hey ultimatefan,
That's a great post and very good arguments.
I think, for me, making the kid Superman's, in the context of the film, in a way cuts at the core of Superman's character.
For me, Superman is not just Super because of his powers, but also because of his Ideals and Moral Code. Which are a result of his strong family bond, and the way his parents raised him in Smallville.
So, for me, Superman should know, more than anyone, that it is VERY IRRESPONSIBLE to have sex with a girl, get her pregnant, and then ABANDON her for 5 years and leave her to raise the kid without the real father!
IOW, Superman should not be an irresponsible, dead-beat dad with a child out of wedlock! His strong moral code and upbringing should give him enough sense not to do that. And, even if he did have sex with Lois before marriage, he should stick around and plan on marrying her, not LEAVE her for 5 or so years.
Now, if Supes and Lois were married, like in the comics, then Supes having a kid would make more sense, perhaps not in a Movie, but just in the comics.
For me, it would be an even more emotional challenge for Supes if the kid was Lois' and Richard's. I mean, it is pretty hard to come back and find that the woman you love has moved onto another man. And, if she is engaged to him and even has a child with him, that is even harder. Because, then the girl has really moved on with her life, and she is more "lost" to you.
If that is the case in movie, then I can accept that, and I would even feel more sorry for Supes.
But, if the Kid is Superman's, then, to me, that is an easy cop out to the situation. I mean if the kid is really yours, then that makes it somewhat easier for the girl to come back to you eventually.
IDK, it just seems that the Kid issue complicates the whole story. Plus, it ties into the first 2 movies, which had there own questionable plot lines (like the Amnesia Kiss).
Will I go see the movie? Yes, definately!! Everything looks fantastic!!! And, hopefully, everything will be explained and resolved in the movie.
But, if the movie portrays Supes as an irresponsible dead-beat dad, and encourages and promotes that behaviour, then I will be dissappointed.
Because, for me, Supes is the hero who should inspire all of us (and our kids especially) to live our lives more morally and responsibly.