Worst argument you had with your significant other?

[GoldenAgeHero]

im pretty we've all been through those arguments that leads to you apologizing to one another for the things you said. so what are the worsts ones you have had? how did it go down?

 

[Revolver_Ocelot]

It usually goes like this (for me, anyway)

Her: You're so mean!
Me: And your ass is fat

 

[Mr. Thing]

It was over a pair of gloves. It wasn't a terrible argument but it was the worst we've had. We don't even argue that much.

 

[pyromaniac]

Almost every argument was usually attributed to an aspect of my other half's personality - whether it be a brain defect, lapse in communication and understanding, overplaying or underplaying the severity of the situation and my position and emotions, and the circumstances and his attitude to his life.

And almost every argument usually ended up with an apology on his part and that I turn out to be 'right' - it's just a matter of time. Just wished it weren't always so frustrating and dismal in between: would save a lot of negative energy and effort.

Bwah.

But we haven't argued lately, which is good!

 

[blind_fury]

My blow-up doll has been giving me this weird look lately but we haven't had a full blown argument yet.

*crosses fingers*

 

[Dorian Gray]

My current girlfriend always accuses me of flirting or gazng at another women, which I never do. She's pretty possesive, it may be because of her Bipolar. I can't imagine how that feels.

 

[muertevilla]

worst argument i ever got into was with my ex. she got all upset because i would buy maxim magazines. she would always ask me, "Does it move? When you look at those (fine, beautiful, young women)< [not really what she said] does it move? Do you wish i looked like that?"

and me being the honest guy that i am answered YES

 

[Erzengel]

im pretty we've all been through those arguments that leads to you apologizing to one another for the things you said. so what are the worsts ones you have had? how did it go down?

Do we have a specific example?

 

[Ben Urich]

In terms of the stupidest subject we've fought over, uh... the part of my hair.

 

[November Rain]

Well one of her previous boyfriends had to go back to sri Lanka because he was basically forced to have an arranged marriage by his folks and he never returned to the UK.

She goes a lil crazy during her time of the month and this time she started asking me whether my bros were going to have to marry Nigerian girls. I said perhaps, she assumed that meant i would also had to.

I had no reasonable defence because i couldn't exactly say 'it's alright, i'm anti-marriage anyway .'

so she basically layed into me about how i was using her and how i shouldn't have let her develop feelings for me and that I should start dating nigerian women. It was strange because she was deeply upset as she was crying fairly heavily but remained calm in her tone. I guess it didn't help that i said this kinda thing has happened to me before, she must have perceived me to be a cruel hearted man who was able to easily detach himself from his emotions and walk away (which is exactly what i did).

It's a shame when something out of your control ends up dictacting large portions of your life and potential happiness.

the relationship ended very soon afterwards.

*sniff*

 

[Erzengel]

As much as sometimes there's no filter or gate when it comes to my thoughts or comments, coming out of my mouth, there's always a little voice inside of me that prevents very nasty comments to come out during heated arguements.

Mainly because I'm a big believer in when it said, you can't take it back, even after you apologize to that person it's still out there.

 

[Rambo, John J]

What are the worsts ones you have had?

The one before we broke up. I would have thought that would have been obvious...

 

[Zaed]

i think most married fellas fall into the same category as me here.

the top 5 things in no particular order that my wife have arguements over are...
1. money - she likes to spend it. i'd rather have more of it saved away.

2. who does more at home - cleaning, etc.

3. in laws - she doesnt get along well my family while i get along great with hers.

4. children - how to raise them. she's very liberal and hands off. im more concerned.

5. politics - she's very liberal and im more conservative

 

[The Fonz]

My worst arguments are always over my womanizing and my "commitment issues".

 

[Kipobe]

I'd have to say the biggest argument I had was the time I found out my ex-wife was dating Ron Goldman. She really cut me, so I cut her.

Par for the course, I say.

 

[kane9321]

my fiancee's sister came to town for a visit from texas(last month),so we did the whole (sf,bay area tours..golden gate bridge, alcatraz,cable car thing,fun stuff).I guess i was spending too much money on her sister because once she left to go back to texas...my soon to be other chewed me a new ahole,talking about "i spent soooo much money on her"...and accused me of wanting to "bang" her kid sister.Yeah we got into a nice silly heated argument last month folks

 

[kane9321]

my fiancee's sister came to town for a visit from texas(last month),so we did the whole (sf,bay area tours..golden gate bridge, alcatraz,cable car thing,fun stuff).I guess i was spending too much money on her sister because once she left to go back to texas...my soon to be other chewed me a new ahole,talking about "i spent soooo much money on her"...and accused me of wanting to "bang" her kid sister.Yeah we got into a nice silly heated argument last month folks

 

[War Lord]

My blow-up doll has been giving me this weird look lately but we haven't had a full blown argument yet.

*crosses fingers*

All those Italian beauties must be pretty submissive.

 

[Erzengel]

my fiancee's sister came to town for a visit from texas(last month),so we did the whole (sf,bay area tours..golden gate bridge, alcatraz,cable car thing,fun stuff).I guess i was spending too much money on her sister because once she left to go back to texas...my soon to be other chewed me a new ahole,talking about "i spent soooo much money on her"...and accused me of wanting to "bang" her kid sister.Yeah we got into a nice silly heated argument last month folks

Your fiance sounds insecure.

 

[kane9321]

^^^I've never seen her act like that before...mmmmph

 

[Ronny Shade]

The trick is not to argue, just to stop speaking to them.

 

[Erzengel]

^^^I've never seen her act like that before...mmmmph

Maybe you never gave her a reason to be suspicous. Not that you were doing anything wrong, but if you don't really have any other female interaction outside of her or a professional environment, the first opportunity she jumped on you for it.

 

[Zaed]

my fiancee's sister came to town for a visit from texas(last month),so we did the whole (sf,bay area tours..golden gate bridge, alcatraz,cable car thing,fun stuff).I guess i was spending too much money on her sister because once she left to go back to texas...my soon to be other chewed me a new ahole,talking about "i spent soooo much money on her"...and accused me of wanting to "bang" her kid sister.Yeah we got into a nice silly heated argument last month folks

Post a pic of your soon to be sister in law and we'll tell you if your fiancee is right or not. chances are she is...

 

[PLAS]

thankfully, my life partner (I refuse to call her girlfriend) and I had been very good friends many years before we started our relationship, so when we started dating and subsequentially moved in together, it was a most natural thing, and since we started, as far as I remember, other than the typical "where's my left shoe?", "damn it, it's late, get up, we gotta get to work", "I told you to pick that up", etc. kind of arguments, which last no more than three minutes, we never fight or anything... we do disagree in some stuff, but it's nothing we can't talk over like civilized human beings

people have told us that type of behaviour is unnatural and might end up affecting our relationship in the long run, because supposedly, there's nothing like make up sex and all that fantasy bull**** people tell themselves whenever they try to justify their stupidity

I feel really lucky and blessed to share my life with someone who thinks and would rather use reason before an argument

 

[Ronny Shade]

thankfully, my life partner (I refuse to call her girlfriend) and I had been very good friends many years before we started our relationship, so when we started dating and subsequentially moved in together, it was a most natural thing, and since we started, as far as I remember, other than the typical "where's my left shoe?", "damn it, it's late, get up, we gotta get to work", "I told you to pick that up", etc. kind of arguments, which last no more than three minutes, we never fight or anything... we do disagree in some stuff, but it's nothing we can't talk over like civilized human beings

people have told us that type of behaviour is unnatural and might end up affecting our relationship in the long run, because supposedly, there's nothing like make up sex and all that fantasy bull**** people tell themselves whenever they try to justify their stupidity

I feel really lucky and blessed to share my life with someone who thinks and would rather use reason before an argument

Careful. I had an English teacher who did that in high school. People might think you're gay.