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http://dir.salon.com/story/books/review/2005/01/12/lincoln/index.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abraham_Lincoln's_sexuality
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abraham_Lincoln's_sexuality
Lincoln's relationships with other men
Abraham Lincoln is known to have lived for four years with Joshua Fry Speed, when both men were in their twenties. They shared a bed during these years and developed a friendship that would last until their deaths. Carl Sandburg in 1926 implied[citation needed] that this relationship was sexual.
Others have argued that Lincoln and Speed shared a bed because of their financial circumstances, and that at the time it was not unusual for two men to share a bed -- as is not now - indeed, that Lincoln was open about the fact that they had shared a bed is seen by some historians as an indication that their relationship was in no way romantic.
Lincoln shared beds with several other men during his life, both earlier in his New Salem days, during his days riding the legal circuit in Illinois and Indiana, and later even while president. However, none of these lasted as long as Lincoln's bed-sharing with Speed. Amongst these was an army officer, David Derickson, assigned to Lincoln's bodyguard in 1862. Several sources characterize the relationship between the two as intimate, and it was the subject of gossip in Washington at the time (although it is unclear whether this gossip was about the possibility of a homosexual relationship). They shared a bed during the absences of Lincoln's wife, until Derickson was promoted in 1863. Again, Tripp interpreted this as a sexual affair. Derickson married twice and fathered 10 children, though Tripp did not consider this to be definite evidence of heterosexuality. Lincoln's stepmother, Sarah Bush Lincoln, is also reported to have said that Lincoln "never took much interest in the girls".
Lincoln met Speed in Springfield, Illinois, in 1837. When Speed left Lincoln and returned to his native Kentucky in 1841, on the eve of Lincoln's marriage to Mary Todd, Lincoln is believed to have suffered something approaching clinical depression. The book Lincoln's Preparation for Greatness: The Illinois Legislative Years by the late Illinois Senator Paul Simon has a chapter covering the period that Lincoln later referred to as "The Fatal First," which was January 1, 1841. That was "the date on which Lincoln asked to be released from his engagement to Mary Todd." Simon explains that the various reasons the engagement was broken contradict one another and it was not fully documented, but he did become unusually depressed, which showed in his appearance, and that "it was traceable to Mary Todd, the socially prominent young lady he had been courting." Simon argues that Lincoln was never a "ladies' man," and that his prior unhappiness in courtship had never affected him so much as on this occasion. Various issues in Lincoln's young life at that time included politics, his law firm, Joshua Speed's moving away, and Mary's relatives disapproving of their relationship. Some local people said at the time that he "went crazy," and a letter written to one of Lincoln's colleagues stated, "We have been very much distressed, on Mr. Lincoln's account; hearing that he had two Cat fits and a Duck fit since we left." Another account said that Lincoln was "having some 'painful' experiences in his romantic life." Lincoln still attended sessions of the Illinois House of Representatives on a regular basis, and even worked at his new law firm during this time. But his work suffered greatly and he described himself as "the most miserable man living," and said "I must die or be better, it appears to me." During this time, he avoided seeing Mary, causing her to comment that he "deems me unworthy of notice."
Joshua Speed married Fanny Hennings February 15, 1842, and the two men seem to have consulted each other about married life. Mary Todd and Lincoln were brought together again by friends, and then married with little advance notice on November 4, 1842. Nine months later, August 1, 1843, their first child, Robert Todd Lincoln, was born. Despite having some political differences over slavery, Lincoln and Speed corresponded for the rest of their lives and Lincoln appointed Joshua's brother, James Speed, to his cabinet as Attorney General.
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