Are you vengeful or forgiving?

Zaed

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Let's say that in the past someone wronged you to the point that you felt your life was over. Like your best friend and girlfriend cheating on you or a co worker getting you fired unjustly.

Now you have an opportunity to repay the person back for their misdeed.

Do you do it?
 
i'm neither, such events really don't affect me enough to be either.
 
If I ever see my cheating ex again, I'm gonna hit her with my car.

I tend to hold a pretty bad grudge... so I guess that makes me vengeful.
 
November Rain said:
i'm neither, such events really don't affect me enough to be either.


Well maybe those events dont effect you.
What about someone breaks into your families home to rob you and in the process they kill your parents and your siblings?
 
Like anything, it depends on the circumstances.

I myself try to be forgiving, but I think a lot of times I can be quite petty.
 
Zaed said:
Well maybe those events dont effect you.
What about someone breaks into your families home to rob you and in the process they kill your parents and your siblings?
then it means their time has come, being angry at someone for doing so isn't going to bring them back so why should i bother wasting my energy.

besides, personal belongings can be replaced and sentimental ones don't necessarily have to be there in order for you to conjur up the emotions and time period they represent.
 
Zaed said:
Well maybe those events dont effect you.
What about someone breaks into your families home to rob you and in the process they kill your parents and your siblings?
I wouldn't be able to forgive that. Vengeance would figure in my plans from that day on. :csad:
 
It depends on the circumstances but most of the time I can't be bothered to be vengeful. If you hurt me, I'll give you sh1t right then and there. Forgive? Maybe. But I surely won't forget.
 
I don't know...

I've tried to forgive the people who have wronged me many times, but I always end up being hurt agian...

I'm starting to just not care, bury it inside of me and hope the feelings will go away.
 
Vengeful. My wrath is both swift and brutal. If I care enough that is. I forget a lot but forgive nothing.
 
It depends on the circumstances and what happen, what they done.

So I would say I'm a bit of both.
 
depends on who it is....

i'm more likely to forgive women or close male freinds....but then again i'm more likely to hold a long grudge against someone but eventualy forget about it....

i'd say vengeful cause i'm going to kill that bloody ***** at my work:cmad:
 
Forgiving, but that doesn't mean I forget.

I still say nasty things about people who've wronged me, if provoked.
 
Forgiving.Because the people are pitiful and not worth my time,people who are vengeful are just as sad as those they hold a grudge with.
 
Way to judge others. :o

Is it breezy up there on your horse?
 
The Emperor is not as forgiving as I am.

Dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun dun.......

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twylight said:
Way to judge others. :o

Is it breezy up there on your horse?

Well he does make the best polls on SHH. :o
 
twylight said:

As much as I love you and am devoted to seeing until your dying day, there are only so many times you can tell me "no".

But I still love you and will send you flowers every week.
 
Sometime I think I am too forgiving even to a fault but i never forget ....nope.
 
War Lord said:
As much as I love you and am devoted to seeing until your dying day, there are only so many times you can tell me "no".

But I still love you and will send you flowers every week.


I don't know if that's enough....:csad:
 

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