As a male, do you respect the female gender....honestly?

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My little team here at work is comprised of some females and males, and we wer just discussing random ****, and the topic of strip clubs came up, and we started discussing celebrities or people we found attractive. One of the girls was like, "Terrence, do you respect women?" I was like, "Yes, I like to think I do." "How can guys go around saying they respect us, yet still talk about all they want to do is get laid, or go see naked females, or stuff like that?" (she's a youngster, about 20-21 or so). And I was like, yeah, it's somewhat of a contradiction, but that's honestly how we are. I can't really explain it", and the other two dudes were nodding in agreement and like, "yeah, that's true, etc." I confess I will tell a guy that he should treat a girl with respect, yet in the same moment I will ogle a female myself, as I'm sure most of us do.
 
I know how you feel. It's a conundrum. They are our equal but at the same time you can catch yourself viewing them as nothing more than a sexual piece.
 
I respect the way they cook, clean, and suck d**k. That counts for something, right?

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*waits for the stupid lil' rat to come straight for the cheese*
 
Yeah, because all of the men that go to strip clubs are misogynistic cavemen that beat their wives when they go home. :whatever:
 
Yeeep I think I respect everybody, womans included. But as for the whole sexual angle, I'm the only guy who can sit at a table of guys talking about how hot chicks are and not really get into the conversation. :csad: I'll admit to a girl looking beautiful but they're never just tail to me.
 
i respect women probably more than i respect men. that said, i have no problem with strip clubs or porn. if that's how a girl wants to make money, more power to them.

that said, i HATE strip clubs. i don't why anyone would wanna sit in a room with a bunch of creepy guys and just look at naked girls.
 
Women are strong, capable, intelligent people, many of whom are probably stronger, more capable, and smarter than I am.

I still want to do dirty things to them, but hey... that's just how it is.

It's like how you can tell someone that you love them each and every day, yet they'll still seek validation from you constantly.
 
I'm quitting women the moment they make android hookers.
 
I once dated a feminist (yes, she was in fact pretty) and always remember having to watch what I said around her, one joke about "women's rights" and her bra would have been sealed forever :ninja:
 
i've often been wondering this lately.

i know how boys are. they're gonna look and ogle and tell their guy friends about it, but what bothers me is the guys who dont know how to talk about anything else.

maybe i'm just mad about this idiot at work, but i cant stand the guys who are constantly staring and hitting on girls and commenting on their "doable" factor before they've even left the room. the guy i'm referring to has no respect for women at all, and the day he says something wrong to me, i may have to be unladylike for a second and slap the taste out of his mouth.
 
I wonder if you'll feel the same way when they look like Monica Bellucci or Salma Hayak.
I wonder if you'll feel the same way when your lil' soldier gets caught up in some machine parts. :o
 
To your question, Yes and no.
 
Men see women, at its most flattering, as "a possibly positive addition" to himself. She's never exactly a three-dimensional being in her own right.

...But maybe we all start off thinking that pubescently. With time, we understand the awesome power a man and woman can effect, and desire it for ourselves.
 
Men see women, at its most flattering, as "a possibly positive addition" to himself. She's never exactly a three-dimensional being in her own right.

...But maybe we all start off thinking that pubescently. With time, we understand the awesome power a man and woman can effect, and desire it for ourselves.
 
I want surround sound. :cmad:
lol.
Anyway.
When it's dealing with womans I know and the duderinos all like,
"I wanna tap that."
And whatnot.
I feel.
Disgusted.
Is that normal or like, a psychotic superior feeling complex thing?
:huh:
 
Maybe you don't need peer validation as much as other people do :huh:
 
I find it best not to classify, same goes with race. If I meet a really charming intelligent woman, sure, I will respect her. When I come across an LOL OMG TTYL GR8 college soroity *****, no I willnot respect them. Especially if they abrev. everything. Same goes with race. And frankly, I think this attitude is the least racist or sexist one you can have. I'f a girl is being a dumb b-word, c-word, or even t-word, i'll call 'er out.
 
I want surround sound. :cmad:
lol.
Anyway.
When it's dealing with womans I know and the duderinos all like,
"I wanna tap that."
And whatnot.
I feel.
Disgusted.
Is that normal or like, a psychotic superior feeling complex thing?
:huh:

guys get a bad rap. we're not ALL like that. i'm not like that.


usually.
 
i respect some women. some people don't deserve respect, and being a woman doesn't earn it for you.
 

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