mego joe
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I'll acknowledge we don't know exactly what happened in the past. When I was first watching the film I liked the thought of it being similar to "Superman II". So they had a brief time together but it ended tragically so it made him more lonely. Then when news about Krypton being found happened he leaped at the chance for him not being alone after all. I grant you it is probably wrong but I liked it.
That said if it turns out something else occured and he made a bigger mistake by something like your third option. Then I could be more forgiving. Though we don't know what happened before he left with his relationship with Lois. Sure they'd been intimate. But don't know the circumstances of it. Plus there's more than one possibility there. All we know is he wanted to see Krypton and felt he couldn't do that if he told her. It was a mistake he pays for in many ways. I don't think my condemning is needed. Especially as he learns from it later on.
See, the fact that we don't know what happened makes it almost impossible to really understand his motivation, and that to me is a failure of the filmmaking.
I know for a fact in the comics he's done far worse to her than that and I don't even know 1% of it. In the Silver Age he'd do a whole lot of crap to Lois as well as Lana. But it's been too long since I've read them for me to give more recent examples.
As I said before he didn't know he had a child and probably that he could have a child in the first place. And I'm sorry you couldn't care for him.
Whether or not he knew about the child is irrelevant, if you are in a sexual relationship with someone you have certain responsibilities, and I' know we've had this conversation before about time between Jason's conception and him leaving and when Lois realized she was pregnant, so I'll not rehash it all, except to say that since we don't the context, it's another example of poor filmmaking by not making the context clear so that the character's motivations are understandable.
Hazily 'cos I don't think I ever watched it. Then there's that film "Three Men and a Baby".
You've never read fan fiction? 'Cos you can read all sorts on the internet.![]()
No, don't have a lot of free time.
People claiming he's not Superman. Hate that. But I get that not everyone likes the film.
Do you at least understnand why we say "he's not Superman?"
As I said before the comics have a history of him doing crap to Lois delibrately and more maliciously. Here's one example:
He shows Lois a box and tells her not to open it. She does (when he's not there) and touches a statue, it makes her eyes emit green beams. Superman acts weakened and so it's kryptonite. This makes Lois move to a remote part of Alaska for months. They discover a "cure" and Clark flys by helicopter to her with Jimmy I think. She decides to test to see if Clark is Superman; he doesn't react. She's cured and her eyes are back to normal. It turns out Superman did this to her deliberately and the green light was harmless to him (doesn't tell her too).
My point is there is a long and varied history when it comes to Superman.
I think the context of a story is what is reveals a character's motivations and intentions and the true nature of his actions.
Without reading the story above it's obvious it was one of the types of stories in which Superman concocts an elaborate scheme in order to convince Lois he's really not Clark Kent. In the context of those stories Superman and Lois are not in a sexual relationship, they are not in a serious dating relationship and Superman and if she discovered that Clark was Superman it would pose a danger to her (Lois) as well as the integrity of his mission as Superman. Part of the context of the stories of that era was that Superman was a confirmed batchelor and would not entertain the notion of a serious relationship b/c he chose to be 100% commited to his 'job' as Superman and any deep entanglements would compromise his ability to perform his 'job' as Superman.
Now in that context, is it really malicious? Was Lois hurt in anyway? Wasn't he protecting his ability to be SUperman and keep Lois at bay from discovering his identity and putting herself in danger. Certainly you don't think that Superman was just being mean to Lois on purpose for the sake of being mean?
He's an alien that has grown up on Earth and uses his powers to help the world. Not for selfish reasons. Sounds like the Superman I know and love. As for a personal life that has varied in history from having none to being married. "Superman Returns" has added to that history.
See, I think the public actions and private actions go hand in hand to fully develop the character and you can't have one without the other and be consistent.
He can have an almost non-existent private life or be married, but he should always act in a certain way towards the people he cares about and he loves. If he is depicted in a relationship with Lois he should act a certain way based on the fact that he is a good person that cares for other people and who is not selfish. If he is in a sexual relationship with Lois then he would certainly explain his actions for leaving Earth. If he was not in a committed relationship of any sort he might not. But the context of the relationship would determine the actions. But in any circumstance if he thought he would hurt her by not saying goodbye, he would certainly make the effort to explain himself b/c he is not selfish. But in SR the only explanation that is given for him not telling Lois is that is difficult, not what other explanation is there for him not saying goodbye except that he is avoiding his own pain and responsibility. Why would a person that is unselfish do this? That is out of character,is it not?
On people that don't know - I'm thinking they have have to start somewhere to see or experience the character. Like kids for instance as well as others that haven't experienced him before. I think that he does do good things and even sacrifices for the world in the film. It nearly kills him and he knew it could. And he even had to choose between Metropolis and Lois at one point.
But as a man in is personal life he is a complete bastard to Lois and unable to fulfill his moral and ethical obligations as a father. How does that fit in with the character? And SR is certainly no place for young kids to get their first exposure to the character. Besides being wrong(ha ha) it is not appropriate for young children.
But the majority of people are going to have their first exposure to Supreman via comics where he doesn't act the way he does in SR.
That's a difficult one to answer. Because I could say something and then find someone did a story that I liked and I was wrong. Because in theory if they change his powers and have him murdering the bad guys and being a general bastard.
See, that's what I get from SR. In SR in his private life he is a complete bastard to Lois and there is not that dichotomy in his character. He is consistently good, caring and thougtful in both his private and public life. If you change that you are changing the fundamental characterization of the man.
That comes to mind. But you never know someone might be able to write something that I could accept especially if there was an acceptable twist. See I think I am more accepting of different versions. I may have preferences but they're not absolutes for me. That said I can and do disagree with stuff. But I'd have to read or experience it to do so.
There are mulitple versions, but in my experience, which is quite varied, the only version in which he comes off as a complete bastard is SR. I'm not being extreme to make a point, but since SR came out, I've gone back and re-read ALL my Superman comics and bought new Trade Paperbacks to explore more versions of the character and I haven't found anything to change my mind.
In all my experience, his motivations are pure, his intentions are of the highest ethical standards and he cares more for others than he does about himself, and he would do anything to protect Lois from harm and would never intentionally harm her or wrong her. To me that is exactly what he does though in Superman Returns by doing one of the things:
1. Entered into a sexual relaionship with Lois when he was not truly committed her.
2. Emotionally abandonned Lois and any child he may have conceived with her.
3. Chose to not say goodbye in order to avoid his own pain and knew it was the wrong thing to do, otherwise he wouldn't have come to the conclusion that it was difficult.
4. Showed a weak moral and ethical character by believing he could not still go to Krypton if he was honest with her.
To me, there is no context that eliminates all these possibilities and therefore, leaves the character unrecognizable as Superman by this characterization.
On the fans thing I've answered that - I think they are one-eyed about something. It could be thgey favour one actor above everything and can't accept anyone else. Or they have preconceived ideas on what Superman is and can't accept any version that differs from them. And some of us are more accepting of different versions. By the way I love the film so I don't think it's second best or less. And it's not the only version I love either.
As I've said his private life has varied so much in his history from being pretty non-existant to being married. There's no definative version. An even the comics have had him have personal problems. But I haven't read them for a long time and have only heard about most of them (vaguely). Then there's "Lois and Clark" that involved hijinks too (been too long again). It happens.
It's all about context. You can explain actions differently be context. While there's no definitive version of the details of his private life, I think there is a definitive version of his characterization. And it's not the details of his private life, married or not married that matter but how he acts in that private life and the context in which events happen. Isn't having sex with Lois different depending on if they are in a committed relationship or not? WIth the lack of context, it is hard to make sense of his motivations, and the little explanation doesn't seem congruent with the way you would expect SUperman to act, so in order to make it believable there has to be that 'twist' you mention to make the story plausible and believable and SR doesn not do that. SImply saying it was too difficult for him is not part of the characterization for SUperman especially when the alternative is hurting the woman he loves.
In life too that things can be going well somewhere and disasterously elsewhere. Even the Spider-Man films have this but I guess you'll say that's not Superman.
You are right. But it is valid b/c Superman is not Spider-Man. Their characters are very different. From the very beginning Spider-Man's character has always revolved around his personal issues, but except for learning the lesson of 'with great power comes great responsibility' Spider-Man's issues were not due to him knowingly choosing to do the wrong thing. Superman learned his lessons of power and responsibility growing up with the Kents. He grew up learning about his power and he grew with it and learned his lessons as he matured. Peter had his power thrust upon him suddenly. The are two very different stories and they have always had different approaches
Must go.
Angeloz
Me too, my daughter's flipping out!


