So do we think re-telling the origin story was a good thing? For the overal story progressing through movies?
No, it wasn't a good thing, esepecially since they didn't understand the origin or tried to change it so it wasn't fresh, but in doing that made it lose the core meaning. I'm not talking about the spider bite, I don't see that as the origin, the origin is Uncle Ben's death and it was handled very poorly. The biggest key part is Peter using his powers for selfish reasons, for personal gain, that didn't happen in Amazing Spider-man, why was Peter out of the house the night of Uncle Ben's murder becasuse of the fight between him and Ben about not picking May up. However, it doesn't hit the responsibility angle at all, it skirts around it, but Peter was at a high tech lab helping a prestigious scienetist, tell Ben and May that's where you're at, they'd understand. In every other incarnation he's away because he's using those powers for personal gain, has a huge head and looking out for number 1, it's not revenge or anything it's arrogance and ego. Having Peter not catch the guy that night also delays the transformation for no reason. Peter catches the guy and the Great Power/Responsibity line sinks in, he's Spider-man, he doesn't need Capt. Stacy to tell him. It should be Uncle Ben that changes him not Stacy
Where does it hint or confirm that Gwen will become Spider-Man's sidekick in the activities he takes part of? Her going to Oscorp to make the cure was a one-time exception since Peter couldn't get there in time and that was before the promise too.
I never thought she would be his sidekick, how does he/we know it's a one-time exception with the cure. He goes to her after one of his fights with the Lizard so she can help him recover. She knows his identity, she's totally at risk. I just think the promise should've lasted into the next movie, it was something I really liked about the original Spider-man, Peter walked away from the girl. They do get together, but at first he walks away becuase his life is too dangerous.
a carjacker and a lizard man trying to turn the city into lizards is totally different
the carjacker spidey was messing with, the city was in danger with the lizard at the end
Spider-man's joking would've actually been better suited during the fight with the Lizard because it serves too purposes, one, distract the villian and secondly it's a defense mechanism, it keeps Peter from freaking out in such a dangerous sitituation.