Jesus ****ing Christ, dude, RELAX. 
You're the only one that seems angry. This seems to be a usual thing too, especially when people have not seen eye to eye on something with you. :|
Maybe we expected too much, maybe we didn't.
But it is underwhelming and disappointing. ESPECIALLY for a reveal trailer... that's supposed to make the consumer think "Hey! This looks pretty damn cool..."
The only highlights were the glimpses of Spidey. That's it. 
I'm sure this game will be fine, but considering how good the NYCC trailer was, I think they would have been better off showing mostly gameplay with maybe a glimpse of a battle between Spidey and the robots.
If they wanted to show a trailer for the game, showing a generic "ROBOTS ERRYWHERE!" trailer wasn't the way to do it. 
But it is just a launch trailer, so I'll reserve my opinion.