Collecting anything is always pretty embarrassing. Back in the old days, were collecting stamps or coins embarrassing? Probably not at the same level as action figures.Right now, collecting action figures will be seen as 40-Year Old Virginish by young generations (people less than 40 years old). Anyone older than 40 will see it as immature and not-grown-up. As a toy collector myself, I prefer the immature/not-grown-up stereotype.There is nothing wrong with being oneself and doing what makes one happy, but collecting action figures is ashame-worthy, mainly due to the process of the hobby. Buying up all the "cool" figures early in the morning before children have a chance to see them is certainly ashame-worthy. And the majority of toy-collectors are like this, even the non-extreme ones. Can you imagine growing up now watching the 80s G.I. Joe cartoon and not being able to find a Snake Eyes or Storm Shadow action figure in the stores? Well imagine how a kid will feel. He might not even realize certain action figures exist because they are never seen on the toy rack. There are kids who buy Marvel Legends and D.C. Direct figures and there are never good ones on the rack, because of collectors. If stamp collecting was as extreme as action-figure collecting, it would be like one going to the Post Office to buy stamps, but they are out of stamps because all the collectors got them first.Opening up figures (geeky) or keeping them in the package (more geeky) is just two different categories how we collectors differentiate ourselves. People who don't collect action figures don't give a rat's ass whether we open them up or not. It's all "40-year old Virgin" to them.Another embarrassing element of action-figure collecting is how people display them. I'm sorry but the majority of the way people display figures are pretty depressing. The trick is to tastefully display them without them looking like the way you displayed them when you were 10 years old. It's like being 40 years old and you still have posters of Cindy Crawford or Van Halen posters thumbtacked or messily taped to the wall. That may be fine if you are single and if you want to stay single, but if you are in relationships or have family, that's pretty sad. Since you are old,at least get a super-fancy frame for the posters so that it looks like you are poking fun at pop culture. Out of all the online photos of action figure displays, maybe 10 percent of them are aesthically displayed. The rest look like 40-year old virgin displays, 10-year old room displays, or like walking in a toy store.So, yes, I will always continue toy collecting because I like it, but it doesnt mean that it's not embarrassing. Sure everyone supports each other here, but if this was a forum for Obese people, people would be supporting each other's fatness as well, but that doesn't make it something to be proud of.