I definitely get that the idea of the government controlling wealth-producing institutions is what people are afraid of when we talk about socialism. But to say that one is any different than the other is what's absurd to me.
But it is different. People developed government for the very reasons for the most basic of necessities. You can't say that the Romans building roads before the time of Christ is socialism when concepts like socialism weren't even around and were designed to several purposes beyond just economics. Basic law and order aren't exclusive to socialism.
For instance, you postulate that no private institution will ever build roads because they are not profitable. Certain (in fact many) pureblooded capitalists, including anarcho-capitalists would disagree with you there.
Except how will one be able to profit off of emergency services? People aren't going to subscribe to a police service. People aren't going to pay for the privilege to drive on Main Street. But at the same time, these are essential services that need to exist.
Prison is another topic entirely, but by today's prison standards, we can very easily see how that can be used as a profitable enterprise.
I would say that the prison system is an example of a government service that shouldn't be privatized. Considering the poor conditions, the borderline slavery, etc.
I guess where our opinions clashed seemed to be roads/Fire Depts. Because it sounds like you agree schools, healthcare, and public transit are in the realm of socialism. Where some would consider these things general public services.
I will certainly agree that they are considered to be general public services, even I consider them to be general public services. But it's far, far, far easier to develop a private alternative for organizations to profit off of these things than it is off of emergency services and roads.
Before governments around the world started offering public alternatives to these products, they were primarily controlled by private hands. All government did, was expand accessibility to those who wouldn't be able to afford such services beforehand. Vastly different as opposed to something that would not exist period without government like roads and emergency services.
And quick note, I would agree with Kelly (and most Americans) that Public schools suck. But I'd rather have crap public schools than no public schools (granted, having never seen the alternative myself).
It's not like I'm denouncing general public services like public schools. I don't see socialism as a dirty word that many unfortunately do. There are somethings that the Marxists do get right (While it has failed in government and economics, they do have valid critiques when it comes to foreign policy and history). And without government providing these general services, they would be restricted only to the elites who can afford it.
My annoyance with the everything is socialist argument is essentially the same with the right using it. They denounce things like Obamacare, gun control, basic rules and regulations as socialist when they really aren't.