I actually preferred Marvel comics back then. That was the last decade they had this thing called 'continuity'. Now they just hire the newest flash-in-the-pan writer who writes what he wants, refusing to build on anything established by previous scribes. This not only shuts out continuity, but severely limits character development.
If you're talking about less mainstream comics (Vertigo series such as DMZ, Fables, Y: The Last Man, etc) then I agree that today's comics are pretty kickass, but we still had Preacher, Sandman and Transmet in the 90's.
Everything else you said I pretty much agreed with (except for TV shows being better back then. HBO, AMC, FX and Showtime revolutionized TV... plus 'Lost').