So mayhaps you make a point of making sure you do when the occasion comes up? How often do you tell your woman that you love her?

50 times a day atleast.....
everytime we talk on the phone or message each other... all the time... before we fall asleep... waking up... can't remember one day when we haven't

 

[Kritish]

At times, yup.

Ever heard of Romford?

Nope, I was in London for 'bout a week.

I love your title.t:

 

[Kritish]

Everything is a warm and loving home, and the emotional support to help them develop. You can give someone all the material goods in the world, but that doesn't count for **** if they don't know where to get a hug. My parents were counting the pennies at the end of every month, and I never had new clothes, but emotionally there was no issue.

That just plain stupid.

It's okay no matter what the money level is as long as there's love in the house.:meow: :heart:

Do you live in Rainbow alley or Unicorn plaza?

 

[Kyalesyin]

50 times a day atleast.....
everytime we talk on the phone or message each other... all the time... before we fall asleep... waking up... can't remember one day when we haven't

You know how many guys will not say that to their women? She says "I love you" and his response is "Yeah, me too."

How about when you two see eachother next you give her a hug and tell her something along the lines of "whatever happens, you got me right here." She'll be needing to hear it. Four AM knows all your secrets, and people will do whatever it takes to get through the night.

 

[Kyalesyin]

That just plain stupid.

It's okay no matter what the money level is as long as there's love in the house.:meow: :heart:

Do you live in Rainbow alley or Unicorn plaza?

No. I'm merely working off my own experience. Sure, kids need to be well fed and well clothed and all that, but how many rich kids wind up emotionally ****ed because they have everything they need materially, but nobody takes care of their emotional needs?

 

[Crazy Venom]

You know how many guys will not say that to their women? She says "I love you" and his response is "Yeah, me too."

How about when you two see eachother next you give her a hug and tell her something along the lines of "whatever happens, you got me right here." She'll be needing to hear it. Four AM knows all your secrets, and people will do whatever it takes to get through the night.

yeah, I got off that phone with her just a minute ago, I told her "whatever happens, happens, but atleast we know we got each other"

 

[Kritish]

No. I'm merely working off my own experience. Sure, kids need to be well fed and well clothed and all that, but how many rich kids wind up emotionally ****ed because they have everything they need materially, but nobody takes care of their emotional needs?

That's still stupid, you need to be able to have enougth money to feed them and be able to help them get into college.

 

[Crazy Venom]

That's still stupid, you need to be able to have enougth money to feed them and be able to help them get into college.

actually man, my parent's are very well off, making over 500K a year, and ya know what, i didn't get a penny for college.... all I got was a co-signer for loans... and I made it through

 

[Kyalesyin]

That's still stupid, you need to be able to have enougth money to feed them and be able to help them get into college.

Which is exactly what I said, but a kid is better off with fewer flashy toys and more emotional support than the other way around. Computer games can't soothe a scraped up knee or dispel a kids fears.