Maybe. Neo's will was so strong that even when Smith had finally assimilated him he was still able to destroy him. I still think Supes would have him when it was all said & done, though.
As for bringing their girls back, an ongoing theme throughout superhero mythology is that there is no more powerful motivater than love. Love was the only thing that could stop the Hulk, when all kinds of missiles, bombs, bullets, tanks & a drop from the outer atmosphere had failed. It caused both the suppression and restoral of Spider-Man's powers. Superman gladly traded his powers for it. It kept Daredevil fighting with a severe wound, against one arguably more skilled opponent & another twice his size. It even blinded Wolverine & drove Cyclops to the brink of madness. Blade knowingly walked into a trap. Villains keep kidnapping the heroes' ladies because they know it'll draw them out. You can't really rate a person's will by what they'll do in the name of this all-powerful force.