the INTERNET makes you lonely

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Do you feel that it is or does? building shallow relationships, leading to an overall decline in feeling of connection to other people. A stratagem for concealing one's feelings by suggesting their opposite.

Are people spending more time on the internet more than one should?

It's been on my mind. Its almost like some don't want to leave the internet.
 
The only time on the Internet is when I have nothing else planned with friends, filming, or photography. When my friend comes over he spends over 12 hours on my internet. I'd go to bed at 11pm and he'd be still be on when I wake up. Sometimes he will be on it when he is talking to me which is annoying, but he doesn't have the net at home, so if he did I would have ripped the laptop from his hands by now.
 
I dunno, I think it nurtures communities which couldn't have happened without the far-reaching capabilities of the internet. Like here - many of us are scattered all over, because being a fan of comic books or comic book movies isn't all that common. For another fan community that I'm a part of, it's IMPOSSIBLE to be a fan of figure skating without an international, online component, because fans of that are even rarer. :funny:
 
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the internet has actually helped me in lots of ways.

sure made homework easier. email is a lot cheaper than snail mail.

and just based on the fact that i'm addicted to genealogy, i've discovered more about my family and my past than i ever could without it, and i've actually found relatives that i never knew i had, or relatives that i haven't seen since i was a child
 
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Do you feel that it is or does? building shallow relationships, leading to an overall decline in feeling of connection to other people. A stratagem for concealing one's feelings by suggesting their opposite.

Are people spending more time on the internet more than one should?

It's been on my mind. Its almost like some don't want to leave the internet.

No. It's an urban legend just like the one that says 'drugs and alcohol' will ruin you. I had all those problems long before the internet. And to tell you the truth, I don't think too highly of those trying to lay a guilt complex on me and make me give up my internet and alcohol and drugs. If you ask me, there a bunch of chicken ****'s who make up lies and MISLEAD!

And if they are misleading us from following the proper lead then I can damn well garauntee that the true leaders don't have any love for them.

I'm not telling anyone to use drugs and alcohol and use the internet though... that would be misleading.
 
Internet usage is an individual activity. Sure it's inclusive due to message boards, group videos, and other hosting functions, but I personally have no idea how much time millions of other people spend online. That's their business, although I would agree that it's fair to state that a large number of individuals may be net-dependent in some way.

However, many people do use the internet as a way to accommodate their busy schedule. It's a useful tool for communicating with family, friends, and other people who live in other parts of the world. I e-mail some friends more than I speak with them on a weekly basis, but that's the nature of the hectic society we live in. I'm not sure that communicating in that fashion makes our relationships any less than they would be if the bulk of our interaction was in person. It's like any other tool: there's a sole responsibility of the person to dictate limits or choose to employ none. Not really a big deal I guess.

I don't think that the internet makes people lonely. People who use the internet as a way to escape from limited relationship connections probably feel lonely when they use it, but if you have good friendships with people, I'm not sure why using the internet would make you feel lonely. Most people use it to interact with other people, in addition to self-express, research, search for celeb related material, assess film and music, hobbies, arts and craft, pornography, and a bevy of other things. It's one of the sole technological innovations that provides almost every kind of knowledge in a quasi-instantaneous manner. Since people are becoming conditioned for convenience, it's not too hard to evaluate the connection between the popularity of a tool that provides it and people who desire this. It's simple supply and demand.

I'll use this analogy: for those of you who own gaming systems, would you rather call 3 friends up to come over to your house, wait for them, and play a XBOX 360 game or would you rather call them, tell them to get online, and play the same game in the comfort of your own home with no travel? Also, if they're not available, you can play the same multiplayer game online with a friend from Japan<lol, not too many 360 consumers there, but you get the point>, one from Sweden, and one from another part of the world? It opens up global communication.
 
I go through long spells of using the internet to escape from the monotony of life. The common man is a fool, or so they say... I like to discuss interesting things on discussion forums because many topics are off-limits in everyday life. People find them boring or have nothing to say about them. Try talking to a random friend at Starbucks about quantum theory if you want to prove my point.

I like to come here because there is an abundance of opinionated, intelligent people (of course, there are exceptions).

Overall, the internet can be a great place if used in moderation. Just in the past few days, I've been exposed to many different points-of-view on this website alone. I'm thankful for that - it's immediate and it keeps you well-rounded.
I'll have a discussion online with someone about something very interesting, then when I bring the topic up with my friends, they don't seem interested. A lot people prefer talking to people on the net because there are far more interesting people on it who want to talk about things you want to talk about.

I also find it much easier to debate with people online with sites like here. Having debates with friends sometimes is like trying to debate with someone on AICN, IMDB or Youtube.
 
Is it the opposite than?
is it life outside the internet that makes you lonely?
 

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