Worst argument you had with your significant other?

jaguarr said:
Have you ever been married or in a relationship that's lasted longer than a year? :)

jag

are you going to say being ***** whiped is a good thing? im all for compromises, but having your wife control aspects of you're descsion to grow facial hair, sems very unnerving. that pissed off mode you went into was the feelings of you tired of her *****ing and saying to yourself that you wanted to feckin grow your goatee and to leave you the feck alone. but it gotto the point where you were just sick of it and decided to just go with it and shave it off.

come on man, stop foolin yourself. no one has to be in relationship to understand when a person does'nt want to do something and is continually hounded by someone(a freind or a loved one) not only does it hurts, but you just get to the point where you finally cave in just for that person to stop hounding you. it's called peer pressure, but in your case, ***** whipping.
 
When you love someone it makes you happy to do things you know will make them happy. :huh:
 
GoldenAgeHero said:
are you going to say being ***** whiped is a good thing? im all for compromises, but having your wife control aspects of you're descsion to grow facial hair, sems very unnerving. that pissed off mode you went into was the feelings of you tired of her *****ing and saying to yourself that you wanted to feckin grow your goatee and to leave you the feck alone. but it gotto the point where you were just sick of it and decided to just go with it and shave it off.

come on man, stop foolin yourself. no one has to be in relationship to understand when a person does'nt want to do something and is continually hounded by someone(a freind or a loved one) not only does it hurts, but you just get to the point where you finally cave in just for that person to stop hounding you. it's called peer pressure, but in your case, ***** whipping.

Let me put it this way, just as a spouse has the right to decide if she'll sleep with you, she also has the right to expect you to carry yourself in a way that she finds attractive.

Dig?
 
GoldenAgeHero said:
are you going to say being ***** whiped is a good thing? im all for compromises, but having your wife control aspects of you're descsion to grow facial hair, sems very unnerving. that pissed off mode you went into was the feelings of you tired of her *****ing and saying to yourself that you wanted to feckin grow your goatee and to leave you the feck alone. but it gotto the point where you were just sick of it and decided to just go with it and shave it off.

come on man, stop foolin yourself. no one has to be in relationship to understand when a person does'nt want to do something and is continually hounded by someone(a freind or a loved one) not only does it hurts, but you just get to the point where you finally cave in just for that person to stop hounding you. it's called peer pressure, but in your case, ***** whipping.

I can see by your answer that you have never been in a long-term relationship or been married and therefore have absolutely zero idea of what it takes to make such a relationship work, particularly with regard to the topic of compromise. Thank you for your candor, neophyte.

jag
 
War Lord said:
You're still young. In time, your totesterone might kick in.

i have plenty of facial hiar my friend. and if you want i'll share my pubes with you so you can claim them as yours, so that those girls you have over won't be turned off by your 9 year old looking body.
 
GoldenAgeHero said:
are you going to say being ***** whiped is a good thing? im all for compromises, but having your wife control aspects of you're descsion to grow facial hair, sems very unnerving. that pissed off mode you went into was the feelings of you tired of her *****ing and saying to yourself that you wanted to feckin grow your goatee and to leave you the feck alone. but it gotto the point where you were just sick of it and decided to just go with it and shave it off.

come on man, stop foolin yourself. no one has to be in relationship to understand when a person does'nt want to do something and is continually hounded by someone(a freind or a loved one) not only does it hurts, but you just get to the point where you finally cave in just for that person to stop hounding you. it's called peer pressure, but in your case, ***** whipping.

Yeah you do.

There's line between being ***** whipped and being considerate of someone else's feelings. Choosing your battles and compromising.

If you think when you have a relationship, it's all "well this is how I am and a girl can either learn to live with it or get the f 'out", you are very naive and in for a rude awakening when you have one that lasts for a while.
 
GoldenAgeHero said:
i have plenty of facial hiar my friend. and if you want i'll share my pubes with you so you can claim them as yours, so that those girls you have over won't be turned off by your 9 year old looking body.

People who brag about what they have, usually don't.
 
Erzengel said:
Yeah you do.

There's line between being ***** whipped and being considerate of someone else's feelings. Choosing your battles and compromising.

If you think when you have a relationship, "it's all well this is how I am and a girl can either learn to live with it or get the f 'out", you are very naive and in for a rude awakening when you have one that lasts for a while.

I was gonna just let him find out for himself, Erz.

jag
 
War Lord said:
People who brag about what they have, usually don't.

where was i bragging about having facial hair. i was simply claiming what was true.
 
GoldenAgeHero said:
where was i bragging about having facial hair. i was simply claiming what was true.

You say it's true, but only your hairdresser knows for sure.
 
GoldenAgeHero said:
cheer up buddy

Hate to break it to you, but you are so far off base on this one it's not even funny. Interesting how any guy that's in or has been in a long-term relationship knows exactly what I'm talking about yet it's escaped you entirely. You're still a virgin, aren't you?

jag
 
jaguarr said:
Hate to break it to you, but you are so far off base on this one it's not even funny. Interesting how any guy that's in or has been in a long-term relationship knows exactly what I'm talking about yet it's escaped you entirely. You're still a virgin, aren't you?

jag

Even I'm aware of that it's in one's own interest to keep himself attractive to his partner as much as possible.
 
Erzengel said:
Yeah you do.

There's line between being ***** whipped and being considerate of someone else's feelings. Choosing your battles and compromising.

If you think when you have a relationship, it's all "well this is how I am and a girl can either learn to live with it or get the f 'out", you are very naive and in for a rude awakening when you have one that lasts for a while.

yeah his wife was sure being considerate of his feelings.

i'll settle with living in my own naive little world.
 
jaguarr said:
I was gonna just let him find out for himself, Erz.

jag

Honestly, I have the feeling that the next girl GAH falls for, he will bend over backwards and cater to and all this about being "***** whip" and bravado will quickly fall by the wayside. :o
 
Erzengel said:
Honestly, I have the feeling that the next girl GAH falls for, he will bend over backwards and cater to and all this about being "***** whip" and bravado will quickly fall by the wayside. :o

It's a scenario that's played out in the annals of history repeatedly. In the meantime, he can continue to enjoy his hand while dreaming of someday actually being with a real live woman while the rest of us actually are.

jag
 
Erzengel said:
Honestly, I have the feeling that the next girl GAH falls for, he will bend over backwards and cater to and all this about being "***** whip" and bravado will quickly fall by the wayside. :o

nope, i've observed too much just to let people walk over me.


*awaits this so called rude awakining*
 
jaguarr said:
It's a scenario that's played out in the annals of history repeatedly. In the meantime, he can continue to enjoy his hand while dreaming of someday actually being with a real live woman while the rest of us actually are.

jag

Rest of us?!?

Are you telling me to keep up the good fight because there's hope?
 
GoldenAgeHero said:
nope, i've observed too much just to let people walk over me.


*awaits this so called rude awakining*

Yeah, because watching a game is so much exactly like playing in it. :whatever:
 
War Lord said:
Even I'm aware of that it's in one's own interest to keep himself attractive to his partner as much as possible.

There is that side of it. There's also LISTENING to your partner and understanding when you're doing something that's very upsetting to them. I wasn't really listening to my wife over that issue and it turned out to be something that she felt VERY strongly about. Had I listened more closely to her, maybe I would have understood that before it came to a head. Particularly since it wasn't really THAT big of a deal to me that I have a goatee when it came right down to it. Considering that there is very little need for compromise between my wife and I as we are both very understanding of each other's needs and usually on the same wave length, it's not really that big of a deal to compromise on something that she feels incredibly strong about and that I ultimately really don't care about. In a relationship like a marriage, compromise is necessary sometimes. I'm lucky that I really don't have to make many compromises and that my wife let's me be who I am and do what I want without trying to change any of that. She truly loves me for who I am, and I feel the same about her. I'm very appreciative of the fact that not every guy in a long-term relationship or marriage is able to say that.

jag
 
Erzengel said:
Yeah, because watching a game is so much exactly like playing in it. :whatever:

unless you played the matrix games and was involved with columbine sure.
 
War Lord said:
Rest of us?!?

Are you telling me to keep up the good fight because there's hope?

You know what? Yeah, I am. Aside from your being a sociopath, there's no reason you couldn't find someone to love you, Jonty.

jag
 

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